Okay, so I've never really been able to hold onto a relationship more than a few years to begin with in all my life, but an old flame has recently come back into my life. She's seeing another guy right now, and realistically I have no chance of getting back with her... but it's still hard to let go of old emotions that came back strong when she popped back up out of the blue.

At the same time though, another girl much nearer to me is catching my eye. She's a little younger than I am and we're into almost all of the same things, but we've also only just met online a few weeks ago... and I'm torn between the two.

Should I pursue an old flame that has already past, or risk giving up on someone who already has an irreplaceable place in my heart for someone who I barely know? Or am I really just overthinking things and just need to go with it?

Both situations are very iffy, so it wouldn't be too wise to go on thinking you have to put all your eggs in one basket. I over think things like that as well, but it's a waste of energy because nothing in life is controllable. Refrain from pursuing your old flame, because that would just make the situation very sticky.

If someone is meant to be in your life, they'll stay in it; and if not, it's just the universe's way of making space to move something bigger and better. So good luck.

An iffy situation... the kind that I always seem to end up in. lol. I'll be rolling the dice again with Rachel I guess, but before I start looking for engagement rings I'll be sure to get to know her properly.

Uhm, yeah, that's usually a good idea. :X

Lol. To be honest, I'm not usually a cautious one. As a typical Aries, I get drawn deep into situations quickly and have ended up in the fire more than once.

Ah, I've known Aries like that. I'm a Taurus, and the complete opposite. :P

Ah. Lucky. I've just had to learn to be resilient.

On a completely unrelated note, I've found a little spark of inspiration, and may be working on the picture I promised tomorrow.

That's cool. Looking forward to it.

I'll try not to disappoint you. My biggest trouble is that your top hangs off your shoulders. I'm bad about covering the upper body entirely in a figure when the shoulders and neck are bare. x3 hopefully a few references can help with that.

Challenges are always a good thing. I'm sure you'll figure it out. :)

Lol, you like making this fun for me?

Oooohhhhh. I swear if i know who your talking about owo

Lol, who am I talking about?

Why would i put you on blast. That would be rather mean Owo

lol, pm me then and I'll tell you if you are right.

Ppppfffftttt. The signals you send could be read by my hamster.

Lol. You never know. You might be wrong.

This conversation is starting to turn a little...awkward. I'll leave you to it, then. :P

Lol. She's not either of the ones I'm talking about.

Sure. Try to cover it up. Go ahead.

I was talking to Voenne. Nacara is the girl from my past, but there's no chance you guess the new girl.

Whoa. Holy crab cakes i though she was your current ^^' i would have to stalk you to figure out the current i guess.

Lol. I'm not sure you would be able to ever find out, seeing as how she isn't on this site. If Nacara said she was leaving her lover and wanted to give me another chance, I would go to her in a heartbeat... but something tells me that isn't going to happen.

My hopes and dreams have been dashed~ Right. Well i can't tell you who is better because your other potential lover eludes my grasp

Lol. She's 19, an anime fan (like me) a photography student, and apparently is 1/8 Native American. Aside from that, we're still in that 'get to know you' phase.