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Tutela de Xaoc 02-27-2010 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Keyori (Post 1766669574)
How can you pretend to know what any sort of all-powerful omnipotent being's intentions are?

I thought that was self explanatory, they are the all-powerful omniscient being and they are bringing more red herrings to make their existence less viable.
[whispers] I think the All-Powerful being wants to get out of the human spotlight. It is probably ashamed of what it has created [/whispers] ;)

silenttiger43 02-27-2010 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by kollusim (Post 1766664263)
Thanks for answering my question. I have another, though - how does believing it actually helping aid you in your faith in comparison to things you believe to be parables? When faced with scientific evidence that proves false the certain stories you believe to be true, how does it affect you? Do you think that science has a place to prove and disprove the bible?

A lot of questions there, but I'm very interested in knowing. I try asking my family these questions about their faith (they're Catholic) but they think I'm trying to cause trouble. I'm keen for a sensible debate.

I think science is a wonderful thing. It helps me discover what is truth and what is parable in bible and I'm more than happy to listen what scientists have to say.

Truth or parable however, the morals of the story stay true and it's these morals that I like to base my life on. Mind you, I'm not perfect and I don't always make the right decisions or give the right advice. I find that a common misconception about Christians. People seem to believe we're all "holier than thou". We aren't, we're just people who are trying to live better by learning from the lessons of the past.

kollusim 02-27-2010 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by silenttiger43 (Post 1766671741)
I think science is a wonderful thing. It helps me discover what is truth and what is parable in bible and I'm more than happy to listen what scientists have to say.

Truth or parable however, the morals of the story stay true and it's these morals that I like to base my life on. Mind you, I'm not perfect and I don't always make the right decisions or give the right advice. I find that a common misconception about Christians. People seem to believe we're all "holier than thou". We aren't, we're just people who are trying to live better by learning from the lessons of the past.

What if science disproved the whole bible? Would you still choose to base your life on it?

It seems that Christians are having a hard time following the morals of a series of writings that were written thousands of years ago because the lessons are out of date. Like opting for a first-edition physics textbook that's recently released it's 10th edition and going to class with it.

Tropical Snowstorm 02-27-2010 09:19 PM

My mother brought me up by herself. She never shoved anything down my throat, or forced me to go to a church. We've never even really talked about the concept of religion, so I'm not sure what she believes in. She just lets me believe what I want to, because she doesn't believe in parents making their children have the same opinions and beliefs as they do.

I don't believe that there is some God that plans out our lives and is the ultimate controller of the universe. I believe that there is an imperfect God that is there simply to help us along the way and guide us. I don't believe in the Christian "heaven" or "hell", I believe in reincarnation. It just doesn't make sense to me that after 70 or so (sometimes even less) years life should just stop.

However, I think that the Bible is just a story. Religion used to be used to teach the uneducated masses morals and things through story. You see, you couldn't just say "don't kill people!" and expect people to listen. You had to say "don't kill people or you'll rot in Hell!".

I typically side with atheists on this.

silenttiger43 02-28-2010 02:04 AM

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Originally Posted by kollusim (Post 1766671926)
What if science disproved the whole bible? Would you still choose to base your life on it?

It seems that Christians are having a hard time following the morals of a series of writings that were written thousands of years ago because the lessons are out of date. Like opting for a first-edition physics textbook that's recently released it's 10th edition and going to class with it.

If there was concrete proof that the bible was wrong and that God did not exist, then yes, I would believe it. I'm not so blind as to think all concrete evidence could be wrong while I'm right. I don't think I'm unreasonable.

As for the teachings of the bible, the parables are broad enough to last the ages. They are simple and not meant to be over analyzed but taken as they are, so even a child could understand. After all these years it still applies to our everyday life. I'm sorry if you don't feel the same way, however I will only accept your argument if you have actually read much of the Bible. I'm not trying to be narrow minded here but it's very difficult to have this argument with someone who's never read more than a page or two, if any at all.

kollusim 02-28-2010 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by silenttiger43 (Post 1766674703)
If there was concrete proof that the bible was wrong and that God did not exist, then yes, I would believe it. I'm not so blind as to think all concrete evidence could be wrong while I'm right. I don't think I'm unreasonable.

