My parents are filing a divorce, and tonight my mom tried to kill herself. If my aunt hadn't found her at a gas station, I might not have her. I know many people have these problems, but my parents were together for twenty years. They seemed happy, barely any fights, and then last week this was a dropping bomb. It was a large shock, because it seemed to just be decided over night, and now a week later, my mom wanted to come back. My dad wouldn't take her and she wanted to 'prove' how much she loved him.

sounds like something happened between them...

it really takes time to get through the hard times, time and friendship. it's harder if you are alone. so just be there for your mom.

I would have just thought it was drama, until my brother ran off down the street to look for her. And when he held my hand. My brother is never affectionate to anyone, but his girlfriend. If I ever tried to hug him, he'd get mad. That's when I knew everything was serious. I just can't believe it.

It's true, many people do have these problems. Some people can say they survived it and tell you what to do. Some can't,
but honey, try not to stress and just show your mom you love her. And that you're going to be there for her, she really needs your love right now.
Stay out of the arguments, it will cause less stress on you. Also, try to give your dad love too. He has some issues he needs to work out with your mother but he still loves you and it will make him happy to know you care.
I'll be praying for you.

what you need is some one to talk to. Menewsha is full of people willing to do that just pm me if you want to talk in private i will be there to listen if that is what you want

Things always have to be counterbalances, things will always get better. There's a light at the end of the tunnel but you have to do through the dark tunnel to get there first. It might be hard, long, and you might stumble on your way there. But if you put forth the effort and don't give up on yourself and your family, you will end up fine.

Talking about it can always help. Friends are also a very valuable asset, because they can help you just by being there. They don't have to say anything, but having them there at your side when things get rough is a great blessing that shouldn't be taken lightly.

Not to mention there's always got to be a light at the end of the tunnel.

My parents got divorced and my mum almost killed herself, too.
I never think about these kinds of things, I don't have emotions.
So I don't process it, don't feel the need to, I'm not sad or upset.
It's all good.

:3

But I'd say, like the rest, talking about it is the best thing.

well all you can do is make your mom happy so she wont kill herself
you can tell her at least be happy your alive in this world
of ours because if you wern't alive i wouldn't
even be here tell her that because it is
true and it helps people think about what they
really are doing wrong

It sounds like both your parents need your understanding and support right now, and that they need someone to be strong for them. Unfortunately that role may fall on you and your brother.
Unfortunately I don't know them, but there are lines you can call for advice, to try and sort out whats going on in your own head, and it doesn't hurt to talk to others.
One big thing though is to remember that it doesn't sound like you have the full story. Most people aren't randomly, flatly unreasonable, they have reasons for making the decisions they do, including your fathers decision not to take back your mother. But that's largely something between them, that they need to work out. I think if they feel comfortable, you might know later, but neither may want to taint your picture of the other.

My own mother was suicidal when I was younger, for different reasons. It's tough and frightening, and as others have said, you simply will not have the entire story, just because what is happening is between them. Lean on friends and if your parents are the sort you can talk to about these kinds of things, talk to your father. He's your dad, it's his JOB to help you through this. In fact, as a mother, I venture to say that helping his children get through this time no matter how he feels should be his primary responsibility. If you don't feel you can talk to him, though, might I suggest approaching your school nurse or a trusted teacher and requesting some help or someone to talk to? Honestly, finding someone who can help you stay on an even keel is the most important thing. That, and then just hang on.

I am still open to your pm's if you want and try joining an rp they will help you get your miond off the fellings untill you are ready to talk and open up more

Originally Posted by Insanity Rose

My own mother was suicidal when I was younger, for different reasons. It's tough and frightening, and as others have said, you simply will not have the entire story, just because what is happening is between them. Lean on friends and if your parents are the sort you can talk to about these kinds of things, talk to your father. He's your dad, it's his JOB to help you through this. In fact, as a mother, I venture to say that helping his children get through this time no matter how he feels should be his primary responsibility. If you don't feel you can talk to him, though, might I suggest approaching your school nurse or a trusted teacher and requesting some help or someone to talk to? Honestly, finding someone who can help you stay on an even keel is the most important thing. That, and then just hang on.

Oh, wow... That's the best advice I've ever heard. Thank you so much! :angel: