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Demondog5 06-15-2011 10:07 PM

need relationship help.
 
Haya guys, im in year 11
key people -
Me - as me
Katie - person i wanted to go out with, year 9
Will - friend, year 11
Liani - amazing girl, year 9
Connor - Katie's boyfriend, year 9

Right.... i have had a bad week i met Liani a few days ago i really liked her But i cost me a friend (because my friend liked her as well). i went to see her on Friday at lunchtime, i brought her a rose and a bottle of coke.
Then on Saturday i had a family party and ended up getting drunk :S.

Then on Sunday she came on facebook and tolled Katie that she liked me and Will, but Liani said to me on Friday didn't want to go out with Will (But then she went out with him i was really heartbroken it was the first time i cried over a girl and now i dont want to go out with her any more).

on Monday Will and Liani went to see each other.

on Tuesday i ended up going on a bike ride and eraly fainted at the side of the road and ended up ringing 999 but then i met Katie later that day. Then when i got home and went on facebook it said that Laini dumped Will because he was too annoying

to day i went to see Katie and i have always liked katie for about 2 years now and she was talking about connor, and i feel really down

i would like some advice should i tell Katie again
should i talk to Liani again

LoveAria 06-15-2011 10:41 PM

I advise you don't get between Katie and Conner. That would be bad.
Just talk to Liani again, maybe things will work out (:

Demondog5 06-15-2011 10:53 PM

thx...

LoveAria 06-15-2011 11:01 PM

You're welcome, I hope I helped^^

Cat Eye 06-16-2011 04:20 AM

You don't want to get inbetween people like that. If it doesn't work out, you might be making an enemy or two in the process. And there's enough drama as is in the world.

Talk to the one without a boyfriend (and be friends with the one that has one) and if you want, try to hook up with her. The one that has a boyfriend-nothing wrong being friends.....and if something happens, something happens.

Hresvelgr 06-16-2011 10:10 PM

Are either worth it really? It seems to me getting between Katie and Conner will be disastrous. Even if they are having problems, it is for them to sort out. Nothing for a third wheel to get involved in. (I mean no offense.)

Your friend liked this girl, and so do you. Is this girl who you just met really worth loosing this friend who you have known for years? The same thing happened to me. A friend of mine really liked this guy, I did too. Only he asked me out first. I said no because my friend was worth more to me than that. A few months passed and the guy kept asking me out, finally my friend told me to go out with him. And I have been with the same guys for years now <3. I found out a couple months down the road that another one of my friends liked the same guy (I had no idea) And well, she got really angry at me, and still to this day we don't talk. We have apologized, but I wouldn't call each other friends. (There is another story why. But It isn't part of the point.)

I guess what I am saying is to talk to your friend, but don't do anything stupid to cost a friendship. She is one girl. There will be plenty of others.

InsiDoubt 06-18-2011 04:25 AM

Here's my advice: There's nothing wrong with asking both if one says no. I wouldn't recommend going for a person in a relationship, seeing as if they're willing to break up with someone for you, they'll also probably be okay breaking up with you for someone. Also, you should think about how much you value your friendship with Will. If you don't care, then, no problem there, I guess.
Hope this helps


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