I need help!!!

Sam and i used to date him in Year 8 . i broke up with him because i dint have the same feelings for him but now i got back into contact with him when he returned from New Zealand and i think i can see why i loved him in the first place! hes sweet and funny and he really listens too me! Well after a few months we got back together and I am in a relationship with him happily.

Buuuut.....

There is this other guy named Troy (funnily enough the same name as my bro haha LOL) and I adore him. he's so funny and so cute for a little emo boy (Inside joke LOL dw) I have been friends with him for a while now and i have always liked him but now the feelings have started to grow stronger every day i talk to him and spend time with him.

I still Love sam but i'm starting to have other feelings for Troy. i don't know what to do!!!

This belongs in the Debates - Life Issues Forum =3 Just moving it there.

Chances are your feelings for Troy are just infatuation. If you've already come back to Sam and feel the same way you used to about him, it seems like love to me- but give it time and see how things develop.
Your heart will tell you which way to go, it's probably too soon to tell yet.

You think they're bother funny and cute? Haha that's what boys mostly are.

But anyways, think deep down who would make you the happiest. I'd go for Sam, because he's always been a good friend to you anyways. And Troy can stay a good friend. It's okay to have close guy friends, hell my bff is also my boyfriend's bff and I hang out with the friend more than I do my boyfriend. I'm not in love with the guy, he's just fun to be around.

Well, if you feel the same way about two guys, then it's not love. Sorry. =/

Originally Posted by Megas2point0

Well, if you feel the same way about two guys, then it's not love. Sorry. =/

I'd just like to jump in here to say that this isn't true for everyone. A lot of people are polyamorous and can be truly in love with multiple people at the same time. :yes:

You can't always help what you feel. If you find yourself tempted to stray from your boyfriend and cheat on him, then it's time for the two of you to sit down for a talk. Just be open with him and let him know what's going on in your heart right now. Maybe the two of you can work it out, maybe you'll both decide that's it's best to take a break. But you won't know until you ask.

Yeah thank. it's not like I want to cheat on him or something. I just can't help but feel this way about Troy! :-(