Lets start of my listing my problems

1. My Grandfather is in the hospital.

2. My uncle is in the hospital.

3. My grandmother is living with us and she has Alzhimers.

4. My Best friend (Aaron) is dating my other best friend (Alisha).

5. I have had a crush on Aaron for over a year.

6. I feel like im losing my friends.

7. I think im failing spanish.

8. Today a girl my grade asked me and Aaron is we were dating. (this may not be a issue but it is about the 15th time it has happened in the past year)

9. I might be moving next year.

10. Aaron has changed since him and Alisha have dated.

11. Alisha has changed since her and Aaron have dated.

12. I feel like I don't have anyone to talk to.

13. The only person I can talk to is my brother and he is moving out next year.


FML


HELP!


Well befor I say help I really just need help with dealing with all this. If you need more info just ask.

My gracious! What a crazy life (as if you didn't realize this).

To tell you the truth, I don't have any advice that will fix your life with the snap of a finger, however I don't get the vibe that you were looking for that. :) All I can tell you is that life doesn't stay the same forever, but I'm also not going to say that things aren't going to get worse before they get better.

I can really feel for you on the subject of your friends changing, however. In high school, people really change, and I mean A LOT.

May I ask what grade you are in?

Because if you are a freshmen, I must tell you that it would be foolish to think that you aren't going to lose a few friends. In fact: my whole group of friends was destroyed in my freshmen year and rebuilt with a completely new set of people. Some of the destruction was caused by boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. People are stupid with relationships in high school, generally. It's going to cause drama, if you haven't figured that out yet, lol.

As per your grandmother having Alzheimer's, I'm sorry. I've been there. It's not fun. *Gives you a virtual hug* Also, your two relatives being in the hospital is a nasty thing to have to deal with in your situation. I hope that they get better. :yes:

Oh, and don't worry. You'll find someone to talk to. You might just have to look in a new place. :D

First of all, take a deep breath. Try to gather yourself up and relax for a few moments. Breathe in..and out...

That may help a little, yes? Obviously, it doesn't solve the problems, but it helps to relieve some stress.

For the friend issues, friends come and go. People change. It's a truth that we all learn sooner or later. Sometimes it's for the better, sometimes it's for the worst. Most times, it just happens and people adapt. Friends tend to get very accustomed to certain behaviors of each other, so if one begins acting differently, it can become very disorienting. Perhaps you feel this way because you are seeing a different side to them as a result of their dating? All this means is that you'll learn more about them than you thought you would before. You can decide how things will go as this happens and you begin to grow more as well.

For your family, try to support them as best as you can. Smiles and laughter have great healing powers. I wish them a smooth recovery. And maybe you can do something for your grandmother? Create a scrapbook for her and fill them with letters of things you'd like to make sure you say to her? I can't say I know much about coping with Alzheimer's, but I know grandparents like to see that their grandchildren care for and love them. Try not to become overly frustrated with her and things progress and even if she no longer recognizes you as her family, try to be a kind heart to her. Spend time with her, talk to her, share stories, make up stories, and always love her. Because I, at least, believe that it's love that keeps our loved ones alive even when they can't be next to us. <3