As for the teachings of the bible, the parables are broad enough to last the ages. They are simple and not meant to be over analyzed but taken as they are, so even a child could understand. After all these years it still applies to our everyday life. I'm sorry if you don't feel the same way, however I will only accept your argument if you have actually read much of the Bible. I'm not trying to be narrow minded here but it's very difficult to have this argument with someone who's never read more than a page or two, if any at all.

I'm very familiar with the bible, as I was raised as a catholic and am still surrounded by religious people on a daily basis. It's always seemed to me that Christians are the most hypocritical when it comes to their faith. I've been around the world and seen Hindus, Buddhists, Sikhs, Muslims - you name it, I've been around them - and they live and breathe what is preached in their holy texts - why are most of the Christians I meet so different, especially the ones in western countries? I think the answers may be obvious, but I'm never too sure.

The lessons I've gathered from the bible seem common sense to me, though. They're that simple. I suppose I'm really asking why it is needed for people to lead better lives when they could rather easily figure it out themselves. Is it because people feel they need a leader? A scapegoat just in case it all goes wrong?

silenttiger43 02-28-2010 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by kollusim (Post 1766678567)
I'm very familiar with the bible, as I was raised as a catholic and am still surrounded by religious people on a daily basis. It's always seemed to me that Christians are the most hypocritical when it comes to their faith. I've been around the world and seen Hindus, Buddhists, Sikhs, Muslims - you name it, I've been around them - and they live and breathe what is preached in their holy texts - why are most of the Christians I meet so different, especially the ones in western countries? I think the answers may be obvious, but I'm never too sure.

The lessons I've gathered from the bible seem common sense to me, though. They're that simple. I suppose I'm really asking why it is needed for people to lead better lives when they could rather easily figure it out themselves. Is it because people feel they need a leader? A scapegoat just in case it all goes wrong?

I find a lot of people who label themselves as Christians don't really realize what that means. Many of us simply accept this religion because it's what our parents taught us as truth. So then they go out and just do what they like with their lives and if someone asks they just default to what they've been told. Eventually these people will realize what they're doing and either take the easy route and just drop the whole thing, or they will challenge it with an open mind and avidly search for the truth.

I happen to be the latter. In fact I am still challenging many things about Christianity. I still label myself as one of them because the meaning of the word Christian is to be Christ-like. I believe that the Jesus portrayed in the Bible is a being that we should all admire for his morals, virtue, kindness and love and that people should follow such an example to be like that. It's a struggle that's to be sure and I do have my moments against it. The point is I'm trying and many other people are as well but no one is that perfect.

Something I have learned about common sense, is that it isn't so common. A lot of people need constant reminding, perhaps not you and I so much, you do seem rather intelligent to me after all, however the world is filled with... intelligence challenged people. ^_^

Christians aren't looking for a scapegoat. It's comforting to know that despite the challenges of life there is someone always there whom we can talk to. It may sound silly but I find myself just starting up conversations sometimes. Even if there isn't anyone to verbally answer me it helps to feel like someone's listening; someone who isn't going to go spreading it around. Sometimes it helps me work out problems to, it's like the solution just suddenly comes to me when I explain things out loud. It's strange, and you could argue either that it's God giving me the answers or that it's just the way my mind works but of course I like the thought of having someone there, just nudging me along the way.

kollusim 03-01-2010 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by silenttiger43 (Post 1766680446)
I find a lot of people who label themselves as Christians don't really realize what that means. Many of us simply accept this religion because it's what our parents taught us as truth. So then they go out and just do what they like with their lives and if someone asks they just default to what they've been told. Eventually these people will realize what they're doing and either take the easy route and just drop the whole thing, or they will challenge it with an open mind and avidly search for the truth.

