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Cherish 07-12-2008 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ZeldaFlower (Post 3559112)
I got spanked as a kid but I NEVER hit any other child. I understood I did something wrong that's why I got spanked. I didn't think that it's ok for me to hit anyone else.

Not even when you were very young, say three years old? Or even when another child did something wrong?
Because if that is true, you certainly are in the minority.

Did you never see the hypocrisy of your parents, that it was okay for them to smack you, but not okay for you to smack other people?

Sagitar 07-12-2008 07:14 PM

I was spanked too a few times, although I was a good child, but good children make stupid things too.... ^^;
I'm still not a wreck either..

sometimes it's good. just as long as parents don't overdo it and damage their kids health, physical or mental..

ZeldaFlower 07-12-2008 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherish (Post 3559240)
Not even when you were very young, say three years old? Or even when another child did something wrong?
Because if that is true, you certainly are in the minority.

Did you never see the hypocrisy of your parents, that it was okay for them to smack you, but not okay for you to smack other people?

You know what? You are right. I totally missed this the first time but when I was younger and my sister would do something wrong I would hit her, not too hard though...

When I first read yours I was thinking in a situation with other children my age like daycare or something, so that's why I said never...

Man now I feel like a hypocrite

But yeah, I get it now... although parents are supposed to have rule over their children and teach them what's right... and right now they probably want to smack some sense into me but they don't and sometimes I feel I deserve to be smacked because I disobey them ;.;

Sugar Floss Decay 07-12-2008 10:26 PM

I never want children, but yes, I would spank them. It kept me in line, and it should keep them in line as well. Time-out is stupid and doesn't even phase them.

My mom used to go tell me to cut my own switch instead of telling me to "think about it." And you know what? I never did what I got in trouble for again
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ElendarSilvermoon 07-12-2008 11:18 PM

I would spank my children (if I were to have them, don't plan on having them though), but I would also combine it with a psychological sort of punishment such as taking something away or imposing limits.

Grounding hasn't worked for my younger siblings though, as my parents have become sissies about punishment in their older age. If my little siblings act like assholes and annoy them enough they get what was taken back, which is promoting their shitty behavior. Punishment only works if it's gone through with to the full extent.

Han-pan 07-13-2008 12:58 PM

I think there are certain situations in which spankings are a proper punishment. Hell, I remember the last time I was spanked. Even what I was wearing! But I was so upset by it that I never ever did whatever it was that I had done again xD!
I got time outs when I was little, or I had things taken away, but I would go and get them again later. I've since y'know, become a whole hell of a lot more responsible, but I think my parents discipline was a reasonable one. I don't see how spankings can be so horrible, so long as they're reserved for extreme situations. Other forms of punishment can and should take precedence. But when you've punished your kid for doing something and they continue to do it three or four times...that's, in my opinion, when you take out the spanking card.

MasterChiefrei 07-13-2008 01:09 PM

God forbid if I have a child if they do something unspeakable then I'll swat them on the behind. Not with a paddle but a hand but not to where they're black and blue, only to where they cry a lot just at the thought of being spanked. What I won't do is grab my kid's shoulders and shake them because my dad used to do that at the smallest things and leave bruises. He wasn't/isn't a bad father but it still affects me when I see other parents do it to their kids. *like clenching and volatile shaking, not lighting grasping to keep them away from something* I know spanking isn't always the right kind of discipline but there are kids that just need a good whack on the butt.

Pearl 07-13-2008 02:26 PM

No.

We don't even use that word in this country, in that sense... very few parents might give their kid 'a slap' though.

sutebi 07-13-2008 03:47 PM

When i was young i was the type who was shy and quiet and i ran behind my dad at any little noise (parents thought it was cute) and i never got disciplined because i was always near my parents and i was to terrified to do a bad thing so now i still don't believe in spanking children but sometimes its necessary like if they start becoming violent or something.

Moogle 07-15-2008 08:03 AM

Hell yea I'd spank my kids. It strikes fear into them and as long as you don't abuse them it shouldn't be a problem. Some kids just deserve it. I remember I had a little cousin that got a beating everyday. He was a badass little boy though. Plus his brother would blame things that he did on his little brother, resulting in another ass-whipping. I wouldn't say "poor kid", because he seemed to be used to it if you asked me. At least he should've been.


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