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Young Kids in certain Movies
So I was watching Iron Man 2 with my mom and about 3 seats from us in the same row I saw 2 parents with their little girl (I would say 5 or 6).
Now Iron Man 2 is PG-13 because of some adult humor and such, so I was wondering why they would bring a little girl into this movie. (she was pretty quiet during the movie, thank goodness, her parents only had to tell her to be quiet about 2 times.) Then I thought that I had seen about her age, kids in too many PG-13 movies....especially superhero movies with foul language and such. and personally, my mother didn't take me to movies until I was about 8 or 9 and even then she only took me to Disney or PG movies until I was 13, then I could go see PG-13 movies. So my question to you all is, should kids about her age or younger go to PG-13 movies? or is there a line at when or which movie young kids can go to? |
Kids are extremely different and I don't think there are many guidelines out there that are 100% accurate (or even close). My son has been going to PG 13 movies since he was about 5 years old. He knew curse words were bad and not to be said, and he knew that the things they do in Hollywood are all pretend. Now my daughter is about to turn 3 and I can already tell that I'll have to follow guidelines a bit closer with her. She doesn't grasp things the way her big brother did and I think PG 13 will be to much for her until she is quite a bit older.
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Well since PG-13 means parental guidance for children under 13, and the girl was under 13, and her parents were there, I think it was a completely appropriate situation.
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Okay well I am a child developement major so I land 50/50 on this... on the one side tv/movie are said to have a detrimental effect on childrens brain developement. Especially if the child is in the toddler and infant range. And the violent images can leave tramatic depressions on the brain as well(learned that in a brain developement class :P). And children in general work with the monkey see monkey do theory. So the foul language settles in.
However when I ignore what I learn in class, I don't see a problem with it. If the parent is bringing there child to such a film then obviouosly the parent feels that they can serve as the bridge and tell their child that _____is bad and _____ is just fake. Also PG-13 means parental guidence until the age of 13. Meaning the parents should as I said serve as a bridge until 13yrs old, because the film will have content that would be impressional on a younger mind. So in short version I would say that it it soully up to the parent to judge there childs ability to understand and take in the content of the film |
Like Key said, PG-13 means parental guidance under 13, so if parental guidance is okay with kids younger seeing the movie, alrighty, like Nissa said.
I think the same concept applies to other ratings, such as 14A, which means only 14 or older by my understanding. I think it's the same idea as PG-14 would be. |
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cause depending on the kid, the decision could have major consequences |
Kids shouldn't be watching violent movies at any age, but especially at 11 and under. Those kids are just starting puberty and have are trying to figure themselves out, so by watching violent movies, they'll just grow up violent people. Now, that's not always the case but I'm saying about 60% of them just become violent.
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It all depends on the kid. I've been watching vampire flicks since I was four or five. I understood it was fake. I knew it was all special effects. But some kids don't.
It's all in the parents decision. My mom would sit with me to watch movies and she would explain what was bad, or what was fake, but she allowed me to get lost in the plot, to have fun with the effects. PG-13 is just a suggestion. I mean she couldn't get in without a parent, but as long as she could understand that it wasn't real or that somethings were bad, or not to be said, I don't see a problem. Besides Iron Man 2 was a kick butt movie. |
This debate reminds me of one of the others about adult content in kid films. One of the biggest arguements in that debate is that the kids don't understand the humor and so aren't really effected by it. so although I believe that you should save Pg-13 movies for kids that are 13 and up it really doesn't hurt the kids if you take them to that movie when they are younger than 13.
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Well the PG is for parental guidance(sp) suggested, pg-13 is if over 13 its fine, R over 17... but even then its not a built system as some have pointed pout some of us mature faster then others and can handle it better
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First, Keyori, your avvie is beautiful.