I happen to be the latter. In fact I am still challenging many things about Christianity. I still label myself as one of them because the meaning of the word Christian is to be Christ-like. I believe that the Jesus portrayed in the Bible is a being that we should all admire for his morals, virtue, kindness and love and that people should follow such an example to be like that. It's a struggle that's to be sure and I do have my moments against it. The point is I'm trying and many other people are as well but no one is that perfect.

Something I have learned about common sense, is that it isn't so common. A lot of people need constant reminding, perhaps not you and I so much, you do seem rather intelligent to me after all, however the world is filled with... intelligence challenged people. ^_^

Christians aren't looking for a scapegoat. It's comforting to know that despite the challenges of life there is someone always there whom we can talk to. It may sound silly but I find myself just starting up conversations sometimes. Even if there isn't anyone to verbally answer me it helps to feel like someone's listening; someone who isn't going to go spreading it around. Sometimes it helps me work out problems to, it's like the solution just suddenly comes to me when I explain things out loud. It's strange, and you could argue either that it's God giving me the answers or that it's just the way my mind works but of course I like the thought of having someone there, just nudging me along the way.

I will admit that sometimes I wish I had someone to help nudge me along the way, or someone to talk to like that - but it would require me to have a faith that I simply do not have.

As for accepting things because of what our parents have told us, I know exactly how this is. I remember as a child, praying to god and truly believing that he was listening and answering my prayers. It's a strange thing to think about now, but my heart was completely there. I fully believe now that if my family had followed every aspect of Christianity (Catholicism) and displayed a strong sense of faith around me, I would still be a Catholic today.

For some people, I believe religion is merely a habit passed down from generation to generation. It's a habit you attend on Sunday and forget about for the rest of the week. Seeing this caused me to question everything, and now I am an atheist - but not out of spite. Perhaps at first, but through that initial break from religion I found answers that truly resonated with me.

I hope you find answers that resonate with you, too.

silenttiger43 03-02-2010 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by kollusim (Post 1766692648)
I will admit that sometimes I wish I had someone to help nudge me along the way, or someone to talk to like that - but it would require me to have a faith that I simply do not have.

As for accepting things because of what our parents have told us, I know exactly how this is. I remember as a child, praying to god and truly believing that he was listening and answering my prayers. It's a strange thing to think about now, but my heart was completely there. I fully believe now that if my family had followed every aspect of Christianity (Catholicism) and displayed a strong sense of faith around me, I would still be a Catholic today.

For some people, I believe religion is merely a habit passed down from generation to generation. It's a habit you attend on Sunday and forget about for the rest of the week. Seeing this caused me to question everything, and now I am an atheist - but not out of spite. Perhaps at first, but through that initial break from religion I found answers that truly resonated with me.

I hope you find answers that resonate with you, too.

I'm glad that you have found some of the answers you were looking for and I hope I helped explain a few things for you. Naturally I wish you'd come back and be Christian but that's not my choice. :P I'm not in the business of telling people what to do, all I want is to answer questions should people have them. I absolutely hate it when people get pushy about their own beliefs so I try not to do that to others. Did I succeed this time? I really was trying.

If you would like someone to be able to talk to anytime then you could just find some thing to talk to. Sometimes I just need something to look at when I'm chatting to God (or myself if you prefer) so I look up at the sky. Quite often it's at night and I can find the constellation Orion, so I just talk to Orion. It's a strange method I guess but Orion is sort of my pet name for God now, XD.

x.x I'm so weird.
It works though, so if you're feeling as strange a human being as I am (if you're even human at all o.o lol) then you could always just give that a shot. It's kind of like having an imaginary friend ^_^

kollusim 03-02-2010 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by silenttiger43 (Post 1766699721)
I'm glad that you have found some of the answers you were looking for and I hope I helped explain a few things for you. Naturally I wish you'd come back and be Christian but that's not my choice. :P I'm not in the business of telling people what to do, all I want is to answer questions should people have them. I absolutely hate it when people get pushy about their own beliefs so I try not to do that to others. Did I succeed this time? I really was trying.

