okay, so my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now. We've been best friends pretty much for a few years, so it's not like I just met him. Since summer started, we've been hanging out pretty much everyday, and just having a lot of fun together. About a week ago, he's stopped calling me, & making plans with me. We have marching band practice every morning, and he doesn't even say 'hi'. Yesterday he just came up to me and said "your wearing plaid." I was like "yeah? o_O" then he walked away. wtf. During band he's been obsessed with these two girls in a grade ahead of us, and always hangs out with them. He doesn't even pay attention to me the whole hour and a half we're there. Today, we had about 20 minutes to just talk and have popsicles, since it was our last band rehearsal thingy, and he didn't even come up to me, at all. he was with his other two girl-friends. i've told him yesterday that he's been ignoring me, and he said he didn't think he was. And today he didn't even act like he knew me. Does this sound strange to you? What should I do? I don't really want to break up with him, so what do I say?

Point out to him all the things he's doing to make you think that he's ignoring you. He may not be aware so be specific about how you feel and why you feel that way. Tell him you want it to change if you guys are going to continue going out.

You say that he hasn't come up to you lately - Have you gone up to him and initiated? Sometimes we wait for people and wait and wait, but no one can read minds and automatically know what we want. If you want to spend more time with him, the best way is just to walk right up and start talking.

I suggest that you make plans with him this weekend and put aside some time to just talk. Let him know that you're feeling a bit ignored and lonely lately. Ask him if anything is wrong or if he's feeling okay lately. Let him know that you're feeling a bit jealous of the other girls he's been hanging around and that you would feel much better if the two of you would have more quality time together.

Whenever I feel like my man is ignoring me, I ask if I did something wrong. Maybe you could try that? Or ask why he'd rather be around those girls instead of you.

Okay, thank-you everyone! All of your answers were great, he came over and we talked about it. He said he felt bad, and I don't think he'll act like this tomorrow (hopefully). (:

Sounds like you are beating a dead horse. To the left I say. Kick him to the curb. He is rude. He is avoiding you. Hey babe you are worth more than that.