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Old 08-22-2008, 08:26 PM

So it starts of pretty innocent,..... i thought i was chatting to a friend of mine who i hadn't seen for a while...
turns out a "friend" of mine was on this other friends account,.... when i knew for sure that it was this person, things took a rather bad turn for the worst.....

Person S "I had you blocked for a reason"
Me "The reason being :S?"
Person S " I had permission ^^"
Me" Thanks :S"
Person S "Tis allright ^ ^ "
Me " You know you really are something,... i try my hardest to get along well with you then you decieve me by pretending to be someone else .... just leave me alone"
Person S " Person L gave me permission to do this, he said you where the biggest mistake he ever made, i aint trying to be mean or nothing.... (?) I think you should know because you seem to want his friendship alot"
Me " I really don't want to hear this,... I wanted yours too but screw it....leave me alone"
Person S " Oke if you say so, but as i said we are both going away to south devon college, to get away from it all (baring in mind i have no idea what she has to get away from ive done nothing :S) sorry for hurting you but you never seem to want to listen unless you think im someone else (i always listen x.x)

I aint going against what Person L said,... he let me do this so blame us both

Me " Im not blaming anyone... Im tired of the pain and the hurt you cause,.... just because you like to make stories in ure head that im lieing and have some alterior motive ... youve got ure fun and pleasure.... now please just leave me be x.x

Person S " Oke fine... ill block you on this account like you orriginally where before i came along (she laughs at this point*
Me " I dont care just leave me be :'( "


Well so thats what happened, any advice x.x

Last edited by Eink; 08-23-2008 at 09:35 PM.. Reason: The post was unreadable so i changed it....

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Old 08-23-2008, 11:44 PM

I can't say I'm completely sure of what's going on.

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Old 08-24-2008, 12:03 AM

Ignore them?

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Old 08-24-2008, 12:06 AM

Erm. From what I can grasp ill give you what I think might help? Maybe writing it out in a story for people would be alot better :]
And give persons little fake names?

Anyway. Im guessing one person hurt you awhile back and this friend of yours has taken their side on it. And by the looks of it have decided to rub it into your face. No offense but a simply 'I dont wish to speak with you anymore because I am siding with -insert name-' would have been enough rather than giving and hurtful jabs at your expense.

From they way your 'friend' has spoken to you my advice simply is to forget them. If they want to treat you like dirt then why do you want their friendship? Your far better off without them.
If they want to rub their friendship in your face then turn your nose up at them and say 'I dont care. Do whatever you want'.
Doing this wont be easy, far from it to be honest. Getting over their spitefulness will however make you a stronger person.

You dont need these people. Move on with your life and forget about them. They arnt worth anymore thoughts or anymore of your time.

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Old 08-24-2008, 02:03 AM

If I were you...I'd ignore them. (:

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Old 08-24-2008, 02:23 AM

i am lost can help if you made it clearer

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Old 08-24-2008, 02:33 AM

Really all you can do is ignore them at this point, or at least see from their point of view and figure out why they are mad.

It is a little unclear though, try using fake names instead and write it out like a story. It'd be much easier to grasp what in the world is going on besides someone got on this other person's account and had you talking to them.

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Old 08-24-2008, 08:06 AM

HAHAHAHAHA!!!! I'm sorry, it's just funny that i totally understood all of that! XD It wasn't confusing at all. Alright, well she sounds like a total B****!!~ If i were you i'd just leave it where it is and not let her get to you. She's only trying to get under your skin and mess with you till she gets a reaction. So just ignore her and act like nothing happened. Honestly, if you wanna make her feel dumb and upset her <.<;; if you ever happen to run into her or something, just smile at her, and walk away. It confuses and upsets them a hell of a lot o.O;;

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Old 08-24-2008, 04:20 PM

I guess so some degree it is a little hard to understand... long time ago "Lucy" and i where very very good friends,... she had a boyfriend and i had a boyfriend,... I left my boyfriend because he was violent to me,... and several weeks later Lucy asked me if i liked her boyfriend,.... unfortunately i did have feelings for him but none strong enough to make me want him like she thought i did,... so i said no, as not wanting to hurt her feelings,... and knowing that it was just a small crush,... nothing serious, again a few more weeks pass,... and Lucy had split where "Trent" for a reason that was unclear till the next day,.... Lucy had asked my ex boyfriend "Max" to go out with her,.... it later became clear that she had been twisting things between me and my ex,... to get us to fall out,.. have arguments which resulted in Max's violence. And all because Lucy was jealous that Max had asked me out,....Later Trent had asked me out,... and i said yes stupidly

This is the event that started the whole problem off,....How could something like this cause that,...
Simple..... apparently i lied about my feelings for Trent which i guess to some degree i did,... but they weren't feelings strong enough,... and i don't see why she's so fussed about it, to be honest at the time she asked me,... she had no feelings what so ever for Trent,... she wanted Max and wanted me out of the equation so she could get him,...

She confessed that had i have admitted to how i felt about Trent no matter how small or big the feelings where she would have quite happily left Trent so she could have Max

I hope this is a little clearer for you guys

Thanks for the advice so far ...

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Old 08-26-2008, 07:40 AM

It was really messed up of her to pull strings to ruin you and Max's relationship, but if he was easily violent, I doubt it would have been a good relationship anyway. And yes, you should have been more honest with her.

Personally, I think it was because of both actions that led up to this. And if you're still willing to be friends with her, maybe you can try to meet up with her in person, just the two of you and talk things out and explain why both of you did the things you did. She shouldn't have other people talk for her, because that only makes things worse.

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Old 08-26-2008, 08:32 AM

O_o... wtf?? ... wow "Lucy" sounds like a betch... XD ... are you trying to still be friends with "Max"? ... that is some messed upedness... I wouldn't want to be friends with either of them... 1) because "Lucy" doesn't sound like a good friend if she messed up your relationship with "Max" because she wanted him and 2) whether "Lucy" is making stuff up that "Max" has said or not I wouldn't be friends with him either if he's going to let her talk to you through his name? ...

seriously if you can just ignore them both ... that's just way too much unnecessary drama ... -__-

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Old 08-26-2008, 09:10 PM

Ignore them. They only do it becuase they get a reaction out of you.

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Old 08-26-2008, 11:28 PM

Hmmm...
Well from what I can see, these people aren't real friends. If they're willing to hurt you like i'm pretty sure they did, you don't need or want them as friends. You're way past the 'sit down and try to save this friendship' phase, so I say break this 'friendship' off. A clean break will be easier to deal with.
Also, whatever they did to you is unacceptable. Next time you have friends that do stuff like that and try to fix it, (though I don't think there'll be a next time) now you know what to do.

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Old 08-27-2008, 01:45 PM

Okay,.. thanks for all your support guys,... and yes i should have been more honest maybe but i wasnt for an understandable reason,... ive decided i dont want the friendship with any of them its just too much hassle and i deserve better treatment,... thanks again

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Old 08-29-2008, 01:57 AM

Like others have said,just ignore them.Seems to me they are out to cause drama,dont give em the satisfaction.Oh and block them too!

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Old 08-29-2008, 09:15 AM

wow yeah lucy seems like a betch! my god. i would ignore her. are you still friends with her?
she seem like a bad friend

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Old 09-15-2008, 01:19 AM

I'm not sure I understand, but it sounds like their friendship isn't worth it.

I'd just ignore them and move on.

 


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