The guy I'm going out with now had about seven girls after him ( including me ) in highschool. I was his best friend, and he told me everything (I was jealous often because of it) and I even inadvertently helped get him with the GF he had before me.
She was a total B***h to him and he constantly complained that she was mean, and blamed him for everything, and always checked out and flirted with other guys in fount of him and tried to change him into a surfer boy hes a computer nerd)
needless to say, they broke up after a little push from myself and his mother. (this was in Highschool)
I continued to be there for him, and he started subtly flirting with me (Score!)
but he asked another girl (shes a slut) who was flirting with him shamelessly if she would go out with him. she said no (apparently he was not as much fun single)
after a while and apparently a lot of pushing from the drumline that we were both a part of, he asked me out. (this is not quite the win part)

We have been dating for 1 year now, and we are both in college now.
we are both really happy together, and he actually brought up marriage while we were having dinner with his family. (His mom " About time! You guys were ment for each other!") anyway, we were walking to our class we have two classes together) and we ran into the girl he had asked out who turned him down. we were being lovey dovey and she obviously hated it.
later he told me that she had been emailing him saying things like "I hope you aren't with her because I turned you down" and "I'm sure we can work it out." and she even asked him if he wanted to cheat on me with her!
he showed me all the emails and we laughed together about how desperate she seemed then played Halo ODST together. And on top of that, his Ex (the B***h) was leaving the state to go to college, and she wanted to have "One last fling" with him, but he totally shot her down on speaker phone while I was messing around on his computer.

I got my dream guy, and he is loyal and loving, and he was a virgin, which was awesome to me because I was to,his family is awesome (and they all tease him about how I was right under his nose and he could have been this happy so much sooner because they all knew I loved him since I met him) hes funny and cute and all mine! ^_____^
and that is my absolute win!

the only problem is that girl is still emailing him trying to break us up, and his two of his Exs started texting him trying to get back together with him.

Um, congrats I geuss?
(Doesn't belong in Life Issues)

0.o? Why not?
woopse, I guess I didn't make my issue clear...

all those girls I talked about, especially the older one, are still trying to get with him.
the one who keeps emailing him is really persistent. I know hes not going to cheat, but I want them to stop.
I win because hes mine forever, but they are still buggin me.

w00t!
YOU GO GIRL!!!
:boogie::squee::boogie:

I love the fact he automatically showed you the *lame, desperate* emails from that girl who didn't date him. He obviously didn't date you on the rebound! You are truly great for him! You were patient, yet give him the push and advice he needs when he needs it
(while also have feelings for him).

Happy to know that everyone loved you guys together. That other girl *who you shouldn't waste a breathe on* is probably jealous because he is happier with you and could CARE LESS being with her! The fact she ask him to cheat on you with her is also disappointing and shameful. She obviously doesn't treasure him as a person and likes to cause drama and rumor. Glad he never dated THAT girl!
:evil::banhammer::talk2hand:

Good for you! I hope you guys do get married and enjoy life together. :heart:


Edit:

:banhammer:
Tell them to buzz off and BLOCK THEM!
*your boyfriend too*
Seriously, they should accept that you guys are best for each other
and just GIVE UP!
*pities them*

aww, thanks!
She actually started messaging me on gaia telling me crap like "Hes going to dump you for me you know" and stuff like that. *eye roll*

Originally Posted by Kokihi

aww, thanks!
She actually started messaging me on gaia telling me crap like "Hes going to dump you for me you know" and stuff like that. *eye roll*

She has some nerves to do that on Gaia!
D:<
Tell her if she keeps harassing you and your boyfriend
that you'll report her!

I reported her PM, but it didn't really do anything. I did show my boyfriend though, and he got maaaaaaad.....I don't think hes even going to talk to her anymore. And he is the type to try to remain friends with everyone, even people like her (which has bothered me on multiple occasions)

lmao. Not at you. Something like this happened to me in a diferent way.

My boyfriend and I had been dating for about 7 months at the time, and we were both Role Players. He isn't that much anymore. Anyway, One site he was on, this girl was getting bullied, so being the hero type he told the other people to shut up. The same girl and him started talking. They ended up being friends, and she would always try to get my boy to help her get one of our RL friends to date her. She only lives around the world.. One random day she started to AIM my boyfriend telling him to dump me so they could be together! She even talked about killing me. Fighting aside, We are still together^^

To help your case; Block is your best friend. Call your phone company and ask them to block the girl's numbers. And im sure the email has a block also. It may seem mean at first, but it is helpful^^