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Old 02-15-2009, 03:44 AM

So there`s this guy i really like.Is there any subtle way i can tell him?I know it sounds weird but still.

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Old 02-15-2009, 03:59 AM

Just come right out with it. If you mince words and beat around the bush, there's a good chance he won't understand you. A misunderstanding is the last thing you want in a delicate situation like this.

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Old 02-15-2009, 03:59 AM

I find guys are usually really slow to pick up on any form of hint or suggestion (unless its sex xP lol), usually its just best to ask them out casually to a movie or hang out at a mall :yes:

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Old 02-15-2009, 04:45 AM

Subtle doesn't work with boys, you have to just say "hey wanna you know go get some coffee?"

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Old 02-15-2009, 09:28 PM

I'm with the others. It's better to be straight to the point about it. I know that's not always the easiest thing to do...

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Old 02-15-2009, 10:33 PM

If being that direct in words is too difficult, you could try doing it in a note. Just make sure they know who it's from!
I've only asked a guy out once (was turned down, but then realized I was in love with my best friend anyway and started going out with him), and I did it through a note. Wrote it down, sat next to him, freaking out for a good five minutes, then just threw it at him. xD It takes some of the awkwardness out of it since you can plan what you're going to say better.

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Old 02-15-2009, 11:26 PM

just be straight foward with him, guys cant really take a hint now a day. he may think your just being friendly, soooo the best thing is to be direct ^^

wether its you saying to him face to face, in a note...on the phone ^^

good luck btw

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Old 02-16-2009, 09:52 AM

My boyfriend and I never, ever would have gotten together if I hadn't come out and told him I was interested. He was too busy convincing himself that I didn't like him, even though I clearly did. So you just have to tell him.

My advice? Don't do it face to face or on the phone. I know this usually goes against people's advice, but write him a note or send him an e-mail to tell him you like him. (The one big no-no is using a friend.) Then he has time to process it and think of a response, rather than being put on the spot. It'll save you both a really uncomfortable moment. If he doesn't respond in a day or two, a reminder or two should do the trick.

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Old 02-16-2009, 10:16 AM

Yeah I'd just tell him or ask him out
I've asked guys out before so I hope it works out
for you

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Old 02-16-2009, 10:03 PM

Just reiterating what Fabby said: DON'T go through a friend.
Not only does it seem immature and childish, it leaves too much room for mistrust and misinterpretation. This friend may be your best friend ever and you'd trust her with your life, but she's not the guy's best friend, and he's going to feel even more uncomfortable telling her how he feels about you than he would to your face, most likely.

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Old 02-16-2009, 10:16 PM

Talk to him first of all. If you just stare at him from across the room you will never get anywhere my friend.
Secondly, if you don't feel comfortable asking him for a date then just ask him to hang out with a bunch of people. All of you could go to a movie or something. That way you can spend a little more time with him and build up to the whole date thing.
And lastly to reiterate the previous statements, do not ever ask through a friend. It never works and it just makes you look pathetic.

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Old 02-17-2009, 08:33 PM

Walk up to him and say, "I LIKE YOU."

That's it.

The blunter you are, the easier it will be for everyone, and if you're ridiculously blunt it'll also be funny and make a good story! :D

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Old 02-18-2009, 05:25 AM

Either, let him know you like him. Or move on. Don't peddle around the dollar all day waiting for it to come to you. Do something about it and take charge of your own life. My suggestion, as a guy, when you are sitting at lunch beat around the bush (topic) for a minute so you don't completely blindside him. What scares guys the most about being told this is when they are blindsided. It is one of those things where you are like "Oh fuck, how do I respond to this." Once you have given him enough hints of the topic just come out with it.

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Old 02-18-2009, 06:12 PM

I agree with Cherry; be bold and be blunt. But not TOO blunt.
Be straight with your feelings, it shows confidence. People like that.

 


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