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......WHY DID YOU HAVE TO GO AND TELL ME THAT!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

YOU ARE SO UNHELPFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!1

*WAAAAAAAH*

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i will now go to a corner and hide for awhile.............

*finds corner and sulks*

Sorry, I was just trying to be helpful. And I really believe that my advice at the end was. It seemed..... thought-provoking. Needless to say though, you have a decision to make, and whatever you choose, don't wait too long or the agony you're putting yourself through could overtake you.

*yells from corner*

you........you.......LEAVE! AND DO NOT RETURN!

you haven't been helpful in the least and all you've done is scare me and, for your information, i am NOT a crybaby, you upset me very badly and in that situation crying was and still is the appropriate response.

Woaaah, Ogaku. Take it easy, no need to overreact, eh?

As for the problem.. Everyone says to talk to him. And that's pretty obvious.

If he seemed upset, that seems like an indicator that he does like you, in my opinion.

If you've known him for awhile, and he seems to display signs of liking you such as "gazing at you", comfortable being around you.. Well, then he MIGHT like you. Don't be so negative! I find it that usually situations like these are better than someone thinks. You're just letting your paranoias get in the way. Don't think of any "buts" or "ifs".

Just react. Try talking to him about your feelings. It can take planning, sure. Anything can take planning. Just find a way to say it. Start a conversation and nonchalantly bring it up. Write him a note/send him a text. Just figure out something to do, 'cause you'll make yourself miserable pondering if he does or doesn't like you.

I hope that makes sense. I was just trying to say something that wasn't much a repeat of everyone else.

Ummmmm...... Thank you for that advice, though I don't think I will follow it. I don't know but I think Geoff doesn't like me like that anymore and as I've said many times I think I might be clinging to the IDEA of going out with Goeff and not the reality of everything. I believe I probably have some kind of mystical fairytale land inside of my imagination where everything is fine and Geoff and I are happy and in love. That is totally a...... Naïve (is that the word I want there?) Mindset that most girls have.