Yes breaking up hurts for some people whether your the dumper or the dumpee...it still hurts!

In my break up I was the dumpee ((excuse my made up words dumpee= your the one being dumped)) So there i was on the phone, which is the wrost place to be dumped I mean you could at least break up with me in person!!! But anyways I was all like talking to her and I was all like blah blah blah blah....and some other stuff and then she was all like Essence....and i was all like yes? and then she was all like nothing so i just started talking again then 5 minutes later she was all like we have to break up and i was all like (sorry i say like, and, and i,and was a lot) ummmm ok....then i hung up and thought she's a piece of crap anyway! =D

So CD...wait whats CD? you know a lot of people say that....but anyways So menewsha people how did your break up go?! I'm just noisy like that...:sarcasm:

I was going out with my friends brothers when I got bored. We didn't really do anything and he would always move away from me when i sit next to him. She had another bor==rother who was in my grade, he knew I was dating his brother. A few weeks ago I told him to tell his brother to tell him I brake up because it didn't feel like a real relationship. I was the dumper. The break up didn't faze me because we weren't close and it just didn't feel right. We did have a lot in common but, I said it'd be better if we just remained friends. So yeah... there, my most recent break up

Eh heh heh, I"m pretty good with breakups ^^;
Normally I do the dumping.
I"m a positive person so I know I"m still young and I"ll find someone better.

Originally Posted by Lost.In.The.Darkness

I was going out with my friends brothers when I got bored. We didn't really do anything and he would always move away from me when i sit next to him. She had another bor==rother who was in my grade, he knew I was dating his brother. A few weeks ago I told him to tell his brother to tell him I brake up because it didn't feel like a real relationship. I was the dumper. The break up didn't faze me because we weren't close and it just didn't feel right. We did have a lot in common but, I said it'd be better if we just remained friends. So yeah... there, my most recent break up

Yeah, I hate it when the guy doesn't really get close to you or something i've been through that one time...

I broke up with all my exes. As bad as it sounds, I just got bored with them and never really liked any of them. The only person I really truly liked and still do like is my husband.

Meh. I dated this guy for two and a half months. We dated for about a month last year and then broke up. When we broke up, it was a bad end and we both agreed it ended too soon so we decided to try it again. (usually, I won't date people twice.)

So yeah. We're dating and everything was going fine. Actually, everything was perfect. The whole time we were dating, there were only two or three days all together that we didn't hang out. We got in one fight and it was quickly resolved.

I woke up one morning with a text message from him. Just like usual. (He would message me and say, "Good morning beautiful" or something.) So I opened my phone and read the message. It said, "I think we should just be friends." I was still half asleep and responded, "Wait. . . what?" then I sent him another message that said, "Are you serious? You're joking. . . right?"

He responded, "I'm not good at the whole break up thing and it's unfair to you, I know but I want to end it on good terms and I think we should just be friends." :/

break ups are usually horrible D: I do them face to face now always. I know it hurts too much to do it on the phone, because I've done that once and that has been done to me too. it's horrible.

last time I broke up with someone I was the dumper. I told him I can't be near him, he makes me un-easy, can't breath and all. that was the trurth, but I couldn't just say " I can't stand you anymore", which was also true D:

i have a whole list but I still feel bad about it nontheless:
~it didn't feel right
~i wasn't ready
~he was totally sucking face when we kissed (le ew)
~my friends said he was a pervert and told her indescribably gross things
~a week later he had another girl
~he has hit on all my friends...at the same time more than once
~he has cheated twice on the same girl
~he has told me that he wants to kill his teachers which scares me
I had to do it via email cause he got sick the day I was going to do it(does that make me a bad person?)

Originally Posted by Pup In Fluff

Meh. I dated this guy for two and a half months. We dated for about a month last year and then broke up. When we broke up, it was a bad end and we both agreed it ended too soon so we decided to try it again. (usually, I won't date people twice.)

So yeah. We're dating and everything was going fine. Actually, everything was perfect. The whole time we were dating, there were only two or three days all together that we didn't hang out. We got in one fight and it was quickly resolved.

I woke up one morning with a text message from him. Just like usual. (He would message me and say, "Good morning beautiful" or something.) So I opened my phone and read the message. It said, "I think we should just be friends." I was still half asleep and responded, "Wait. . . what?" then I sent him another message that said, "Are you serious? You're joking. . . right?"

He responded, "I'm not good at the whole break up thing and it's unfair to you, I know but I want to end it on good terms and I think we should just be friends." :/

You should send him this: http://youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M

Breakin up is harrd to dooo~

Yeahh.
Anyway.
I broke up with my last boyfriend (errr four and a half years ago?) because he hated the gays and was pushing me to do stuff I didn't want to do--after three days of going out. YEAHNO. I luffs the gays, and pushing me to do shit is a bigass nono^^

Other than that, I've been with the same kid for over four years now ._.;; Two days to four years, whee!

