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06:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Fabby

But damage to the uterus/cervix is not a common phenomenon during abortions. A few women may come out unable to conceive, but most of the time there's no damage at all. Like I said, obviously you have a higher probability of damage to your lady-parts if you have more abortions, but that does NOT mean that many abortions = no babies.

Damage doesn't happen at all during a medical abortion, so you could have as many of those as you please and still get pregnant.

That is a very valid point, I can not disagree with that in anyway shape or form. I was just using things as an example, but unlike some people that I have noticed, they don't know when to back down and been wrong on a topic. I shall back down right now and say that you proved a very logical point and I can see where you are coming from on that. However I do not change what I have said on some of my other things until someone else is logically point things out. Like you have done.

Edit: I giggle at how we are playing the edit game XD Anyways. Yes you are right. Not a lot of people have people to turn to. But you can still take care of a child, and stay in school. I mainly say this if you are over the age of 18 and live alone or have a boyfriend/girlfriend, fiancee, husband or whatever to help take care of the child. If the schedules clash, then it is simple. Change your college classes to where they match up. If anyone tells me that they can not do that. I don't believe that for a second, seeing as most colleges have night classes. Also jobs and schools are very flexible now days to people who have children.

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Originally Posted by Keyori

Oh, and then you say, "well just don't have sex!" Wow I wish I lived in the fantasy world you do. Sorry, but I value the relationship I have with my soon-to-be husband, and he values it too (that's kindof why we're getting married). I'm not going to ruin the relationship I have with the best person in my life because you tell me not to have sex. That's not how the world works. People have sex, and it strengthens their relationship. Sexual frustration can easily crumble an otherwise healthy relationship. Been there, done that.

So basically my options boil down to having a baby or getting a divorce! YEAH YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK I CAN TELL YOU ARE DEFINITELY CONCERNED ABOUT THE WELL-BEING OF OTHERS!

Excuse me. Who are you to say that I am not concerned about the well-being of others? Did someone give you a stamp to judge someone? No. I think not. K? K. Also do not give me this little kid talk about how sex works in the real world when I have my own soon-to-be husband as well. Did I say that I wanted you to ruin your relationship? Um no. I was simply stating that if you turned around and had a child after taking all the precautions that you do, that there might be a reason for you to have a child.

Then again, silly me for being brought up that in the ways of everything happens for a reason. Also. You do not know my personal thoughts on this matter so get the hell of my back.

Congrats on being engaged though, I hope you two have a good engagement and a good marriage. I am not here to make enemies in this topic. Thus the reason I was avoiding it after I saw it. I was just sick that people were putting words in peoples mouths.

Now before I offend you anymore, as I can see I already have and I am sorry that I did. I was not meaning to.

Also last I checked. Real love, doesn't need sex. -signed both Raeillieagh and myself.

While it might strengthen it. So does other things. I might not get to have sex with my guy as much as I want (Hell that is really never. Seeing as he works all the damned time), but do I love him any less. No. I don't, and we don't always need sex either.