Okay i can understand disliking children. Do what you want to do, its your life not theirs. Its not like if you ever do decide to have a child (though it seems you wont) that there are other options.

as for hating children, I use to..at times i still do, well maybe not hate but dislike >.<' my daughters drive me nuts at times. Though there are times when they can be very sweet at loving and very entertaining (my fiance taught them to play fetch o.<)

Now as i was saying do what you wanna do not what other think you should do. If they want kids they can have them their selfs.

Originally Posted by Lollirot Doll

So the question is: What gives people the right to tell me what to do with MY uterus?

Well they are your realtives / family, so they are just showing some love and caring for you. Thats what a family does. It does not give them the right to make decisions for you, but they aren't, you make your own decisions and they can only help influence them. If they were total strangers I could see this as a valid argument, but family......... come one. Be glad they are out there looking out for you.

Perhaps you are too young too make that decision. Or perhaps you will think differently in the future. The main point is there are other safe alternatives then just 'snipping'. The gift of life is not somehting to just blow off.....well I guess that depends on the type of person you are....but hey, people change, its a fact of life.

I imagine in the end, no matter what you choose, im pretty sure your family will still be by your side.....because again, thats what families do.

I would save some of the little guys, just in case, but hey, if you know your not gonna want children, no one has a right to tell you that you should. However in my case, I didn't want them till I was 30.

I think people need to realize that just because you're married, doesn't mean you should have children. I mean, if you don't want or can't have kids then there's no kids. I can't have kids so I get that all the time no matter how much I explain to people that it's not even possible for me to even have kids in the first place.

Nothing. No one should tell you what you should or shouldn't do. It's YOUR life. ^.^

lol No one has a right to tell you what to do. That must be so annoying to have it said over and over again although you tell them how you feel. They should just drop it and stop bothering you on the issue. I also agree with the opinion on abortion. Women should have a right to do what they please with their body!

Cats are like babies. ^_^
Mines was at least. Not the same of course but they're so adorable. ^^

If you know you don't want to have kids, they should respect it.

I agree with you, as generations go on, kids are getting more rude, greedy, and ungrateful.

Plus it's getting really expensive to feed, clothed, take care of them, etc.

Some people are patient with kids, some people aren't. I mean, if they want to see children/babies again, they should offer to be foster parents or adopt. They shouldn't go wasting their time and yours after you already decided.

Babies are adorable though, but my two year old sister is a pain in the ass.