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Pancakie 08-20-2009 01:26 AM

Best Friend
 
Alright, don't you hate it when best friends all of a sudden change? And it's not only normal changes, but really, horrible, and ugly changes. My best friend was a really close friend to me and we've known each other since we were little babies. But the problem is as soon as we grew older, she has been been lying to me constantly, and making me feel like an idiot listening to her made up stories. I told her many, many times that I didn't like people who lied, and that I would stop being her best friend if she continued acting like this. Stuff she lied about, was stuff like I don't want to say, but it's horrible.

She just doesn't listen to me, and again I told her about the issue, but this time I was being short tempered easily, and quickly after she told me she didn't understand. But she does, she's just lying. I told her I'm not her best friend any more and she keeps on bothering me and begging me to be her best friend again. When we were little, and we were extremely close friends, we promised to be honest with each other no matter what.

I guess that was the end of our friendship, but she somehow doesn't quite seem to get it--which I know she does. She's continously texting, calling, sending messages, and e-mail, and annoying me.

What should I do? She won't stop no matter how much I tell her to. Please don't advice me to talk to her parents, I really don't want to face the matter that her parents are bi-polar, and gets mad really quickly at one time, and happy at the other. Help? : (

Winter Wind 08-20-2009 03:16 AM

Ouch.
Good job for ending it. :]

As for emails, put her under spam.
:]
Or block her.
>_>
calling...can't you change the ringtone to silent when she calls? xD
Or blocking it...but I don't know how.

Texting...gahhh.
This girl's ANNOYING.
x_x
Try blocking again? D:

Novariko 08-20-2009 03:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Winter Wind (Post 1764944145)
Ouch.
Good job for ending it. :]

As for emails, put her under spam.
:]
Or block her.
>_>
calling...can't you change the ringtone to silent when she calls? xD
Or blocking it...but I don't know how.

Texting...gahhh.
This girl's ANNOYING.
x_x
Try blocking again? D:

I agree with this. I'm not sure if you can block phone numbers (if you can you probably have to pay for it) but just ignore them, maybe sometime she will stop.

Maybe if you find some real best friends she will get the hint that you are very serious about this.

If it gets out of hand and she keeps bothering you, maybe you should explain it to her in full detail why you guys are not friends anymore. Tell her she is being immature and there is no point in even being around each other at all if she keeps harassing you.

Hope this helps in some way, good luck!


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