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ellaangelus
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10-02-2009, 08:44 AM
okay so day by day, my mother HAS to yell at me, and most of the times she has no reasons, and she begins to yell at me if for example i just drop something on the floor, or i listen to music even if the volume is low, or if i watch tv, i mean c'mon, these are reasons?
and she yells like 3,4 hours, she stops, then starts again for hours and hours.. and maybe you think is something that will pass, but this goes on and on since i was a child, maybe you think is nothing, but you try and live with someone that yells at you everyday...
is really hard to live with her.. and she'll never stop..
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slickie
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10-02-2009, 08:50 AM
what exactly does she yell at you about? Maybe you should talk to her about how you feel. Or maybe she wants you to do something that you're not doing? I don't know. No matter what, you should try and talk to her.
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ellaangelus
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10-02-2009, 08:54 AM
i tried to talk with her, countless times, she just won't listen
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slickie
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10-02-2009, 08:57 AM
hmm... Do you think that she could possibly need counseling, or that she might be on drugs? Or maybe that she just has a short fuse.
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fuyumi_saito
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10-02-2009, 03:12 PM
I agree with slickie that your mom might need counseling. What she is doing to you, is probably considered verbal and mental abuse. Verbal because of the fact that she's yelling at you, and mental because she's yelling at you about little things. Does she have a stressful job or something? Maybe she's taking stuff out on you, and that's really not cool. Perhaps you should talk to someone she trusts, like her best friend or something, and they can tell her about the counseling and stuff. She should not be yelling at you..
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Izumi
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10-02-2009, 07:16 PM
Have you talked to your dad or someone else in the family for their input? They might understand more of what's egging her on to do this, and if not might be willing to approach your mother with you and have a 'family' talk. Perhaps she's just not taking you seriously?
It's hard to change the actions of others...Unless they actually want to change. There's a good chance she doesn't even realize the effect it has on you? The other way of trying to approach her is to write her a letter, that way she can't cut you off and she will have time to read your opinion in full and digest it.
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10-02-2009, 09:47 PM
lol, my mom too. its not always cuz shes mad, with my sisters constantly chasing each other around the house one gets used to yelling to be heard, i guess. it doesn't bother me. somtimes we yell at each other to vent, it feels better after. My mom and i just expess our selves that way i guess. it draves my dad crazy XD
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Missy192
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10-04-2009, 09:53 PM
The things you listed that she yells at you about are like freetime stuff.. could she be yelling at you because she wants you to study harder? Or maybe get a job? I mean, I don't know how old you are but those are possibilities. Perhaps she thinks you're wasting your life away. =/
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Sally Sinema
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10-05-2009, 12:08 AM
If I take your situation at face value ella what you are describing is really verbal abuse, your mother needs to seek help and/ or you need to be removed from the situation. Your mother is obviously very unhappy and is taking it out on you. But, like I said, this is taking your problem at face value that she is in fact yelling for no real reason but you being there. Anyway, I would seek advice from a school counselor (assuming you are of school age) to ask how best to proceed and possibly have an advocate on your side.
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