Okay I haven't been here for awhile. But this crazy thing has happen between my hubby and his friend. My hubby's friend is banana's! Crazy,off the deepend. Well maybe not that far. But she has gone too far. As to cussing in a text sent to my phone. We wished our friend Freddie a happy birthday and she thought it was a girl. Silly woman! She should know all her hubbys friend including us. She thinks my hubby is trying to get girls for his friend. Like are you serious my hubby wouldn't do such a thing. He is not into drama. We have known our friend for like 5years. He wasn't married yet to HER. Now ,after this crazy thing happen with the issue of wishing our friend a happy birthday. She has decided that my hubby and her hubby not be friends just co-workers. All the oilfield crew laughed. Like are you foreal? Well anyways have you gone thru something like this? Someone taking things out of context? I just ignored her btw lol





What did you do? How did you handle it!

I'm pretty blunt and to the point so I tend to tell the person just what I'm thinking. I hate when people think that just because they're married to someone they think they have a right to be controlling. I had a girlfriend that I was with for nearly two years. I knew her for almost 3. She left me for a guy. I was fine with it until he started telling her not to hang out with any of her friends. He started getting in her face one day when I was hanging out with them and I got into a fight with him and haven't talked to her since even though they broke up a few months after that. You can't force people to get out of situations or to make them see that that is a form of bigger control issues. Working with people like that is even more awkward. I was her boss so the not talking thing was probably the best outcome.

Now, I'm just not friends with people I work with. It saves a lot of drama in the long run.

I just moved this into the Life Issues forum for you, so hopefully you'll get some more personal responses here. :yes:

Oh God yes! I once had an ex of mine read something I wrote about a girl I was crushing on at the time, and suddenly decide I was still in love with her. She flipped a bitch all over me too.

I've also had friends decide my ex was the devil because I was comforting her about breaking up with me. Thing was, she was really broken up about it, and neither of us had done anything to cause the breakup. She just kinda came to the realization that we weren't meant to be. I realized she was right later, and honestly we are still great friends. However when I told my friends, specifically female friends, what I was doing, they went all psycho mama bear, and wanted to take her head off. lol.

Everything is fine now though.

As Mystic said, "Prejudice was not reasoned into them and it will not be reasoned out." Well, not quite what she said, but it's rather close.

I can't stand this. I've been guilty of it too...telling guy friends that girls are bitches when I've never even met them. I guess it's just, as a girl, I've been exposed to the fact that most girls are not worth your time. I really kinda hate females, don't sue me. Lol.

You've got to be one awesome chick for me to think you're okay.

It is a lot of the mama instinct, though. We want to protect guys, and girls are also just over-zealously protective of their men because...again...girls are bitches and they tend to want what they suddenly can't have. You've got to stamp your man with your ownership tag and make sure all females know their yours if you're going to have a good relationship and let him have girl friends at the same time.

Originally Posted by ElysiumFate

As Mystic said, "Prejudice was not reasoned into them and it will not be reasoned out."

Word to this.

I don't think there's much point in arguing with illogical people. It's almost like they have a 'deaf spot' to the truth at times.

I'm fairly sure there's some Bible verse I could quote as well, but I'm not that great with that....

There are a few about arguing with fools in proverbs. lol.

Yes, I think its truly unfair when ppl do get married and start control the other persons friends. Even thought my hubby is a down to earth,fun loving person. Doesn't do drugs or drink faithful to me. So she has real trust issues.