If you would like someone to be able to talk to anytime then you could just find some thing to talk to. Sometimes I just need something to look at when I'm chatting to God (or myself if you prefer) so I look up at the sky. Quite often it's at night and I can find the constellation Orion, so I just talk to Orion. It's a strange method I guess but Orion is sort of my pet name for God now, XD.

x.x I'm so weird.
It works though, so if you're feeling as strange a human being as I am (if you're even human at all o.o lol) then you could always just give that a shot. It's kind of like having an imaginary friend ^_^

You talk to Orion - that's so cute XD.

You weren't pushy at all. I've met pushy before, and they got so angry with me they put their hands on my head and prayed over me -_- I wasn't impressed.

It's hard to find answers when people get too defensive. I suppose it is a touchy subject for some, but on both sides I think there is fear of being put down or maybe even finding a little personal truth (save a small few).

Maybe I will talk to the stars sometime. I can see them, they're always there and they've been around much longer than I have ; )

LadyKnightSkye 03-02-2010 08:50 PM

@ Kollusim: I actually had a little wrestling with my faith over the fact that you have people who go to church on Sunday but then go out partyin' Monday night.

It's just, I couldn't get how people could proclaim their love of God and then be petty and disrespectful of not just themselves but others. I couldn't get how this one girl proclaimed that she knew she had sinned to my entire Biology class - but we all knew that she'd probably do it again. Such hypocrisy angered and stunned me.

What I eventually figured out was that people can pay lip service to God in Church, but to really mean it is to live it. I've met quite a few people who embody the idea of living His word, so they give me hope. And really, not all of those people I've seen are practicing Christians.

However, I will also say that I sometimes want to give the "missionaries" a swift kick to their hind end when they start up with the whole "trying to strong arm non-Christians into believing" act. I firmly believe that if a person wants to be Christian, Muslim, Jewish, etc. then they need to choose without being pushed into it.

silenttiger43 03-03-2010 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by kollusim (Post 1766701259)
You talk to Orion - that's so cute XD.

You weren't pushy at all. I've met pushy before, and they got so angry with me they put their hands on my head and prayed over me -_- I wasn't impressed.

It's hard to find answers when people get too defensive. I suppose it is a touchy subject for some, but on both sides I think there is fear of being put down or maybe even finding a little personal truth (save a small few).

Maybe I will talk to the stars sometime. I can see them, they're always there and they've been around much longer than I have ; )

^-^ Okay! I'm just glad I was helpful at least!

I really don't see how anyone expects to make a difference if they just get defensive, clearly it just doesn't help anybody! Emotions run hot and suddenly everyone's just mad at each other and all upset. So not worth it. X.x

But yeah, I talk to Orion. XD it's therapeutic I suppose. Go ahead and talk to the stars, but I call Orion from nine to eleven at night. :P

Megas2point0 03-03-2010 04:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Shtona (Post 1764671259)
I am a Christian-turned-Atheist and I've often wondered how people can look at the obvious fallacies in the book right in front of them, that is practically shoved down their throat every week, and not question them? It's amazing to me how blind 'blind faith' is! Take Luke and Matthew for example: they are the only two books that even mention the birth of Christ (a very important subject for Christians) and they don't coincide. How do you read these books and first off: not notice it; and second: believe it?!

*Calming down...*

Sorry, touchy subject for me...

So the stage is set: How do Christians ignore the fallacies in their beliefs?

Not one thing in the Bible has been disproven to this day.

Gutter Glitter 03-03-2010 05:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Megas2point0 (Post 1766706107)
Not one thing in the Bible has been disproven to this day.

