That everybody doesn't like me.
does any one else feel like that? i know im different
but i don;t think there's a problem with it and everyone
else does. It's hard to explain but can anyone relate?
>__<

YES, totally gal. D:

I remember back in high school I always felt paranoid. I would make friends quickly, but girls in high school especially loved to talk behind your back. So, naturally, I was always thinking about what they were saying. I became so self conscious I stopped having fun all together. ;-;

There's no problem feeling that way, as long as you don't let it take over your life. I did at one point, and I felt absolutely miserable. Everyone was really worried about my well being. The fact that there was this bullytastic girl that would always tell everyone she wanted to beat me up. >.>; I thought that was funny in essence, but I still felt uneasy.

The person should just not put too much thought into it. Everyone in my opinion can have a wonderful personality as long as you give them a chance. ( If you want to get technical, I'll just say almost everyone xD ) But I strongly believe that everyone does deserve a chance, you know?

I always feel as if the people who are my friends aren't really my friends and that when I come to hang out with them they dont want me to. And so I just let them come to me. And I really only know that I have like one or two true friends.

Right now, I'm kinda worried that my friend is only inviting me to her sweet 16 because she feels obliged to.

I used to be really paranoid in High School. I was always self-conscious of the way I looked and acted because I was afraid of what people thought of me and in the long run it just made me look dumb. I became almost invisible because I tried to make myself as unnoticeable as possible. And the whole time I was miserable because trying to blend into the wall really isn't fun at all. Now I'm in college and I try to ignore the little voice in my head that's constantly worrying about what other's think. I kind of give myself a mental push to go ahead and do what it is that I want instead of what I think others would want. I just concentrate on being a good person and that's what really matters. People are attracted to people that are nice and who have a good heart. That's the kind of person I strive to be no matter what other's might think. Sure, I'm still a bit paranoid at times, but I'm a lot better than I was and I'm a lot better off.

Thanks people ^__^

i've always stuck out like a sore thumb
by choice
why because i'd rather be hated for being me then liked for being someone else
i can't just be the type who sits back and follows the crowd
i cut my own hair i hack job my clothes
i say things purposely to get reactions
i laugh at jokes that aren't funny on purpose
if i have a problem i state it
if i don't like someone or something i state it flat out
alot of people dislike it
but those who stick around
well their true friends and i know they like me for me
well most of the time they like me
i dunno robbie shot his shoe at me a few hours ago
red makes him look like a tomato i stated how horrid his outfit was
i got shoes thrown at me
its all good
he changed
yay happy endings

Hell, you're not the only one! First, I'm atheist [in a catholic school in a catholic country. Yeah.], second, I'm calm and silent [in a city where everyone is talkative and likes gossipping], third, I read [in a classroom full of people who have a hard time reading and writing]. Also, my tastes differ greatly from most of the people I know. So, I'm bassically what americans call a weirdo. An unadapted, a misfit, an alien. A nerd/punk/gothic/whatever label people like to come up with XD. But, I don't let myself worry much. Sure, I have no friends, but it could have been worse. I was only victim of bullying twice, so I guess I'm doing good with life 8D;;

PS: Wow jeppa... at least you aren't an hypocrite xD;;

Everyone goes through it, don't worry, you'll get over it eventually.

Of course, I feel like everyone hates me, I just know it. >___<

*hugs Aura* You're not alone my dear >o> Though I wouldn't say "hate", it's more like... dislike. Yeah. Like this guy in my class, he pays no attention to me, but I still get the "You're as annoying as a fly" aura from him o_o'

PS: Good to know that! "umop episdn", w/e that means :'D

I get paranoid as well, but mine is due to past issues. You could say to yourself "What evidence do I have that no one likes me?" then eventually the thought will disappear because evidence won't be found.

The idea that everyone hates me and is laughing at me keeps me up at night. I'm pretty sure my fears are justified.
No, you're not the only one. xD

I used to feel that way in highschool. It turned out that some people DIDN'T like me, but I realized that the people who didn't like me didn't matter.
If people don't like you for no good reason then they're not even worth thinking about.

I think you should just try to be the best of yourself.
If that makes any sense lol.
I think confidence can attract people,
and being confident with yourself will help you a lot with social situations.
If you are still in school, I suggest that you should just be yourself and don't feel shy.