Sorry if it's a bit long, but I'm really confused after a series of events...

I know this guy at university since last year. We don't take the same classes anymore but, still, talk to eachother everyday. Even have lunch together sometimes.
I started to think of this after a conversation we had on MSN, on the end of our week off, due to Easter. Summing it up, it was like this:

Him: I thought a lot about you this week, I've rediscovered the love of my life!
Me: Yeah? How did you do that?
Him: I've spent the whole week playing video game!
Me: xD Glad to know there's one more truly happy person on Earth!
Him: I'm so happy it's getting annoying.
You're free to say "go to hell!" if you need to, next week.
Me: Great, I'll spread the word! xD
Him: xD No, you can do that 'cause you're VIP. For others is different.

It gets very complicated because I have a boyfriend, we're together for 1,5 year now, but I keep thinking about all the time. I'm even dreaming about it the past few days...

Edit: Forgot to mention, I'm 20, he just turned 21 and my boyfriend's 19 years old.

Sounds like he's being a bit flirty, does he know you're already taken?
Are you happy in your current relationship?

If his comments are confusing you or making you uncomfortable, you should just tell him.

Yes, he knows that, he even knows my boyfriend. Never mentioned anything about him, but he's fully aware of that.

I am happy, but there are a few things that didn't bother before starting to annoy me. I guess that's why I'm so confused about this whole thing...

Thanks for the reply!

There's a big leap from VIP to "boyfriend" or "threat to current relationship"... it could be that you are a "VIP" simply because you're a good friend. If in doubt, why don't you ask? Or sit back and see what -if anything- else happens...?

I'm to shy to just go over and ask this for him ^^"
I thought, at first, we're just good friends. The hard-to-find good friends. But he telling this just to me, not his best friend or any other got me wondering... Maybe it's really better sit back and wait.
Specially to see what happens to me and my boyfriend. I'm afraid I don't feel the same for him anymore, mainly because he's always complaining I don't show my emotions very well, I seem cold, etc.

Thank you for replying!

hey, you guys are young. boys come and go, but if you have a real connection to this friend, ask him if he would ever be more of a friend?? or maybe try holding his hand when you guys are walking somewhere and see how he responds??

my best friend is a guy but he is gay so i am not sure. although i do have a lot of guy friends too. hmmm also, do you see yourself with your boyfriend for much longer? I am kind of in the same boat here, seeing a new guy casually while on a 'break/seperation/breakup" from my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years... but am now getting back with him. and now, i feel like i have to chose. and after talking and seeing the new guy i have a lot of doubts with my boyfriend. now i feel i am just staying with him for now, for closure. and... i also need a roomate hahahah but we know we could just be roomies even if we split again because we are more frinds than soulamtes i suppose.

anyways, just know youre not alone and i know its confusing. best of luck with both boys :)