I guess I'm just having some self esteem issues. I feel like people don't really want me around. I feel like I'm always tagging along... Only when I'm with my best friend and my boyfriend do I really feel like I can be myself... and even then I annoy the crap outa myself.

well it could of been worst. you just got to think positive about your self.

yes, i agree. though at times you feel like a burden towards certain people, friends, classmates, even at times family perhaps they don't see you as one. i had gone through this phase and i know all too well how it feels to have company and still feel alone. things will work itself out, you just need to keep on going with life :3 and if all else fails at least you have yourself, who you can grow to love, your boyfriend, and your best friend.

Be yourself anyway. Some people will hate you for it, but a lot more people will be attracted to you for being so sure of yourself and confident. It's hard, but don't be ashamed of who you are. =) I'm sure you're not a loser at all.

I know exactly how you feel. I know it's not fun, but...you and I should both try to see the good qualities we have. Obviously, you can't be all bad if you have a boyfriend and a best friend whom you feel secure enough to be yourself around.

i feel that way most of the time though.

i feel the same as these guys above me :) just be yourself. Obviously your boyfriend and best friend think your wonderful otherwise they wouldnt be round you, no? and find some peace in that :) feel happy about who you are, what you like, and happy about what you want to do in life ^.^ and by doing that people who feel the same will just find themself drawn to you, and those are the people you want in your life :)

No, you are not a loser, you need to be who you are. If you can't be yourself around your friends then maybe you need to find other friends who will accept you. Self discovery is a long journey, and I don't know how old you are but if you are 21 and under then I can say you still have a ways to go until you find yourself and totally know yourself well and even then some of us take longer. Do what you're best at doing, focus on your strengths and work on your weaknesses. True friends will support you and help you grow as an individual and will give the constructive criticism that is needed to become a better person. Hang in there, you will be just fine ;)

Here's the thing, my confused friend. The term "loser", among others, is apparently decided by other people, not yourself. This society as a whole is a moron because of it. Quite frankly, don't bother worrying about it. Just do what feels right, not what everyone says is right. People say I'm annoying, and that's probably true. But that just means they don't have much tolerance, which is a problem in this world. Point in case, it isn't you that has the problem, it's them.

Well, if these people are your ''friends'', then apparently they aren't the right ones.
Then apparently they aren't the ones you feel comfortable with.
I know what it feels like to be like, just there because you're there.
Not feeling comfortable and not feeling like you fit in with the group.
It's an awful feeling, but there's always people which you can be yourself with, and which will be themselves too.
Just find your group of people; You already have your boyfriend and your best friend.
Stay with them, you will eventually meet more people which you can be yourself with, too.
They'll come. :3