Grr... I don't know how long I've been thinking about him, but I just realized I had a crush on this cute guy one of my guy friends is friends with. But he is friends with his ex-girlfriend, and they act like they are still going out!! I know he's a nice guy because we text a lot. We talk about general things like school and music and stuff like that. But when I try to talk to him at school, he totally ignores me, as if he is afraid of what his ex will think. I'm thinking on giving up on him altogether, but he's pretty nice when he wants to be. But the person I hate the most is his ex. She was actually my best friend, but we parted ways at around 4th or 5th grade. And to make things worse, she goes to my Sunday School too. I can't even talk to him about homework and stuff like that without his ex giggling at my outfit or how I look.:angry: I've confronted her several times, but it seems that she doesn't get the message. Can someone help me with this HUGE dilemma??

He sounds way too busy to me. Probably isn't a guy that you want to get involved with unless he's planning on breaking it off with these other two chics, and he won't by the sound of it. Don't bother with that player- go find yourself a nice, reliable guy who only has eyes for you! :)

As for that ex; she sounds like she has the mentality of a small child. You could try ignoring her; if you do, you will look like the mature person while she makes herself look stupid and jealous. And she is jealous, I assure you, there is no reason a self-assured, not-jealous girl would bother to make fun of some other girl her boyfriend is talking to. So, in reality, she feels threatened by you and is just trying to make you feel self-conscious.

ok so hes one of those "around my friends ima total jerk, but when we are alone im the nice guy". dont waste your time on him... stay friends yes, but if he is rude, and obnoxious around his friends, he isnt worth it.... the jealous ex... as for her ignore her, you just have somehitng she wishes she had... so hope u decide what to do(: good luck to ya

So now that I'm getting over him (it takes a while for me, ok?? :P), he starts to text me again. He hasn't been texting me in a while, and now my phone is literally packed with his text messages saying 'Heyy, whats up?' and other flirtatious mesages. I've told my mom about this, and she blocked his phone number, but somehow he is texting from another phone and getting to my phone somehow. I've known him since sixth grade, and now he's turning out to be a player. :I My guy friends tell him to stop, but he laughs like its some kind of joke. I even took it to the principal, but even that couldn't stop it. Whenever he passes me in the hall, he smiles at me in a flirty way. He knows it annoys me, but he won't stop. Grrr... :angry: