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Feelings for my best friend
yeah, dosent sound very bad. exept my friend is a straight female and I'm already in a relationship. I dont know what di do. I video chat with her every day. And i hide it from her. Because ive had friendships destroyed because of my sexuality.
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If she's straight there's not really much you can do to change her mind.
Besides, you're in a relationship already. It's probably just a little infatuation. :) Perhaps distance yourself a small amount from her and reconnect with your current partner. |
I have to agree with monstahh', main reason why people become infatuated
with others while dating is because they are not communicating enough with their current gf/bf. Try out what monstahh' says, and maybe take a small vacation away from her. Or you can just tell your bestie or gf that you have an infatuation with her/your bestie and that you need help with working it out. Communication's key when it comes to any kind of relationship, OH. One thing that helps me a lot is writing letters that I don't send. It's surprisingly really comforting. So maybe you can try that before vacation/admitting? |
I would say try to focus on your current relationship a lil' more, and honestly it's not such a bad thing
I'm a straight girl, and I have a bi friend (female) who likes to go after my boobs sometimes, and we're both dating other people. I honestly don't mind, I don't think your friend would be weirded out by it either ^.^ |
I'm a bi girl and i know how hard it is to try and talk to straight women when you are attracted to them. I personally advise trying to connect with your current partner. It will help you get your mind off her and maybe even loose attraction to her and gain more for your partner.
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keep your firendship going strong. a little flirting is always fun and you never know where things will lead. it is a shame you lose friendships because of who you are attracted to. if you do lose them as friends then they were not really a true friend anyway and probably good riddence! good luck sweetie i hope things work out for you. |
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