Care to give any references to support this statement?

Deviant 03-03-2010 05:54 AM

Well it just amazes me that generally people cannot see that Christians and faith is just what it is--FAITH. Having faith and belief in something does not mean you can either prove or disprove of it. So it always makes me laugh when people argue that what other people believe in is 'false' when it's supposed to be just that in the first place(obviously not everything people believe in will always be the 'right' belief, but when dealing with this issue nobody really knows for a fact).

Christians are not ignorant to odds. Do you think they never have struggles in what they believe in throughout their lives? There is a 50% chance that a God exists, and a 50% chance that nothing exists. Now you can philosophically argue whether it's good to be an optimist or a pessimist; it's up to you really. But going around and blindly bashing people for taking particular examples out of the Bible to believe in is just a foolish and pointless thing to do. After all, they could just as easily come around and bash an athiest for having more secular views and having no real 'proven' facts to back their claims up either. Has anyone ever been dead long enough, witnessed the afterlife, and came back to tell about it? Well, supposedly there's books, but it's likely just a crock of shit written by nutjobs seeking fame.

The argument is not about relative belief, but rather accepting that people are going to believe and act in particular ways that you can't always understand or that they appear hypocritical. That's the human condition; we're prone to fault. Whether or not people take the Bible as a literal example of their faith, or as a metaphoric guideline of how they should live is entirely up to them. As it is within an athiest's right to not believe in anything at all. That's what it all boils down to.

silenttiger43 03-03-2010 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Deviant (Post 1766706568)
Well it just amazes me that generally people cannot see that Christians and faith is just what it is--FAITH. Having faith and belief in something does not mean you can either prove or disprove of it. So it always makes me laugh when people argue that what other people believe in is 'false' when it's supposed to be just that in the first place(obviously not everything people believe in will always be the 'right' belief, but when dealing with this issue nobody really knows for a fact).

Christians are not ignorant to odds. Do you think they never have struggles in what they believe in throughout their lives? There is a 50% chance that a God exists, and a 50% chance that nothing exists. Now you can philosophically argue whether it's good to be an optimist or a pessimist; it's up to you really. But going around and blindly bashing people for taking particular examples out of the Bible to believe in is just a foolish and pointless thing to do. After all, they could just as easily come around and bash an athiest for having more secular views and having no real 'proven' facts to back their claims up either. Has anyone ever been dead long enough, witnessed the afterlife, and came back to tell about it? Well, supposedly there's books, but it's likely just a crock of shit written by nutjobs seeking fame.

The argument is not about relative belief, but rather accepting that people are going to believe and act in particular ways that you can't always understand or that they appear hypocritical. That's the human condition; we're prone to fault. Whether or not people take the Bible as a literal example of their faith, or as a metaphoric guideline of how they should live is entirely up to them. As it is within an athiest's right to not believe in anything at all. That's what it all boils down to.

Very well put! I completely agree with you on all of this. I think the purpose of this thread was simply to gain a better understanding of why people do have these beliefs. I for one, am more than willing to explain my reasoning so I jump at the chance. I dislike people who just discard Christianity without even avidly exploring it. I do not disregard any other religion or lack thereof without knowing everything about it.

That said, I am still exploring other religions because I do not know any completely. Should I find something that makes more sense to me than Christianity then I would be open minded enough to explore that further.

One last little thing. I don't think that having faith in a religion does any hurt, at least in someone like me. I'm not, after all, going to go start up a religious war. Only those who are exceedingly idiotic and narrow minded would start a mass war against the world, especially involving freaking children's crusades and shit (pardon me) like that. that just pisses me off.

Err... anyway, my point is this. If nothing happens in the end, then nothing happens but if something does happen, I have a few basses covered. Christianity could be right, and so I'm hoping to be good in God's books. If reincarnation is true, then I get another chance at it.

