Mmmh...I don't know if I really should speak of this,but come on,let's go...

I have some minor,minor love problems.
You see,I am bisexual. Okay. Everyone knows it,I don't particulary hide it. But you see,I just cannot get myself fixed,I've already trying have a girlfriend,and in was absolutely perfect but we broke up because her friends absolutely HATED me,they thought I am some kind of filthy slut who is using my ex. Plus,there was a lot of people who,knowing that I have a girlfriend,started persecuting me,teasing me,and a lot of my "friends",or people I thought were friends,suddenly "disappeared" of my life,you see? So we broke up finally. I think she is still deeply in love with me because she still craves for my touch and offers me very expensive gifts,like clothes and accessoiries...Yet I don't want to go back to her. It's like all the passion I had has vanished with time and became just strong friendship.
I already tried having a boyfriend,but it was even worse. He just f*cked me some times then he forsaked me.
The result of all that is that I am totaly afraid of love,I want it,yes,but I am really afraid,I don't know if I should go for women or men,I am completely confused.

I know,I know,I shouldn't give up on love for now,I still have time to find it but as days,mounths,years are passing by I still feel colder and colder,seeing all those people happy in love around me.

That's it...Sorry for using space at the forum. I just wanted to say all that,even if no one is going to respond me.

I See what you there talking about on out Pm. I cant say I understand seeing as I am not bisexual nor do i have an ex who has ever really loved me as more then an obsession of profit to her. But seeing as you feel that your passion for your ex had died to a friendship once again I would have to say that the best thing for you to do is to explain to her that your love for her as become more of a deep friendship and not a love any more and hopefully she will understand. As far as you choosing whither you want to have a boy friend or girlfriend if totally up to you. I just want to say that that guy you where with didn't really love you for who you where he just wanted your body and nothing else and once he got it he dropped you like a sack of rocks. I do want to say that not all men are bad guys and that you just need to be patient and find the right guy or girl for you. You never know. the right one might be right in front of you and you don't even realize it yet.

Why don't take a little breather first? Stop looking at other people, not everyone's all in love and happy, you know, Ksenia. You just see the outside.

Take care of yourself first. Try to engage in other matters first, try out activities that will keep you busy, while contemplating on what you really want out of life. Also, try to meet more people, both male and female, so you can test and see. Who knows, maybe what you really need is not a romantic or sexual relationship. Maybe it's friendships.

In any case, just pull back a bit first and don't do anything rash. You just went through something tough so learn a lesson from it. Okay? And good luck.

I'm so sorry your experience so far as a bisexual has been bad. You never can tell how some people will react. You just have to take it all in stride and remind yourself that if your friends can't accept you for who you are, including your orientation, it's their loss for being prejudiced.

Who cares what her friends think? If you have feelings for someone who has feelings for you back, go for it. Don't let anyone else's opinion get in the way, ever! It's not their relationship and it's not their place to judge.

You don't have to make yourself confused and you don't have to aim for just men or just women. You have all of your life to figure yourself out. You don't have to rush. Just wait for love to come to you and wait for your heart to heal. If you just give it time and try not to think about love more than you need to, you'll meet someone. You can't force love. It will be so much better if you just let it come to you.

You will find that some people immediately cringe away from you because you are bisexual, but other people will be able to look past that superficial barrier and get to know the real you. The second type is the kind of person you want to spend your time with anyway. Don't worry about the first type.
Try meeting a few new people without looking at them as potential boyfriends or girlfriends. Just make friends. A few strong non-romantic relationships will help you feel confident and safe. Then you can make your decision slowly, and find someone who will really love you back.

I guess you are all right. I just have to chill down a little now...Thanks for your responces,I will keep it in my mind. :)

I say keep open. Try not to limit yourself with the label of "bisexual". Technically, that's where I stand. But that's...limiting. Just leave yourself open to anyone and everyone.I don't believe anyone really has an orientation until they meet their soulmate.