BOY TROUBLE.SHOULD I LOVE SOMEONE WHO'S NOT MI BF
 

ok i have boy trouble.
i really like this one guy his name is evan he's a total hottie and he makes me happy like everyday

but i really like this other guy named jason, i mean i have to like him he's my boyfriend but still he makes me happy too.(once every full moon) i really truly love him.i want to be with evan, but i want to be with jason too.

i see evan everyday because he lives two houses down from me and he goes to school with me. plus we walk home together.

i see jason everyday but only at school and the mall maybe.

HELP ME!!!!!!!PLEASE

since this is more a life issue, I'll be moving it there.

Well I don't know because you can't really help who you love. :)

Happiness does not equate to love. Maybe it's not that you love these two people, but rather, you just want to possess them both. It's obvious that you just want to find a reason to break up with this Jason guy. Face it. You want Evan. And I don't think it's fair to Jason, that you're thinking about these sad things. If I were you, I'd break up with Jason. You might be thinking these types of thoughts because this Evan guy sounds really amazing, but do you think that's really enough? If you want out, in your relationship with Jason, then go ahead. He won't die if you break up with him, now, will he? If Jason truly loved you, then he'll understand.

Listen, I've been in this situation a few times. You can't go around asking "Should I love someone...?" because love is a matter of do or don't, there's not much choice in it besides lying. Right now, Jason probably doesn't have that good of a standing in your heart, and most of the time, this means your relationship has begun a slow descent. If you really truly want to be with Jason, you should talk to him about this situation, explain that you want to be with him, but that you both need to help the relationship along a bit. If not, you should let him down easily. I just got out of this situation myself, I would have been the "Evan". One of the things I should tell you is that my girl doesn't even talk to the "Jason" in my situation.

And as a follow up to Maj's post... I am that particular girl and I've been in the exact same situation you are in right now. Honestly, if you're staying with Jason merely because he's your boyfriend and he's a nice guy some of the time, he's not the right guy for you. He may be a nice friend, say hi to him a few times in passing and maybe have a conversation or two, but that's that. (Of course, your situation is not the EXACT same, but I'm just telling you how it ended up for me).

I went with my own personal "Evan", and I haven't regretted the decision once. I was with my "Jason" for 8 whole months, and he was great and all but I couldn't be happier right now.

However things turn out for you, I hope that it turns out fine. It's your decision in the end, and you really shouldn't let other people make it for you. (Yes, I know it's a hard decision, but you're going to have to make one).

Go with whoever you think you would be happier with. Good luck. I can't pick and choose for you.

Sounds like a case of the grass being greener on the other side. This 'Jason' guy sounds like he's a little bit of the 'unknown' and that might be what's making him seem so attractive.

It's hard to say pick x over y as we don't really know much other than their names and where you see them. I'd definitely pick the one who you feel most comfortable with and perhaps share the most common interests. It gives you sort of a base to the relationship to work off of. *shrugs*

If nothing else, I'd pick Evan.

I say go with the one that you are happy with everyday. Someone that makes you happy every now and then isnt the one you need to be with.