Alright...I need some advice.

So, I've been dating this guy for maybe a month, and he's practically my life. I can't go a day without talking to him, and we're ALWAYS happy and haven't gotten in one disagreement what-so-ever.

We've gotten to the point of cuddling, normal high school stuff.

But...I want to kiss him ><
I know how to kiss people, I'm just shy at trying it for the first time.
And he's SUPER shy about kissing, and I just need some advice as to how to maybe coax him to kiss me, or some good plan to just catch him by surprise :squee:

This is what I did for my first kiss: (Anyone is free to do it if they wish)
I fell and hurt my elbow. I shyly asked him to kiss it to feel better. He smiled and did it. Then I told him I hurt my shoulder, and I pointed to where the pretend owie was. He giggled and kissed it. I then told him I hurt one more place. He asked where. I pointed to my lips and made a pouty face. He laughed and we kissed.

But, I would grab life by the horns and kiss him already.

My first kiss was kinda odd. We were sitting on the couch cuddling and it was kinda by mutual agreement... but he did freak me out that he started using his tongue...tongue on the first kiss is a bad idea...it felt like I was being attacked by a dead fish.

I'm with Scarling Zombie, kiss him already. If worse comes to worse, get really close to his face when you are cuddling, I think he would get the idea.

Lets see, for my first kiss, he dropped me off at home, after a date, but before he could leave (like he walked me up to the door and everything), I put my hand to the side of his head, gently turned him towards me and kissed him. Then I said good night.

Although I really like Zombies idea! ^.^

Well, I gave up my first kiss to a kid in a game of truth or dare way back when I was in elementary school.

I'm my current boyfriend's first and only girlfriend though, and having already been in relationships I kissed him first. He was really shy about it because he's never done it before, and about two weeks into the relationship we were just sitting around and I kissed him.

He always tells me now he wishes he could go back and kiss me first. Appearently I shot down his ego by making the first move, so he pouts about it. xD
He's a baby like that, but we've been dating for about two and a half years.

Thanks guys, those will help me a lot ^ o ^

@Zombie: Haha, that's so adorable :'D
I would totally try that, but he's too much of a dumb blond to catch onto the idea. And I'd probably mess up. Blond couple = Idiots ; ~ ;
xD

@Aki: Haha, well this isn't my FIRST kiss, it's just the first kiss with a new guy, and I'm WAY shy at making the first move.
My first kiss was in 17th grade, on the last day I saw my boyfriend before I went to Korea for 2 weeks.

@Syraa: Haha, classic :D

@Amelia: That's probably gonna be me, I'll kiss him, then he'll complain xD

My first kiss was more or less of a surprise to me. It was when I was still in elementary school, so it didn't seem like a true one to me.

But my first kiss with my ex was pretty funny '^-^, he turned on a love song, and we slow danced to it. Every time we'd look at each other, we blushed, and then looked away, and we ended up busting up laughing because both of us were too shy to kiss the other. So by the end of the song, we still hadn't kissed. So then he started the song again, and I dimmed the lights (you have no idea how much that helped XD). And then we slow danced again, when the song was over, we just kissed. There is only way to get it over with, and that's just to get it over with XD.

But right now I'm with my first girlfriend, so it might be harder for me to kiss her and mean it o.O, but I'm sure that that day will come :3

Hmm good luck my first kiss I ended up kissing my b/f's chin becuase he was so much taller than me. But after that he was more interested in kissing so it worked out. Good luck darling. ^.^ :vicky:

Me and my girlfriend had our first kiss at a school dance. We were dating for a month or so.
If he's a man, then he should take the initiative! I was shy and I did it, but then the mood also helped. So try to set the mood?

Oh yeah, I didn't have my first kiss with my girlfriend. My first kiss was during elementary school and apparently, I was quite a "lady's man" back then........It was my girlfriend's first kiss though. =\

My first kiss was when I was in the 1st grade, at my 7th birthday party. I am telling the truth here

Random idea: You could keep asking him when he is going to kiss you..and then start moving in closer and closer and just keep asking. Hopefully he'll get the hint lol

Ohhh...this makes me think of when my current boyfriend first kissed me...it was on our second date and we were both still really nervous around each other. We'd spent the evening together watching movies and playing video games, and when I left around four in the morning, he walked outside with me as I was putting on my gloves and jacket (I ride a Vespa). Normally he'd give me a hug and then let go quickly, but this time after he hugged me he held onto my shoulders, looked at me for a second and then just leaned in really quick and kissed my lips.

Then he practically jumped back away from me as if he thought I was going to hit him. :XD All I could do was grin like an idiot. A few minutes later he was standing behind me, and put his arms around me as I turned to talk to him and gave me another quick kiss. It was like a little "gotcha!" and it was extremely endearing and cute.

So my advice would be to just lean in and give him a little peck on the lips. It's okay to be shy; it means you're not presumptuous. After the first one is out of the way, it'll get much easier.

My advice to you is don't rush it. Your first kiss should not be analyze on how it shall be. Sometimes the perfect kiss isn't so perfect. That is the wonderful thing about a first kiss. My first kiss personally I don't remember how it even started or how it even began. But I knew it was after school. Hanging out with some friends and he and I kissed. It was a big deal. But my favorite "first kiss" was with my husband; when we were dating at the time. Just like you I wanted to make the move, to get a first kiss, or even have him make the move. I was so dorkie. I made sure my lips was always soft and look so tempting to touch and feel. I always laid my head near his just so we can be face to face. And than my husband kissed me.. (Boyfriend at the time) The funny thing was we talked about first kisses before we even kissed each other and we told each other what kind of kisses we like and love and hate. We hate sloppy kisses.. The funny thing is my first kiss with my husband was kind of sloppy. Gross, I know but I would cherish that because it was something funny and something we both didn't like. I hope your first kiss is memorable whenever it may be.

My first kiss happened like this,

I was walking down the road one night with a guy that I had a super huge crush on, and all of a sudden he told me to stop and close my eyes..... and then he kissed me. xD it was soooooo amaziing.

Don't know if that helps?

Ok, my first kiss was easy, because my girlfriend just layed it on me haha i just kissed her back and found out i have a natural talent for it :)

But ya i think your boyfriend will like it if you give him the first kiss, he's probably shy like me and that's why he hasn't givin you the first kiss.

When you guys are cuddling watching a romantic movie or something that would bring the mood up just kiss him, yes out of no where, he will kiss you back i promise you that and he will like it :) is it his first kiss? he probably doesn't even know how to kiss and won't even know if your bad, but it's not that hard once you get it down.

Also how do you want to kiss him do you mean just like a peck or straight out making out? because if you wanna make out with him you might wanna put him in the mood for it first a peck you can give him whenever you want, it might seem awkward but only for a few seconds, till you see him smile :) you will be glad you did it.

Awe I remember when my current boyfriend first kissed me! :kiss:

Me and my boyfriend were in my room and we were wrestling around. Well, he had me pinned on my bed and he came in for a kiss, but I pulled away 'cause I thought I wasn't ready yet (I had just broke up with my other boyfriend at this point about a week earlier), but then I felt bad so I went and kissed him. :D