im gonna be single forever
 

so there were 2 guys that i liked. i mean i really liked these guys i would do anything for them and they both knew it. and one even liked me too.

so if this guy likes me so much why did he go out and find a girlfriend?! especially since we had been going on dates and whatnot for a while. does this mean he was lieing to me or what? im confused....

then the second guy i like. well hes a bit older than me which is fine and we been friends for a while and he never once asked how old i was. then he asked me out 2 days later (today) he finds out how old i am and dummps me. what the heck?!

im getting so frustraited with all this guys are just bugging me this week i guess.

If you like a guy, tell him! He won't wait that is probably why that one guy went and found another girl, maybe he thought that you really weren't interested after all. I know it is hard but you have to be forward with guys, they are too dense to know that you like them all on their own, well unless they are throwing themselves at them. But don't worry, no one is single forever!Not unless you try to be. Remember guys like it if you show interest in them, don't wait for them to speak up first, that never woorks out, they are too dense for that. Just talk, do a little flirting (not too much!), and they realize it soon enough. Oh and be straight forward with guys too, I once lost a relationship due to the fact I didn't tell him my real age...anyways good luck! :D

With the first guy, I'm just assuming he kind of kind tired/bored of you (possibly maybe you weren't really making moves on him, shown something towards him during your dates), since not all people are patient with that type of deal.
The second guy, seems like you might be consider "illegal" and he probably didn't want to go to jail? xP

I am going to highlight the important parts I read.

First highlighted thing. If you knew he liked you why didn't you do anything?

Second Highlight: Please read this, then read the first line of that paragraph thing you have going on. Process it yet? Maybe he thinks you would be better as friends and didn't want to pursue anything more. Or you just didnt try enough.

Third: Maybe you were too old for him. There are some nasty pedophile freaks like that.

Hun, 20 is still young. Don't worry about men worry about living your life. If you go looking for something that isn't there then you're going to come up empty. Always be honest with yourself and be honest with the ones you love. If you like someone then let them know because people aren't going to wait around if they think you only like them as a friend or have no interest.

Being turned down isn't a bad thing. It just means that that person was not right for you. 20 is a weird age to be at because, at least in my case, I wanted to avoid high school drama so I avoided anyone under 19 and anyone over 24. Around 24-30 is when people really start learning about themselves and start figuring out who they are. There is a big difference in a 20 year old and someone who is around 25 years old maturity wise in most cases. Not sure if the guy was older but that could have been why.

Right now I have the whole "I am never dating anyone again" thing going on because I am going through a divorce so I know how that goes. Sometimes it's just better to focus on yourself and not worry about anyone else. I'm 26 so I'm at that awkward dating phase now as well.

If you really like a guy you gotta say so. It's not that they get bored (if they're a decent person) it's that someone else asked, or they weren't sure, or whatever. They have to know for sure, you know? So tell them, before someone else does. And about the other guy. If he dumped you because of your age, he is a potato, and you should let him escape your mind. He's not worth your thoughts, much less your feelings. Let him go.

Find a guy who's decent, and who likes the same stuff you do, and most importantly, find one who can't take his eyes off of you when you're with him. it's important.

guys are almost as hard to figure out as women. My advice is to enjoy being single. It may seem boring, but some time you don't realize how much a relationship complicates thing until you are in one. I have been single since March and I'm loving it. I had been in a very long term relationship, over 3 years... we were engaged but it wasn't working out... and well it just was the best thing to do at that time... splitting up. I miss the cat we had when we were together more than i miss him.... she was my baby. my advice is t go slow and don't worry about it. your young, there will be plenty of time for relationships.