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KeiKei Shunu 06-05-2008 09:34 AM

Urgh.

Move elsewhere. I promise not everywhere has only non-virgins. :0

and even if the girls aren't virgins, it doesn't make such a huge deal if you are. And if it does, chances are they wouldnt meet your standards anyways.

thoughtlessamaya 06-05-2008 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Sutebu (Post 3325371)
Well, it's my experience that most girls have done it at least once...

I come from a town where all the girls were pretty big whores... a good chunk of them having lost their virginity at 13 to, like, 25 year olds.... yuck.. >.o

I think my real problem is that I have sort of high standards... which don't really work for me.. 'cause it's kind of hypocritical... but I can't help what I'm attracted to... u___u

Yeah, don't go with what you don't want to be with because that will make you more unhappy. I did that because I didn't want to hurt someone's feelings that I wasn't exactly attracted to. Just be patient and you'll find someone whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. Its just that some people find that person earlier than others, but that doesn't mean anything.

Sutebu 06-05-2008 09:39 AM

This has gone sort of off topic thanks to my moping.

So.. uhm..

uh...

boners?

thoughtlessamaya 06-05-2008 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Sutebu (Post 3325396)
This has gone sort of off topic thanks to my moping.

So.. uhm..

uh...

boners?

Its not upsetting anyone :]

And I like to call boners "pitching a tent" cause, well, you know.

kleinesdaisukii 06-05-2008 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by KeiKei Shunu (Post 3325380)
and even if the girls aren't virgins, it doesn't make such a huge deal if you are.

I think so too.
At least if it isn't such a huge deal for you.
I once had a virgin boy when I already had like ... 6 different partners.
It was a amazing new expierence for me too and we both enjoyed it a lot. :]

Sutebu 06-05-2008 09:44 AM

It's a somewhat huge deal for me.. >___>

I'm an insanely jealous kind of guy... so I like to think that I'm the only one... especially if it's a girl I really love... the idea that she might have been with other guys would probably tear my up inside.. D:

Also, pitching a tent is common... but I've gotta say... the only time I can think of a guy possibly being embarrassed about being seen is in school... I guess it's because otherwise, it's somewhat easy to hide.. and if you're exposed, you want it to be seen anyway.

KeiKei Shunu 06-05-2008 09:45 AM

I dunno, before I lost my virginity, and was with a boyfriend, I used to LOVE "tainting" the younger guys. Aka, flirting and making them blush. It was highly attractive.

>.> I'd be such a "sexy older woman" with a "golddigger" boyfriend. XD

So basically, I think "innocent" guys are sweet. They're extremely hot. And irresistible to a bunch of people. XD Oh jeez, I sound like such a creeper.


But yeah, boners... :3
>\\\\\\\\> I like them. I like the look, feel, and everything. >.> Not necessarily in a sexual way even, like 'Oh, now we're gonna have sex!" but more, just.. it's beautiful. :3

>.> I love the human body. It's aesthetically pleasing, and artistically beautiful. :3

And I love the taboo sexiness of a boner in public. :3

Sutebu 06-05-2008 09:47 AM

Ehehehe.. that makes me think of other things in public.. >____>

*guilty of a couple things done in public places* <____<

kleinesdaisukii 06-05-2008 09:47 AM

Mmmh, well, the thought that I'm spending the rest of my life with a guy without having ever had sex with a other one kinda ... scares me. o.o;

Sutebu 06-05-2008 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by kleinesdaisukii (Post 3325413)
Mmmh, well, the thought that I'm spending the rest of my life with a guy without having ever had sex with a other one kinda ... scares me. o.o;

Eh... I thought that too... but then I realized that.. if it's the person I love.. why would I have wanted to have sex with anyone else?

I'd prefer to have just been with that girl and that girl alone...

Mind you.. I realized that too late to save the relationship with the last girl I truly loved...

kleinesdaisukii 06-05-2008 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Sutebu (Post 3325416)
Eh... I thought that too... but then I realized that.. if it's the person I love.. why would I have wanted to have sex with anyone else?

I'd prefer to have just been with that girl and that girl alone...

Well, I'll marry in summer, so I am with the person I love.
But I don't regret the sex and the relationships I had with other guys in the past. It shows me even more how special my boyfriend is, because everything with him is kinda ... better. My expierences with other guys give me a good contrast and make me love him even more.

thoughtlessamaya 06-05-2008 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by KeiKei Shunu (Post 3325408)


But yeah, boners... :3
>\\\\\\\\> I like them. I like the look, feel, and everything. >.> Not necessarily in a sexual way even, like 'Oh, now we're gonna have sex!" but more, just.. it's beautiful. :3

>.> I love the human body. It's aesthetically pleasing, and artistically beautiful. :3

And I love the taboo sexiness of a boner in public. :3

My goodness, I'm not the only one! I love the thought that I can please my boyfriend enough that he can have an erection without me being near him. it makes me feel like I have some sort of power over him, and I don't know, its weird, but I love it. >.>

KeiKei Shunu 06-05-2008 09:52 AM

Haha. To me it's more the thought that I'm so young, I've had only ONE (Well.. 2..) person I've seriously dated! >.>
But I do want to be with him. :3


But yeah.. public.. >.> Whoopsies. I was a bad 15 year old. >.>
Now I'm back to being the pre-first time goody-goody with a strong conscience. XD

thoughtlessamaya 06-05-2008 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Sutebu (Post 3325416)
Eh... I thought that too... but then I realized that.. if it's the person I love.. why would I have wanted to have sex with anyone else?

