Ok, so I had a boy friend back in 6th grade. His name was Richard, and that relationship lasted a long time, and I messed up and broke up with him.We tryed to stay friends, but he slowely stoped talking to me. I always regreted dumping him, and ive loved him ever since. Im in 10th grade now and i just saw him for the first time again the other night at church. He is dating my Friend. We both exchanged glares and i had to go home, due to my heart feeling like it was ripped out of my chest. What should i do? Should i talk to him about it, and possibly ruin my friendship, or should i leave it be and bite my tounge?

I'd start with an apology, and an attempt to be friends again. Thats all you can really do right now...

thanks, well my friend still has his number, should i call him and try and be friends again?

Which friend of yours is he dating?
Maybe you should find a bit more out about that first..
If you still love him it could cause a lot of drama if he is completely over you, and if he does still have feelings for you but wants to be with this other girl he might try to stay away from you ;S

Exactly, its one of my friends from church,
and she got mad, because he kept looking at me,
and now shes kind of upset with me.
im just so lost.

i dont wanna date him again, i just want to be friends?

Maybe you have to keep telling your friend, the girl he's dating, that you guys just wanna be friends? Over and over again?

but then ill feel like a stalker 0.o

How? she was jealous since he kept staring at you o.o, maybe jealous O_=

eh but some people need to keep hearing that ;=;'' lol

I guess

Rachael,
I know more than anyone what you are going through. I am sure R.T still has feelings for you. I mean who wouldn't your beautiful inside and out. I have known you for forever and I love you dearly. You need to find out savannahs feelings for R.T and see if you think this relationship is one of her FLINGS. Then you have to see what R.T's true feelings for savannah are. Then you have to Decide which you care about more...Savannahs feelings or Your possible future with R.T. I know you love him, And I am positive he still loves you. Probally as much as Roger loves me xD and that is a awful lot.

I am sure you figure something out hun, You have become a very smart, mature and capable young women since you and R.T were together.

I love you Rachael.

tal to him then... it wont hurt, right?