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Issues with my Uncle ( alligations of sexual abuse ect)
I was talking to my Step Mother today, and she brought up a very touchy subject.
Apparently she had been talking to my Uncle, and he brought up the 'fact' that he had seen my estranged Husband with his tongue in my daughters mouth. This would probably send me in a fit of rage, and on the next bus to my estranged husbands house... Except the fact that my Uncle has NEVER met my ex. He has never been over at the same time that my ex was visiting the kids. So, it is in fact, quite impossible that he's telling the truth. Which is the exact issue here. How do you deal with a relative that starts such scandalous rumors? The horrible thing is, I don't know how many people have heard this rumor from his mouth, or who's spread it around. Just to clarify, though my marriage didn't work, it has nothing to do with his ability to Father our children. It was a decision I made because of the outcome our our personal differences. He is a great Father, who loves his children very much. He is absolutely not the type of man to molest children. Ugh. So mad right now. |
Huh, why would you uncle say something like that?? Is he just trying to stir up drama? I would say, if he is going to talk like that, then nobody should talk to him unless he can only say the truth.
Hope you get this figured out soon! |
Thats my thoughts as well.
I'm very hurt by this though, because I had a lot of respect for him until now. He may not like my ex, but he has no right to throw around allegations like that so lightly, something like that can quickly ruin someones life. Though my ex and I are not together, I don't want him not to be able to be there for our children, because he has every right to see them. |
True, he does. They are his too. Only you know how your ex is with your children.
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If he's spreading false rumors around, I suggest trying to clear things up so that people don't go around
thinking your ex is like that because those are very serious issues that shouldn't be taken for granted if they are true. (Not saying they are) |
I think you should talk to your uncle about this, because you don't really know about this rumor. He probably just wants to get attention, and using someone that he hates to spread such harsh rumors. If he has a reason, then I really don't know what to say. If he doesn't have a good enough reason, you might as well steer clear of him. You're right, your ex-husband has every right to see his kids, and I think you know him well enough to defend him, probably.
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I think that if it were true, the uncle would have told you it from the get go, as it is an important and serious matter that is beig spoken of.
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Wow your uncle is a huge gossip! :0
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