Okay, now I've join this choir thing right before I met my boyfriend. Now, the choir thing is taking time away from me being able to be with my boyfriend! And I only get to see him for seven more weekend (or at least most of them) before I won't be able to see him for about five or six months! Now, last year, I did the choir thing...but I quit. And I really don't want to be rude and quit again. That would say something like I'm not good with commitment. And don't get me wrong, I love to sing...but I'd rather be with my boyfriend than anything else. Summer has just reached midpoint. I don't have a lot of time with him after this.... And I know I probably sound selfish, but for once I've fallen for someone who just so happens to be able to catch me. I want to spend as much time with him as possible no matter what. And this problem is REALLY bothering me...and I know I shouldn't be worried whatsoever, but I can't help but worry over this!

What should I do???

well if you really enjoy singing, I'd say stick with it. Your boyfriend should understand that this is what you love.

Last summer, my bf worked constantly. Everyday, 8 am until like 11 at night. Yeah it sucked never seeing him, and never being able to text him, but we got through... he finally quit do to unfair work conditions... but thats beside the point. He loved his job and I would've never asked him to quit just so I could see him more often.

Every relationship has issues at one point or another. The main thing is to make the most of the time you do get together. But not at the expense of either of your interests.

True...but he understands I love it (which I am so gratefully thankful for). So, I'll take your word. :) Thank you :hug: I'll TRY to make the best of it. <:/

*hugs* you're very welcome hon.

I have a friend who works at three different jobs and she has school on top of it. She has a boyfriend who is committed to basketball so that takes up a lot of his time too so they only get to see each other once a week sometimes but they make the best of it and they've been together for two years.

I'm happy that you see that you've found someone that you really care about but just try to see him as much as you can without quitting choir, understand that he'll be gone for 6 months but wait for his return and celebrate with him when he gets back. :)

Never Quit something you Love doing. Having something like that as a profession Lasts forever, When a Boyfriend only CAN last forever. I know You really like him, and I hope all goes well, but stick to the thing you love and are a professional at.

:) You guys are right. A lot of stuff has been going on, I haven't thought about it that way. :) A profession might not last forever but a boyfriend can. :) You have no idea how relieved and relaxed that helps me become. :)