I'd prefer to have just been with that girl and that girl alone...

Mind you.. I realized that too late to save the relationship with the last girl I truly loved...

Sex doesn't make up the whole relationship, just a portion of it, but it should be waited for and not done right away. And if sex is what its based on to save a relationship, then the relationship shouldn't have been saved at all.

That's just my view.

Sutebu 06-05-2008 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by thoughtlessamaya (Post 3325428)
Sex doesn't make up the whole relationship, just a portion of it, but it should be waited for and not done right away. And if sex is what its based on to save a relationship, then the relationship shouldn't have been saved at all.

That's just my view.

No no... I ruined the relationship because I was all confused about what I wanted... I pulled a "Whoa, why am I going to lock myself into this relationship when I've never really been with anyone else before?" thing... and by the time I realized I was being stupid and that being with other people didn't matter compared to being with her, it was too late.

thoughtlessamaya 06-05-2008 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Sutebu (Post 3325438)
No no... I ruined the relationship because I was all confused about what I wanted... I pulled a "Whoa, why am I going to lock myself into this relationship when I've never really been with anyone else before?" thing... and by the time I realized I was being stupid and that being with other people didn't matter compared to being with her, it was too late.

Oh, well, that's a mistake that I'm sure a lot of other people have made. I guess its sort of a commitment thing.

Sutebu 06-05-2008 10:05 AM

Yeah.. it was a terribly stupid thing for me to do.. based entirely on the fact that I was an idiot.. heh..

It's a shame, though... it took my losing her to make me realize how much I really loved her... but I guess that's how it always is...

Anyway, it's 6AM.. I have to wake up for class in 6 hours... and I probably won't end up falling asleep for at least an hour more.. so, I'd better try to head to bed... g'night everyone.

KeiKei Shunu 06-05-2008 10:08 AM

Aw, *hugs Sutebu* G'nite!

AND GET THAT OUT OF YOUR SIG. NOW.

thoughtlessamaya 06-05-2008 10:10 AM

I agree with KeiKei! You're not annoying. :]

And goodnight!

Vickicat 06-05-2008 06:34 PM

Sex.
 
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Originally Posted by Sutebu (Post 3325405)
It's a somewhat huge deal for me.. >___>

I'm an insanely jealous kind of guy... so I like to think that I'm the only one... especially if it's a girl I really love... the idea that she might have been with other guys would probably tear my up inside.. D:

Also, pitching a tent is common... but I've gotta say... the only time I can think of a guy possibly being embarrassed about being seen is in school... I guess it's because otherwise, it's somewhat easy to hide.. and if you're exposed, you want it to be seen anyway.

I'm exactly like that. I would hate the idea of someone I love having been with someone else. I like the idea of both people losing their virginity to each other, which is why I've waited so long. I don't want to make any mistakes I'll regret. I'm pretty sure we've come far enough by now though that it won't be a mistake, so I'm finally comfortable with having sex with him the next time we're together. I'm really happy that my boyfriend is a virgin. I know I'm a bit more of a jealous type of person than I should be, but I can't help it. But at least the relationship I'm in is very ideal for me. The only drawback is that we live far away from each other, but hopefully we can fix that once we're done with college.

KeiKei Shunu 06-05-2008 06:38 PM

Aw, that's sweet, Vicki. :3

I don't think it'd matter too much to me, as long as he never cheated on me. :3 And as long as there weren't a huge number of ex-partners. >.>

Sutebu 06-05-2008 08:45 PM

Yeah.. huge number would be worst.

The worst part is... I would be able to just ignore it for the most part.. but every once in a while, I'd wonder... and stupidly, I'd probably ask about it.... probably because I was hoping that she would just go "Oh, you're way better.."

And if she didn't, I would mope for a loooong time.

Merrow 06-05-2008 10:05 PM

Sutebu, you're adorable! ;D
If I wasn't completely horrified by man-parts, I'd letcha diddle me fo sho.

D: Whenever I get with a girl, I will be nervous as hell.
I can just imagine it: A hot make-out session, then slowly but surely the clothes will get removed.

Her: ;D Go for it, behbeh.
Me: >:'D ...........I:'D.......<:'D what do I do?

It'll be a barrel of laughs.

Sutebu 06-05-2008 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Lantern Fish (Post 3328224)
Sutebu, you're adorable! ;D
If I wasn't completely horrified by man-parts, I'd letcha diddle me fo sho.

D: Whenever I get with a girl, I will be nervous as hell.
I can just imagine it: A hot make-out session, then slowly but surely the clothes will get removed.

Her: ;D Go for it, behbeh.
Me: >:'D ...........I:'D.......<:'D what do I do?

It'll be a barrel of laughs.

Sweet, sort of...

I wonder what makes you think I'm so adorable, though.. xD

Also, that's pretty much what I was like the first time I went down there.. I still have no idea what I'm doing, 'cause she never really told me what to do.. ^^;;

Merrow 06-05-2008 10:21 PM

XD I just think your manner is cute. I kind of want to hide you under my bed and feed you cookies all day.

Yeah, but I've never had a girlfriend or have kissed anyone... and I'm 17 now. I mean, I have a decent idea, but the beginning will be awkward. I'm not much of a touchy-feely person unless I'm in the right mood, so.... D: My girl might not get her 'ttentions.


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