Now, onto the topic. If a child is lucky enough to have responsible parents, then outside of a few concepts it doesn't matter what sort of material they view as long as their parent(s) is present to sort out any questions or issues. If they can help the child tell fantasy from reality and if they can successfully broach any topics such as violence, sexual subject matter, etc. then I think it's perfectly fine. If a person has a child who is well-behaved in public, then by all means they should be entitled to take them to a movie, or let them watch and listen to what they like. Society hs created these guildelines so that parents don't have to think. Most people accept that a bunch of people who don't know their child still somehow magically know what is best for their child, and they unquestioningly follow a brainless system of mnemonics to categorize what do do with your children and how to entertain them appropriately instead of actually raising them. Now, I'm not saying that you should take your kids to see slasher films. Kids' minds are very impressionable and images can stick with them for a long time, causing mental anguish and trouble far down the line. However, if a parent is certian their kids are mentally prepared and mature enough I don't see a problem with something like Iron Man. If I had a child they'd be going with me to see Lord of the Rings, Serenity and such, and I'd probaly let my young kids watch anime, with the understanding that it depicts adults in adult situations, and rather than using media as a babysitting droid I would actually watch these things with my kids and talk to them throughout. I probably wouldn't let anyone under 10 try to sit through something like Alien or Saw though, simply because gory images can burn themselves onto a kid's brain (my family used to watch slasher flicks with me toddling around all the time and, coupled with a not-so-shiny childhood, I cannot sit through a horror film without feeling slightly traumatized, even at the age of 22). |
some good points on everyones part ^^
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Ahahahhahahahahahaha. And, on to my point. Though it's already been said, or something along the lines. Kids don't necessarily understand some of the situations that are going on. And honestly, I've seen so many innuendos in kid shows and movies that are there for the adults that I can see no difference between taking them to a PG-13 movie. [Nothing really happens in PG-13 movies anyway.] Another point, when kids are getting close to the age of 13, it get's really annoying when the parents say they are allowed to go, but the theater wont let them in alone/with friends without a parent. I know maturity levels vary, but I fine movie ratings in general to be ridiculous. [This get's even more annoying when they're 14A, 16A etc...] I would much prefer them just to have warning. If you fail to listen, sucks to be you. For example. "This movie contains graphic violence and gore. Watch at your own discretion." I would love to enjoy R rated movies at the big screen, but because my mother does not like them, I can't, and have to wait until they come on DVD. I also find that media these days are becoming to sensitive. You can't do anything without pissing some minority off. I hear talk about becoming desensitized to violence, well I find that better than being overly sensitive. [I mean come on! I grew up with the cookie monster and I know how to eat properly! THE VEGGIE MONSTER? REALLY? And you wont let Burt and Ernie live together....pfft, TV these days.] |
The standards for what they are allowing in PG-13 movies have been slipping pretty heavily for quite a while. Some companies will go to the max amount of swearing and adult theming they can without it being rated "R" just so more people will go see it. I doubt a 13 year old is really old enough for some of the things that happen in PG-13 movies these days, but that is just how they make them now. |
I've noticed that's been the case for games, too.
I recently played a game for the original Xbox, and I noticed its rating was Mature. It got that rating because some of the characters swore during dialogue. There was no nudity, the violence was laughable (no blood, victims disappeared after you defeated them, and there was very little fighting to begin with), and the most "sexy" thing that happened was the female main character kissing a male twice. I thought that, compared to other games rated Mature (Red Dead Redemption, anyone?), it was laughably mild and wasn't really deserving of such a harsh rating... however, that game was released nearly 7 years ago. Funny how things change so quickly, eh? |
Depends on the person really. My younger cousins watch stuff that would scare the shit out of me and I'm an adult and they're not. The movie ratings are guidelines- in my opinion.
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I think it's entirely up to the parent. I started watching horror movies with my parents when I was 4 years old and I turned out alright. I knew that what happened in the movies wasn't okay and that if I heard a bad word, I wasn't supposed to repeat it but it wasn't a big deal.
I'm a psychology major, so I know there's this study and that study but really? Hearing a few cuss words and seeing a little bit of fake violence is not going to ruin your life forever unless you lack parents responsible enough to help you clear the line between Hollywood and real life. |
I think it's fine to take a kid into a PG-13 movie (and this is coming from a mom with two kids). A lot of stuff goes over kid's heads- I've seen stuff that I watched as a child and thought "wow, I didn't realize how much I didn't get!" As for cursing, I let out a swear word around my kids now and then, though I mostly do not. I've heard my daughter say a few curse words, she's 13. I've explained to her that it is generally considered rude to curse and I didn't particularly want to hear her doing so. I told her that she should especially not curse around adults, especially her friend's parents, but that if she chose to curse around her friends, well whatever. It's not like she won't do it anyway if she wants. I like to keep those lines of communication open, and that's one way to do so.
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well Sora was hanging with some friends this past saturday and Sora has a friend with 2 kids....and we watched Vagina monologues from LittleKuriboh (LMAO) in front of them cause she said it was fine...
then some other people came to us wanting to watch the video and were asking why we were watching this in front of kids XP Sora was wondering the same thing... |
I see it as kind of a semi-necessary evil. Why? Because movies need kids in them to make them humorous, plus with the editing abilities we have nowadays make it so the childs part could be filmed without them being exposed to the negative influences. Although, child stars normally grow up to be whores (Example; MK + Ashley and Lindsey Lohan.) there are some tht make it through just fine (Like Amanda Bines) but all in all, kids are exposed to stuff like that anyways because parents today are lazy. The V-Chip and "Chaperone" are perfect examples. |
I think that it depends on the movie, and the kid. Some PG-13 movies are fine for kids, while others are really not. I think that it should be a case-by-case basis, using the ratings as a loose, general guideline. Also, the maturity of the kid should be taken into account. I think that most kids are more mature and can handle more than we give them credit for.
That said, there are some movies that I've seen to which parents had brought kids that, no matter how mature the children were, should have not been in the theater for the movie no matter what. When I went to see Kill Bill vol. 1 when it first came out, there were these two parents sitting in the front row with their kid and a bunch of others. The kid looked about seven and, from what I heard(they were really loud before the movie started) he was there with his friends for a birthday party. Why two adults thought that any movie by Quentin Tarantino would be a great idea for a seven year old's birthday is beyond me. They all left about ten minutes into the movie, screaming and crying. I saw a lot of kids with their parents the couple of times that I saw Watchmen in the theater, too. I think that some parents just saw it as a superhero movie and ignored the R rating. Needless to say, once again, there was crying and running out of the theater. |
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