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A nice love story. Help? :o
Hey everyone.... So i have a problem... I have a boyfriend, he lives in NY and he is 18 years of age.... I live in FL. He is coming to visit me this Thanksgiving.. and he is also coming to live down here ( by himself ), for me, on January. Im happy about that...at the same time sad because.... well he doesnt have close relatives here, so I plan on asking my grandma if he can rent the room at the back of my house. I still feel bad because he's leaving everything for me...and I feel that he'll have alot of trouble here. But of course, im happy about that. >-< What do you guys think??? - Cat. |
I think he's a little too young to live completely by himself, but I'm biased because I'm 18 and can't see myself cutting connections with my family until after I'm out of college. He seems like a very devoted boyfriend to drop all connections and come live in a state that he's possibly not as familiar with. How long have you two been together?
I think asking your grandma if he can rent the room would be a good idea. At least, then, he has a sure place to stay and probably wouldn't have to pay as much as an apartment. Of course, you two and your grandma should talk all of this over when he comes for Thanksgiving so that nothing goes wrong. I hope it works out for the best. |
I don't know why he would leave his family behind at 18 also. Is he planning to go to college? If not then he really is dropping everything for you which can also be bad, unless you like the clingy type.
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I don't know what his relationship is like with his family. A good idea for him would be to attend college in Florida where you live. My fiance is moving here and basically leaving everything behind but he has been living on his own for several years, he doesn't get along well with his father. Then again, he's also 21. I say that you and he should talk things out with his parents and see what they think.
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