I seem to like one of my besties, well used to be and I think he sort of got the hint that I do and now he's constantly ignoring me, avoiding eye contact, and not even talking to me. He does text me sometimes, but I can't work up the courage to ask him why he's doing this. Also, all he texts me sometimes are "hey" or "I'm at practice". And that's basically it. We barely have conversations anymore and I feel like I'm losing him as a friend. I'm not a love freak or stalker, like I'm not extremely crazy over him and forcing him to like me, that's not it.. It's just that I want to be friends with him like how we used to be. My other bestie, we talked one time and it suddenly brought up to who we liked. She then admitted that she liked him when I liked him . I already told her before she told me, and I was just shocked that she'd lie to me. I asked her before because she was always flirty around him, and I admit it, I did feel envious a little. I don't like him anymore, and not mad at her, but I wished that I could be friends with him like how we were before. I can't even say hi to him or anything without him ignoring me, and when I text him he never responds. What should I do? Please help : ( I've tried asking my other friends what I should do but they didn't help me at all. : ( Am I being naggy??

He sounds like a stupid immature boy. He doesnt deserve you as a friend.

Maybe you could send him a note of how you feel about this and see what happens. If he completely ignores it and deltes it without reading it, send a note from a friends phone or something. Just an idea.

When a guy friend of mine stopped talking to me it took me an extremely long time to flat out ask him why he was ignoring me and I regret not doing it sooner. I would ask him if you did something wrong, and let him know that you value him as a friend and if something as small as him finding out something is going to keep him from speaking to you then maybe there is something wrong with him.

It's interesting how you used the word "naggy." What naggy usually means in my opinion is that a woman wants something from a man and is trying to force him to do it using words, but he's just not going to. And if he's just not going to like you back or be kind to you back, then there's nothing you can do to make him be that way. Just let him go and come to you if he still wants to be your friend. It hurts, but you can't make someone reciprocate your feelings, whether you just want friendship or a boyfriend.

It sounds like he is distancing himself probably because he doesn't know what to do either. You could have it out with him but that may make things more awkward. I'd probably let him get on with it and figure out himself. If you give each other space then everything will eventually resolve itself, pretend you like another person and make it really obvious you have moved on.