Runes 03-03-2010 03:27 PM

I think everyone needs to sit down and rethink things. I love how everyone blames the church for the past. It's wasn't the Church. It was a person. The Church is an idea of utopia in a sense. Well, Utopia's don't happen they way they are planned. People get in and use the power of that place for their own gains. It's not Church or people's fault. It's the person that went a did the sins fault. The Three Musketeers' Bishop is the perfect example. He worn the cloth to get what he wanted not do what Christ wanted him to do. People are manipulated by hope, look at Obama's campaign, it's the perfect example. The idea of hope is how he got into office. Not his promises or whatever. He used the idea of hope. The Muslim extremist use the same idea to recruit their bombers. There is the hope that one will go to heaven and get virgins. It's not Allah's fault or the Muslim Churches fault, these people are doing this, it's the person that wheeled and dealed fault.

9Westy9 03-04-2010 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Gutter Glitter (Post 1766706558)
Care to give any references to support this statement?

care to give any disproving?

LadyKnightSkye 03-04-2010 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Runes (Post 1766707842)
I think everyone needs to sit down and rethink things. I love how everyone blames the church for the past. It's wasn't the Church. It was a person.

I like the way you think here.

You're right in saying that it isn't Christianity's fault but instead those in power. However, the Church is the people. In a sense, yeah, it was the Church.

But, it isn't the faith that is responsible for any wrongdoing, but the institution of that faith, usually known as the religion. The followers use the faith as an excuse to do what they please, but it is not the faith itself that is at fault. It is the abusive people, the Church, that is. One bad seed in a place of power can corrupt any institution. However, this is not to say that all Christians are bad (that would be highly hypocritical or self-degrading).

una 03-04-2010 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyKnightSkye (Post 1766718672)
I like the way you think here.

You're right in saying that it isn't Christianity's fault but instead those in power. However, the Church is the people. In a sense, yeah, it was the Church.

But, it isn't the faith that is responsible for any wrongdoing, but the institution of that faith, usually known as the religion. The followers use the faith as an excuse to do what they please, but it is not the faith itself that is at fault. It is the abusive people, the Church, that is. One bad seed in a place of power can corrupt any institution. However, this is not to say that all Christians are bad (that would be highly hypocritical or self-degrading).

I agree- kinda of. The atrocities committed by various denominations of Christianity are not always brought about by religious motives. Looking back through history there are many examples where religion is being used as a facade to justify a terrible crime that was motivated by politics, power struggles ect. However I would be inclined to separate the followers from 'the church'. What one congregator preaches isn't necessarily what their church endorses and vica versa.

roxann2003 03-05-2010 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by 9Westy9 (Post 1766717431)
care to give any disproving?

the grand canyon, dinosours, and the shroud of turin all disprove the bibles claim that the world is only 6,000 years old

Keyori 03-05-2010 01:02 AM

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Originally Posted by 9Westy9 (Post 1766717431)
care to give any disproving?

The burden of proof falls upon the person making the claim; that would be you sir.

kollusim 03-05-2010 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Keyori (Post 1766721172)
The burden of proof falls upon the person making the claim; that would be you sir.

exactly.

Chickie Nuggs 03-05-2010 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by roxann2003 (Post 1766720582)
the grand canyon, dinosours, and the shroud of turin all disprove the bibles claim that the world is only 6,000 years old


Pretty much this.
This is why I believe in God, but not in taking the bible literally. I do not like how the existence of dinosaurs, for example, is used to disprove a God. I just see it as disproving the statements of the bible which was written by a man.

roxann2003 03-05-2010 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by demoscout (Post 1766728124)

Pretty much this.
This is why I believe in God, but not in taking the bible literally. I do not like how the existence of dinosaurs, for example, is used to disprove a God. I just see it as disproving the statements of the bible which was written by a man.

You don't take the bible literally? Then how do you KNOW that there is a god? How do you know what rules to follow if you don't take the bible literally? The rules contradict themselves in the bible so what you pick and choose what to believe in the bible?


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