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Xkonton 01-04-2010 05:57 AM

Help wanted.. Help needed.
 
So, i've got an eating disorder.
But i don't want to go too much into it...and i don't need "oh i'm sorry" 's
I'm just wondering if there is anyone out there who has one too?
I really need to talk.
it's been awhile since i talked to someone who was in my shoes, and if there is.. please PM me for contact information.
I'm sorry if this offended anyone.

Jennifer 01-04-2010 06:23 AM

There are several eating disorders. Not eating at all, throwing up after eating, eating too much, et cetera. I'm all ears if you want to talk. Just private message me! I even have MSNM. :)

Clockwork Lime 01-04-2010 06:27 AM

I've not personally had an eating disorder, and I think you're taking a step in the right direction by looking for support...but perhaps a doctor would be better equipped to help you? Just a suggestion.

Subconscious_Domain 01-04-2010 03:10 PM

I was forced to have a eating disorder.
I was starved, as well as my sister and brother, by our mother.

I'm better now though, and fatter -_-
My grandma took us in and fed us like crazy.

I hated not being able to eat ]:
I mean, I ate, but only at school and for some reason I usually didn't do that either. I usually only did that so I could get a few apples and take them home.

Knerd 01-04-2010 04:54 PM

As a ballerina, many of my close friends have suffered from body image distortion and eating disorders. While I can't talk to you about it from person experience, feel free to PM me if you ever need support or someone to talk to. :hug:

KaciCake 01-05-2010 02:25 AM

While I've never had a full blown eating disorder, I've come pretty damn close to having one. I kind of had this weird mix of anorexia and bulimia. I'd starve myself for a certain period of time eat a little bit, then throw it up. Though the reasoning for mine was rather odd, but I won't get into that.

I mean, mine only lasted about a 1-2 years, so I suppose it wasn't that serious. But it was definitely concerning to everyone. At times I still have urges to starve myself or purge, but I fight those off the best I can and remind myself that I have other options.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to send me a PM. While I'm no therapist, it definitely helps to talk to someone who's been there before, yeah? ^^

llcarj 02-16-2010 09:54 PM

you have to learn to accept yourself the way you are without thinking you have to be really skinny to be beautiful. Enjoy life and take care of your body.

ShayleeFaerie11 02-17-2010 02:25 AM

Xkonton, I would really love it if you would message me.
At the moment, i'm recovering. I had bulimia, but it wasn't a matter of wanting to be skinny, it was.... a cutting alternative. Cutting was something i had promised myself i'd never do, because of the same person that made me look for alternatives.
I would really really love to talk to you.... Please message me? I need someone to talk to too. <3

MoraTheKat 02-17-2010 03:29 AM

I used to cut, it's not fun. You get scars etc... Anyway - I don't have an actual disorder, but I starve myself sometimes, then I eat to much other times. It's not like I eat a lot after I starve myselfy, it's just randomly I notice I'm eating huge amounts of things. PM me if you would like some help.

MizumiO 02-17-2010 10:08 PM

Well, I don't have a eating disorder. But a close friend of mine does. And I just make it a fact to let her know I'll always be there if she needs to talk. Even if I get mad at her. Or she gets mad at me for keep bringing it up. She knows I'm just worried about her. So if you ever need to vent or something, feel free to PM me.

JennaDoll 02-18-2010 03:56 AM

I don't currently have an eating disorder, but have been on the verge of having one for months. I am that damn close and the sad thing is that I know it. Anyway, I'll explain what I mean if you want. Anyhow, PM me if you want to.

Xxbl00dyxangelxX 02-20-2010 12:46 AM

I don't see where your post could have offended anyone.

Have you seeked help for your issue?
I've never had an eating disorder, but I am an ex cutter. I know it's not the same, but..i dunno.

chong69 02-20-2010 06:11 PM

trust me when i say this, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

a good number of the population suffer from an eating disorder.

i suggest you consult a trusted confidant or a doctor if you are willing to seek help.

admitting you have one is a big step on your part, and we greatly applaud you for doing so.


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