It's been 2 1/2 months. He meant so much to me even after dating for 2 months. We learned so much about each other, and spend hours every day talking, joking around, or cuddling. And I honestly, since the very first time I met him, have been extremely fond of him. We clicked really well. About a year after we met, we started dating. And yeah, 2 months... it was broken off early because things got complicated. He keeps on saying that it was because he did some stupid things and was an idiot... and that it's not my fault, and he says sorry like every time we talk. And I get flashbacks and almost start crying every time we talk now. I hate how different things are. It's like... Idk, I'm watching through glass now... and I just want to break through the glass to get to him again, so close how it used to be, but I'm afraid I'll get hurt/"cut up" if I do. He's been spending a lot of time with this other girl. I just texted him, and it turns out that the reason that he rejected my attempt to spend time with him again (after not for a month when I'm moving away next month!!!) is because he already had plans to be w/ that other girl.... and that today, she brought up maybe dating him, and he asked her out. Peh. That's the same way it happened w/ us. And zhomgz I hate being jealous. It annoys the heck out of me. It makes me feel miserable about myself. But it's still so hard to stop having feelings for him. I blushed even looking at him today. And from being around him every day for hours to not at all but seeing him for half a second in the halls... which sometimes it isn't even that.... for a whole month, it's torture. And I suck at getting over people. Because freaking everything reminds me of them. D:
Oh yeah. Last time I rode this bus was w/ him. Oh... and milk flavored pocky? We shared that together for the first time. And hey this is his favorite band. -.-"
Help plzzz

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I'm in the exact same situation right now. I got dumped, he's dating another girl, and I can't seem to get him out of my head.

It's tough. I wish that I could give you some amazing, easy answer that would automatically fix it all, but it doesn't work that way. Love doesn't just disappear. The most you can hope for is that it will fade away over time and leave you feeling without regret.

Give yourself some time and space. You might miss him and might want to spend all of your time around him, but maybe that isn't what you need right now. It's hard to get over someone if you're always around them and if you don't have the time to grow on your own. Instead of concentrating on how much you miss him and want to spend more quality time with him, try thinking about all the things you enjoy doing by yourself or with other friends.

Every time you catch yourself thinking about him, just stop and take a deep breath. Try your best to direct your mind towards some happier, more optimistic subject. You won't always be able to, but concentrate on the good things in your life right now.

You'll get over him in time. Just don't judge yourself or beat yourself up about how long it's taking. There's no time limit or plan for how it's supposed to feel.

Yeah, I think it's mainly going to be time and new experiences that let you get over someone. Moving might help too. =D New things to see and people to meet.

It's a big world and not worth getting hung up on one person. It's okay to feel sad and disappointed for awhile but you know how old that gets.

Time is your friend. It might move slowly for a while, but slowly but surely, hopefully, you'll grow to become used or over it.

There's really not much you can do besides distracting yourself from the thoughts that are making you upset. Avoid him if he makes you uncomfortable.

Thanks... Yeah I'm hoping that the move will help too.
And for now, instead of going to that same table every day (though I can't seem to stop myself from glancing at it to see if he's there -.-"), I've been going to the asian table in the morning haha (Nihonjin desu kara. Soshite, tomodachi ga imasu.) and the art room in the afternoon.

>> << But.....just this one day...I'm not at school. >_<"
I'll go tomorrow though. .-.

Ugh. This is sort of a dilemma. Yeah, love isn't any less important if it isn't some epic love story, but 2 months is not a long time, you will move on. If you are young especially. Just think about the fun things you can do as a single gal!

A while ago I was in an awesome relationship--the best I've had so far--but I broke it off for my own reasons. And yeah, I think back on it and wish I had the nerve to try and make things work again but then I stop and really think about it.

Mostly, the only reason I wanted any of my relationships again was because I was lonely or I miss how awesome of a friend that person was, it's never that I really want to be with them in a relationship.

Maybe you should take a long hard moment to reflect. Do you miss him or having someone that close to you? Was he really worth it if he can so easily move on? Just think hard about all the reasons you really wanted to be back with him.

And then realize that you're still young and love isn't something that just slaps everyone in the face with every turn they take. There will always be better and worse relationships and there will always be moments when you think you're in love when you're really not.

Just preoccupy yourself with better friends, use this as motivation to do something you've been wanting to do or get done. Take a deep breath and use everything you have and all the people you know to help you move on.

Hopefully, moving will make things easier for you but maybe it won't. That's life, and it makes us stronger.