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Originally Posted by Izumi (Post 1764630514)

Now the G-Spot orgasm I haven't felt, nor have I actually 'ejaculated' anything noticible or I should say 'stream-like'. Apparently it's just a big mess anyhow and not really that much of a turn-on. *shrugs*

Oh! But it would be so much fun to let them (the boys) have a "taste of their own medicine" so-to-speak! Seriously - I would love to experience this sort of orgasm once in my life and if whoever I was with (assuming that it would be male) had the nerve to complain about the mess I think I'd laugh my butt off and slap them three ways from Thursday! It would be incredibly hypocritical to complain about the mess we would make from a really intense orgasm considering that we have to deal with their mess every single time! :sarcasm:

It most definitely exists. So many types of them too.
Clitoral ones, g-spot ones, wet dreams.. anal too I suppose but I've not experienced that.

the goodness of sex doesnt matter if the girl gets off. Sure its nice, and would make the partner feel accomplished because they could give her one. But you can enjoy sharing your body even if you dont orgasm during.

True. It's like this...

Men: bottle rocket

Women: diesel engine

The guys go off pretty fast, but the women have to have some time to get started up and going. That's what usually happens with me and my boyfriend. I'm laying there enjoying it, and suddenly he comes and he's done. Doesn't bother me really, cause round 2 is all about me. :yes:

I think women in general don't need to orgasm to enjoy sex, but I know, personally, I do. It's a deal breaker in a relationship to me if I cannot have good sex. This is probably because, not only am I one of the 25% or so of women who can have vaginal orgasms, I can also have multiple orgasms. So they certainly rank quite high up there for me.

As for someone stating that women don't ejaculate, there's a lot of speculation about it. Once in the past, I was able to secrete liquid from the skene's gland. Again, this is a bit of a rarity in women, but it can be taught if one knows what one is doing ;)

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Originally Posted by Doomfishy (Post 1764543593)

Honestly, I think a man easily "bruised" by this is almost as insufferable as one who is selfish and doesn't care at all.

I don't want to feel like I don't matter, but I also don't want to feel pressured into having any one specific sexual experience (especially ALL the time). I want to be able to enjoy good sex in MY way, with a partner who cares enough to experiment and enjoy it without USING me as an ego boost.

Although it is worth remembering that for many people, they equate orgasm to sexual pleasure. So believing that you are unable to sexually satisfy your partner can be pretty upsetting. Although perhaps this would be more of a problem with people who already have self confidence issues?

As for the topic of female orgasm, I am quite interested to know how much of a role culture plays in this. As I think it is worth exploring whether or not we see these rates because culturally we believe them to be fact. Whereas maybe in other cultures you would find strikingly different statistics. As even pregnancy and periods can differ greatly between different cultural groups.

The female orgasm exists. I has experienced it. I like to enjoy it. Case closed x3