idk if he has a gf
 

so i got asked out be this guy... he's actually a rly good guy... i normally date bad boyz... so, we have our date set up and i rly like him and he said he dont have a gf... well i find his myspace and it says hes in a relationship w/ this girl and he has a bunch of pics of them... hers says the same... i'd like to think he just didnt change it yet and they broke up... but i need to be realistic! I was gonna ask him about it... but im gonna be super busy all week, and he rly doesnt seem like a liar

i guess the only way to go is to ask him, flat out.

if he does seem the honest type, then i guess he doesn't log-in to his myspace account too much or changed to facebook or something.

but, there's always the possibility that he maybe lying, so proceed with caution.

Best wishes!

You have nothing to lose by asking him, except your idea that he's a good boy, and a lot to lose if you don't ask and it turns out he actually has a girlfriend.

This is seriously a no-brainer. Don't hold back your punches and ask him.

First off the best liars are the ones that don't seem like they are.
But I would definitely ask him what is up, and if you do happen to go on your date, don't do anything that would result in something regretful unless you are 100% confident it won't be. Just don't get lost down the rabbit whole if it turns out he has committed to someone else.

I think you should check his log-in date. Perhaps that status is old or maybe he just didn't care to change it. I mean, you two are not really going out yet. I'd also ask him about it and be firm in asking, demaning his famed honesty. The one thing you don't want to do is over-react and jump to conclusions. I've done it before and believe me, it will blow up in your face, especially if you're wrong in thinking that he's got someone else. So just be calm.

thanks so much for the advice!!! he called tonight on my break at work... i asked him about it and he said he just didnt update it... he said they broke up a month ago, we only talked for like 3 min cuz it was almost over. anyways, eventually the truth will come out. i'm just gonna be very careful not to like him too much 4 now

If you want a relationship with this guy, be truthful. Seriously my myspace says I'm still single. I never log into.

Ask him truthfully. You want a relationship, you have to be honest sometime. If he's with other girls or if he's lying, don't bother with him! what will happen to you? He'll be with you and who knows how many other girls, that will mess you up for life!

So, did he change it yet then? Has he logged in since then?

Because I'm not surprised he told you that at all, whether or not he really does have a girlfriend. You already asked him if he had one before all this happened and he said no, so it's not like he's going to admit to it now if he lied about it the first time and thinks he can still get away with it.

I hope he's telling the truth, but if it were me, I wouldn't be satisfied until he either took down all the pictures and changed his status or until I messaged the girl and said something like,"Awwww! You and that guy in your pictures are so cute together. How long have you been dating?" And see if she said they were still dating or not.

they always don't seem like liars .... ALWAYS. ask him he'll say they broke up. dump him don't go looking for guys for awhile take a break