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Old 09-14-2010, 07:58 PM


School Started last tuesday for me and i've known this guy since 7th grade were really good friends right now. I'm 15 and a sophmore I have gym with him and hes transfering to most of my classes. My best friend had an on-off crush on him and she hates it when i hang out with him because he kinda joke flirts(actually i dont know if its real or not) with me and whenever i want to say i like this guy i'm afraid she's gonna flip out. I told her today and she's pissed i actually like a guy. And this would be my first boyfriend , her on the other hand had a lot of relationships and shes so boy crazy she thinks every hot guy is gonna marry her and she wants to ask out this junior Luka and she won't because she's afraid he'll say no(shes never been rejected). This pisses me off because :rawrmayor:He's so sweet to me and she might make me choose between the 2 of them. He stands up for me everyday.
I'd feel bad choosing because theyre really good friends of mine.:headdesk:
i needz a hug :(

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Old 09-15-2010, 01:16 AM

Aw, I'm sorry to hear that. Honestly I wouldn't care if your best friend is jealous about that. And she really shouldn't be called a best friend if she's not supportive of her friend. It's your first relationship, and you've never had a boyfriend.

I would sit down with her and tell her something along the lines of, "You should be more supportive of me getting into a relationship. You've had a lot of boyfriends and I've had none. You shouldn't be the one that is jealous here. And if you cannot understand, then you aren't a true friend".

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Old 09-15-2010, 05:13 AM

... How do you deal with her?

I have to agree with Laila, take that chance and do it before you regret.
Don't let others get in the way of your happiness ya know.

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Old 09-15-2010, 06:16 AM

In agreement with what the other two have said, if she is really your friend, she'll understand. The worst that could happen? You piss your friend off, and the guy rejects you. However, your friend probably won't be jealous of you anymore, and you can be friends again.

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Old 09-16-2010, 09:21 PM

yeh ill try it thnx ill see if she even cares tomorrow shes so boy crazy if i say i like someone shell b like oh i rlly like him so i usually back off

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Old 10-01-2010, 05:42 AM

If she's really your friend she should understand. Try having like a girls night or something, just you and her and talk about it. Say how you were thinking you have feeling for this boy and you've known him for quite awhile and were thinking of possibly pursuing something with him. Explain that you don't want thing to come between the two of you because you value your friendship.

 


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