So here is something that should put some cheer into your break up story:

I've had the same group of friends since 6th grade. One of my friends and I started to date during the summer of my Freshman year. We had all the same classes...german, robotics, arch design, history, english, chem...all except math. Which was amazing because my high school had a graduating class of 730. Anyway not only did we have all the same classes but we also ran Cross Country and Track together. It was perfect, I had a best friend, a study buddy, a running partner, and a boyfriend all in one! We stayed together and went to Prom, Ball, and graduated together. Then we went our separate ways for college. We decided to try to make the short distance between us (2 hours) work and planned to visit each other at least once a month. We made it through our first semester of college and even went on a family trip to the snow for new years...

And then one day I get an IM from aim...stating that he had gone into the city with one of his "girl" friends from the dorms and that he had kissed her. So after 2 and half years....we broke up over AIM. No phone call...no face to face. It was over on instant messenger.

At least you got to hear your significant others voice! AIM was such a low blow considering how long we had been together and is just plain mean no matter the length of time.

But at least I can laugh about it now! And say wow. that was really ridiculous. XD

My "relationship" ended mutually; we were both bored of each other; we didn't talk, we didn't do anything, we did nothing together. It was depressing, really because both of us was waiting for the other to dump us. Finally, before new years, I just said, "It's over." And we both walked away. It was awkward being around him after that, but we're alright now. We knew it was coming, but no one said it.

You know, I always wanted to be a bitch in one of the relationships when breaking up.
Like, I would get bored of the guy, and he's still madly in love with me, but I dump him in public no matter how he feels about me.
And he would be all like, (yes, I say 'would be all like' instead of 'say') "Why?! B-b-but I love you! D: <- his facial expression " And eventually it'll get to him begging on his knees, but I just leave him there...
I always wanted to do that, but I don't think I have the heart to.

Originally Posted by mystic kiwi

I broke up with all my exes. As bad as it sounds, I just got bored with them and never really liked any of them. The only person I really truly liked and still do like is my husband.

You go girl.

I've never officially dumped anyone before. Nor have I been officially dumped by anyone. Most of my relationships have been flings or non-committed, where the relationship just tapered off consensually at the end.

I'm currently in my first full blown relationship, where we actually call each other boyfriend and girlfriend, and I don't think that's going to end anytime soon, if at all. So I guess I won't be having to deal with the whole dumper/dumpee ordeal. :3

Yeah relationships for me only last for like 1 month or something lol

One of my ex-bfs broke up with me over AIM. His excuse was he had to concentrate on homework. He had a new gf a few weeks later, that little jerk. Dx I think breaking up over AIM or texting is probably the worst.

I've only initiated one break up with someone. xD And it was really awful.

i've never really had a real one.

but sometimes they're very necessary.. and both parties just have to realize it i guess, before the relationship gets really bad.

um.....>.> ok this may sound odd but I've never went through a brake up since I've never had a boy friend ahah, no but seriously >.<

i'm one of those morons though that can't just break up. i'd like try to fix it and like CLING to the other person for a while.. and end up just getting really hurt in the end. I think that also would make the other person like get disgusted and stuff but hey.. whatever. YOU IS WHO YOU IS, eh?

the only breakup ive had in my life actually was because she moved down south. i remember now.. this was at like the end of 8th grade. i've had little "girlfriends" and stuff through like elementary and middle school, but none of them really meant anything. just labels.

I've only had one break-up, and of course I had to be the one who was being dumped.

I think that the worst part was that it took me completely by surprise. It wouldn't have been so bad if I had known he was having problems, but the situation blind-sided me.

Blegh, well my last breakup wasn't really a breakup seen as we weren't official

but to me, we were.
to him on the other hand...i was nothing more than a one night stand.

It really hurt. I thought he liked me but really he just wanted 'in my pants' as the saying goes =/

to me, that hurt more than getting dumped. I was used and thats pure evil if you ask me.

Well, at least i've learned what men can be like, so i'll be more careful next time i hook up with somebody. My plan is to make them wait for sex for at least a month xD

My latest... he cheated. Grrr. I was actually going to break up him the same day I found out because I just felt the relationship couldnt go any further, and now I know why!

I haven't had a boyfriend, either, therefore I haven't had to deal with a break-up. XD

I have witnessed a few break-ups, though, or at least attempts. My sister has this online boyfriend that she's "been with" for almost 7 months, and he constantly tries to break it off so he can date people in his actual presence, but she cries to him on the phone until he gives in and stays "with her."

Manipulation is scary, I feel kinda bad for the guy.

i had my first boyfriend in january and it only lasted about a month. he told me on the phone that he was at his girlfriends house. him saying that tore me apart. and before he hung up i said " i love you" his response was "i know" i cried for days. and a few days ago i got to talk to him again. and i told him i had a bf already. which hurt him, but anyways were back together.
even if you broke up with someone just remember its not the end of the world and if that person just isnt the one thats meant for you. just remember that theres always someone out there whos looking for you even if they dont know you.... catch my drift?

I hate breaking up. I haven't dated in three years because I don't want to. I'm afraid to fall in love and have the guy I love break up with me. It happened before and the was my first love. I like him since 4th grade (and I'm in 11th now, well going into 11th), but we went out in like 6th grade towards the end. Then he broke up with me after two weeks. I still love him. I will always love him. NO matter who I'm with. But loving someone else hurts because I just think of him. =[ But I'm slowly getting over him. I love this guy named ryan. He works with me too. He's soo kewl.