Hello ^^ I have a dad that makes me go crazy. I think he is unmature and say things that hurts to me. When we have a fight he is saying words like "Youre the dumbest person in the whole world".. Well i don't really have more examples :P
Also, for example, sometimes he is very unfair with my dog, so i tell him please don't do that, but he just say "i wasen't talking to you, but the dog", and then he walks away angry. I mean, i can't say to him things that bothers me! Because of this, i have a huge amount of rage and hate inside me. Is it just the teenages?

Sadly you can end up hating your parents your entire life if they're douches towards you. The reason it bothers you more as a teen is because you're stuck under their roof.

The best thing you can do is just look to the future when you'll get to move out and get away from him. Do well in school, get a free ride scholarship to a college on the other side of the country, lol. Start planning your escape now... I really don't understand why some parents threat their kids badly, but some seriously do it their entire lives, even when their kids have grown up kids of their own. Some people are just bitter/unhappy about their own lives and take it out on those around them.

Kind of sucks that that ends up being their own family because it's who's conveniently there : / Just try to enjoy your life despite how your dad is. Do you know why he's like that?

Thanks for the support, ive already planned my "escape" :P I imagine that he is getting old and senile, thats why, but i don't really know. My eldest brother has it the same way,and he is 30.(but he has moved away before i was born :P)

At least if other family members have suffered the same you can have a good bitch about it between yourselves.

My dad is like that sometimes. Once, when he was in one of his "moods" ( o.o; ) I told my dad that I thought he was the one with the PMS. D8<

I was in so much trouble. :lol:

Anyway, do you know if he has a reason?

Aah, poor you :P

I dont know the reason, it might be that he had many weird things happening in his life. Like, he was adopted, lost one of his children (that was my twin ._.). But i don't think being ridicilous to me is the answer, though if i tell him that he is going to yell the hell out of me :P

I lost many friends because of this. When i was a little kid, my friends though my dad was scary. He even sent one of my friends home crying. Its like this now too, i got a boy friend(boyish friend:P), my dad don't like him, and being unfair to him all the time.
So i don't have friends over at my place.

It really helps that i have my best friend to tell these things to. I can truly trust her, i can not have a better friend that her.
I love my friend <3 ^^

Oh, no. It was funny. XD

Being ridiculous is never the answer. It's all about logic! =P

It's always good to have a true best friend. =)

Just look forward to the future. As Jelly said, do well and get a free ride to college. My dad was like that kind of towards my dog and it always ticked me off, but my mom has kind of calmed him down with it. At least you can secretly talk about it with your brother and friend ^.^ A true best friend always makes things better.
Ah, haha. @Farrago: What you said made me laugh. I was on my t.o.m (the curse) and i had to have my dad take me to the store for feminine stuffs, and he was all ticked off because I asked if he got his wallet or not. When we got back I went to my mom and said "Seriously? I'm the only one who has an excuse to be moody. What got his panties in a bunch?" and I walked off. ^.^

At times parents can be a bit harsh, granted most teens just think that it has to do with them not understanding. I believe in some sense they do understand what it is like to be a teenage because you have to stop and think, they were teenagers once upon a time.

As for the way your father is treating you. Maybe it comes from the way his father treated him? Or maybe he's got some unresolved issues going on in his life that he really needs help on. I would try talking to someone else in the family to see what you can do about helping your father. He might get a little upset about it in the beginning, but trust me, in the end, when he's got everything worked out, he'll thank you for it.

Keep your chin up. I know that life is tough as a teenager when it comes to school, parents and the like, but you'll get through it and you'll be a stronger person in the end.

If you feel you need someone to talk to, please feel free to send me a message and I will help you in whatever way I can.

Thanks again for the tips and the support, im kinda glad that im not the only one who has a mood swinging dad :P
And thank you fusion, that's very nice ^^

Don't worry. Only x more years until you can move out. The first thing I'm going to do when I move out is go visit my mother while Ray (stepdad) is home and not be wearing a coat when it's cold out.
And, in my opinion, I think father's have a secret period.
Uh...I wish I had the ability to sya/type something supportive, but I'm not very good with that.
:headdesk:

Well, some of it DOES have to do just with the fact that you're a teenager. I don't know if that's surprising or not . . . . It's just, when you move out of the house as an adult, you and your parents stop getting on each other's nerves so much (because you don't live in the same house and aren't together all the time) and they start acting nicer because of that usually. Also, teenager years are when you start having a backbone and being able to stand up to your parents and sometimes that can be really frustrating for both you and your parent.

Your Dad shouldn't be calling you stupid and I'm in no way excusing what he does, but . . . .

He's also just a human being. Just like you and just like me. People have tempers and say and do stupid things. This morning I was very mean to my mother, for instance. I had no patience with her and accused her of asking me stupid questions. I don't blame her for being mad at me about it, but I also just do that because I'm a human and if you're honest, you also do those things too with your parents and/or other people probably. We all have and lose our tempers and say stupid things because of it.

And men, Dads in particular, have a lot of responsibility over a household and have trouble (a lot because of our society making it shameful) actually talking about their stresses, so instead they deal with those by being cranky sometimes.

Like I said, it doesn't make what your Dad did right, but that's probably why he did it.

And the whole idea that his Dad probably did the same thing to him when he was a kid is a good explanation as well.

Lol you're welcome, Ezprethual, I do try :)