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Old 10-06-2009, 01:11 AM

I have this friend that I think I love.I would tell her but the problem is that she doesn't love black people.I am faced with a dilemma and don't know what to do. Help me out!

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Old 10-06-2009, 02:55 AM

Oh my word that's horrible! T_T you need a hug/ =)
*hugs tight*
Okay, now to try and figure this problem out.
*thinks for a literal second*
You should probably just stand back and give her more time.
Once you're like.. BEST BEST friends then at that right moment you can go ahead and confess to her. Maybe once you guys are the closest of friends and you confess, she would realize something.. or say that she's liked you too >.<'
I think it would be funny/cute if she were saying she didn't love black people because she wanted to secretly like you or something.

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Old 10-06-2009, 02:56 AM

In that case, my best advice? Move on. People who would express negativity towards someone else simply based on the quantity of melanin (the pigment that determines 'color') in someone's skin have issues that even love cannot solve. That is cruel to say I know, but some things... are better left unsaid.

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Old 10-06-2009, 03:11 AM

Ouch Liros, I was trying not to go that far x.x; =(

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I actually JUST not picked up a key word after reading it for the second time.. Key word = THINK
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Old 10-06-2009, 03:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Missy192 View Post
Ouch Liros, I was trying not to go that far x.x; =(

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I actually JUST not picked up a key word after reading it for the second time.. Key word = THINK
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I know, sorry. But I am not a subtle person. I try to gt straight to the point with everything in life.

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Old 10-09-2009, 02:36 AM

I believe she has a problem. If she bases it all on a stupid thing as skin colour there is not point to be with her. There's someone out there who doesn't let something as petty blind them.

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Old 10-10-2009, 03:03 AM

How do you know she doesn't "Love" them?

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Old 10-10-2009, 03:44 AM

You said she was your friend. If she actually didn't like black people, why would she be friends with you at all?
It's always worth a shot, I think. What's the worst that could happen? She says no, and at least you'll have a bit of closure and can move on.

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Old 10-10-2009, 04:38 PM

omg thats horrible. *hugs* a girl who wouldn't love someone based one the color of the person's skin is stupid. i know it'll be hard, but try to move on. if you don't you'll probably just get even more hurt emotionally

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Old 10-10-2009, 07:39 PM

Wait.. You said she's you friend, right?
So.. She loves you as a friend, anyway. And I don't believe she hates black people, 'cause that's just stupid.You know...?
Or!
Maybe she loves you back, but she's too shy and don't want you to find out about her feelings, that's why she has a great reason to lie. All shy people acting like this. Believe me ^^
I don't want you to give empty hopes, though v.v

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Old 10-10-2009, 07:40 PM

/blinks

Well, I presuming from the fact that she's your friend that you mean she prefers lighter skin the same way another person might prefer blue eyes or tall guys. And preferences like that are secondary to feelings of attraction... *shrugs* Go for it?

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Old 10-10-2009, 09:39 PM

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