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Old 09-22-2010, 11:19 PM

I am really scared for my friend because she thinks
her boyfriend doesn't like her… You see, she's just
like me and is REALLY cliggy and, her boyfriend seems
like the clingy type, as she says, and she was raised
by clingy people, including her brother, so she thinks
he's not interested in her anymore… I mean, there's
hugs and such… But she's still worried…

What should she do?

A.) Tell him
B.) Forget the whole thing happened

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Old 09-22-2010, 11:28 PM

Tell him as soon as possible. If she waits it out, it might seem like she's playing him. If she tries to forget that it happened, it'll keep eating at her until her eventually tell him anyway, so just go ahead and get on with it.

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Old 09-23-2010, 02:17 AM

So, what is the situation exactly?
He isn't being clingy enough for her? :S

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Old 09-23-2010, 02:48 AM

She needs to be honest with him, and they need to talk it out as a couple. All relationships are based on communication. If the communication is good, the relationship is good- this is especially true with dating relationships.

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Old 09-23-2010, 05:34 PM

What's the issue here? You haven't provided any examples of him losing his interest in her except for her general worries. Without such important information it just sounds like your friend is being paranoid.

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Old 09-23-2010, 07:34 PM

If she so believes that there is an issue at hand, she should inform him of her worries. Communication is key to any relationship. However, she must also except that she herself has a problem, and must work on it. I would say most men do not appreciate someone who is "overly" clingy. Not saying he does or doesn't, but it's definitely a factor. She should work on herself a bit more, and make sure to inform him about her feelings and worries. How can he fix something he doesn't know is broken?

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Old 09-23-2010, 07:40 PM

As a guy I will agree with Saeton. Overly clingy is a huge turn-off for me. But I also want someone who is open with how they feel. If something is bothering them (especially if it has something to do with me) I want to know. She should go and speak with him and let him know how she feels.

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Old 10-01-2010, 04:23 AM

In all honesty I think it best if she calms down a bit first, then talks to him about it. Explaining that she is worried and asks his side. I don't think clingyness is that healthy and maybe she'll have to work on getting used to being less so, because that could drive some people away, but I think if she sits and has a calm talk with her boyfriend about thing it should all be fine.

 


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