He broke up with me and hour ago.
I can't eat chocolate because I feel like I'm about to vomit.
I can't smoke because I feel I'm about to vomit.
The only alcohol in the house is white wine which I refuse to drink.

What cures a broken heart?

Time. It's been an hour. Give it a bit longer.

What can you do in the first impact of a break up? There's honestly only one thing to do that can help at all, but you can't do it on command.

Cry your ass off. Forcing your emotions into a physical plane is a good way to get them out of your body.

If you can do anything creative at all, like drawing or writing music, vent away. It could very well turn out like emo venty shit when you look back at it later, but that doesn't matter in even the slightest bit. What matters now is doing everything you can to make yourself feel better.

When all else fails, drop one of your friends a line. I hope you feel better soon.

I can't say what heals a broken heart, but as time goes on it will be easier as you gradually get over him.
and I do suggest the same as pianochan, try to find a physical but healthy way to vent your feelings. tell the wall or your dog how you feel. paint it, write it, scribble. anything is better than doing nothing

Originally Posted by Scarling Zombie

He broke up with me and hour ago.
I can't eat chocolate because I feel like I'm about to vomit.
I can't smoke because I feel I'm about to vomit.
The only alcohol in the house is white wine which I refuse to drink.

What cures a broken heart?

time does. depending on how strong your feelings are, it may take longer. i know it took me a long time to get over my ex boyfriend, even though he wasn't nearly as great as the guy you described. until then, find some way to channel your emotions so you don't end up exploding. :(

I'm just really tired, but I don't want to go to bed because I know I won't want to get up for a few days.

I know he deserves better than me, and we have just been apart too long, but I've dreams of a future together.
I know it's dumb because he's twenty one and I'm eighteen, but we were so perfect.

I was in your situation. Just give it time. Write some poetry. Read a book. Keep yourself occupied. Go out with your friends. Theres plenty more out there. Ive been through this before. It killed me. I got into role playing and online games and it made me feel better. I expressed how I felt through poetry.

try it *huggles* good luck

Definitely cry your heart out.

If you didn't get any um...closure on why he dumped you, get it or else it'll eat at you.

Since the start of our relationship, my fiance and I keep on breaking up and swearing that we won't see each other again, but we can't last longer than 3 weeks before we're back together again.

Maybe your guy will change his mind, as he thinks about really missing you?

After a breakup I've gotten my MP3 player and curled up in a ball on my bead, listen to sad sappy songs and cry my eyes out. Purging the emotion feels good.

Although depending on the length of the relationship and how much feeling was involved, don't be surprised if you take some time to mend. :hug:

Originally Posted by Leenalia

Definitely cry your heart out.

If you didn't get any um...closure on why he dumped you, get it or else it'll eat at you.

Since the start of our relationship, my fiance and I keep on breaking up and swearing that we won't see each other again, but we can't last longer than 3 weeks before we're back together again.

Maybe your guy will change his mind, as he thinks about really missing you?

He said he'd come crawling back, but we have quite some physical distance between us.
I don't want him to look at his friends and their relationships, so he feels bad I'm not there.

I think you should do something to relive the stress. i've used playing tetris actually. SOmething that occupies you brain enough that you won't have to think about it for a while. Then cry your eyes out! Snuggle with a stuffed animal or a pet. Avoid Romance novels or chick flicks. I've always watched something violent instead( no romance possible) If you give it a while the pain should become a dull ache, which is easier to deal with.

I've been knitting and sculpting.
I consoled a cup of coffe, but it didn't want to talk.

Seems like all the good advice has pretty much already been said. Though, Scarling, what you said about your coffee made me laugh.

But yeah, um...it happens. When it does, you move on, as best you can, and try not to look back. There are millions of people on this planet and no matter how much it seems like they were the only one for you, there's always going to be someone else.

You may not find them quickly, and you may not find them in any expected ways, but it'll happen.

I hope you feel better.

you have to give it a lot more time. That's the only thing that heals any sort of broken heart. Sometimes it never does heal, but you learn to live and deal with it. At the beginning talking to friends helps a bit and sweets does too, but don't over do it with the drinking, eating, and smoking; it's bad for your health and in the end makes things worse. :(

I know how much my body can take.
I was raised in Poland, you drink whenever, and my lungs can handle little wasps' breathes, not great big lung bucket fulls.

I've knitted my fingers almost to the bone.
Every song, every television show, every redhead that walks past me reminds me of him.
It's the most difficult thing in the world to be totally ingrained in someone else then have that suddenly ripped away. You're left there basically in half. No matter how many people are in the world, most are women and some are gay. It's not easy to find a guy to accept me because I am a big individual. I'm smart as a whip, sarcastic as all get out, and funny, but men fall in lust before love. We all want to spred our seed to the most attractive and successful person, and I'm low on the ranks due to size.

Aww I know how you feel my boyfriend left me about 3 months ago & I still get sad over him sometimes. But I just tell myself that it wasnt meant to be & anyways I can chill with alot of cute guys now that Im single. :) Jus gotta look on the bright side

Yeah, there is this guy in my Biology class. We talked about his hair colour. He seems nice. I'm not sure if he's gay or not though. That class only meets once a week, so I have to wait seven days to actually introduce myself again.

The thing is, I have all these gifts I never gave him, and I can't return them.
I'm thinking of burning the whole thing and putting it Facebook.
I'm past the Denial stage, but I'm having a hard time getting over the Anger.