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Girls..... ive had it
I dont know how to put this but.... THIS IS THE 5TH TIME...... i hate it so much.... i have been rejected by 5 girls
1. my EX (we where on and off (never a good thing)) 2. Girl number 2 - when out for 3 days over Christmas 2010s that ended because i ignored her... she was really depressing..... i mean dead depressing 3. girl number 3 - dont like be because im blond :S but we are best friends (i secretly like her) 4. dated me for a day, then my friend, then a guy in my year WTF!!!!! 5. girl 5 happened tonight - say she leading me on and that she like someone who you will always like no matter what..... i have it..... i get to move by the feeling of 'Love' and it feels great thats someone like you..... not AHHHHHHHH...!!!! she sent messages like are you OK.. of course im not ok..... i have been dropped AGAIN... i ask something like "didnt you thing we had anything" and she didnt reply.... so their is my rant... have a good night :( |
Since this is more of a personal problem, I've moved it into our Life Issues forum. :yes:
Getting turned down always sucks, but getting past experiences like this is part of the dating world. We've all been there at some point. You're not going to click with everyone and some girls just won't be interested in seriously dating. C'est la vie! The best you can do is find a coping method that keeps you happy and see what you can learn from the experience. If you find dating so tough, maybe take a break for a while? You're still pretty young, so there's no reason to keep jumping into the dating world at the moment. There's also no reason to swear off girls completely. Just focus your energy on all the other things going on in your life right now, like school or a hobby. The more you enjoy your life while you're single, the easier it will be to enjoy your life when someone finally worth dating comes along. :yes: |
Chin up, doll. Being rejected is never fun, but one day you'll find someone who appreciates you for you. You don't need to have a girlfriend to be happy and you don't need to validate yourself by immersing yourself in girls. (:
Though to be honest, you shouldn't have attempted dating girl number two if you didn't intend on speaking to her. If she was depressed, the last thing she needed was to be mucked around by someone. |
Don't give up on girls. It doesn't sound like you have enough experience too. A three day dating stint does not a relationship make.
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I've had bad luck with women too. I still think that there's someone out there for everyone and it's worth going through the bad to find that person. Each relationship teaches oneself something. You'll find that person that can't get enough of you some day. There should be no rush to make a relationship work just for the sake of being in a relationship.
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owo Please tell me why all of womankind is responsible for your five jackass girlfriends.
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I wouldn't even call them girlfriends...you had an ex which sounds like it was unstable and you've dated a handful others. Just because you go on a date with someone doesn't mean they're obligated to like you. You rejected the depressing girl so that one was your own fault.
As was mentioned, getting past rejection is just a part of life. It happens to everyone. Blaming all women won't help. I've been hurt by plenty of shitty guys but I try not to blame them all for the mistakes of a few. You'll get over it...or not and just wallow in self pity. Choice is yours. |
Not all women are total bitches, just like not all men are total assholes.
That being said, take some time to yourself. Don't always be trying to go after one girl or another, it'll just end in disappointment. Have some "you time". Whether it be a month or two, or even longer. Do things that you want to do without worrying about a relationship. In time, someone will come along. |
Seems like you're over reacting on some of those at least.
How old are you? Seriously. Talking about you loving someone you've dated for a day. I don't think you're an adult yet. And for that depressing girl, maybe if you had stuck around, she would've gotten happier. Because I was happier and more social when I was with one boyfriend-less on the computer too, but then he cheated on me and now I'm worse than before. Maybe something like that happened to her-just saying. |
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Everyone is bound to get turned down love.
You can't let it get ya to down though. Yeah it does suck but it's life :I All it means is they weren't good enough for you :) or at least that's how i see it. |
Being rejected is part of a life cycle. It just means they don't find you physically attractive and your personality doesn't attract them. You'll find someone who'll mean great to you. Just wait it out. Don't be down about it nor give up on it but just don't date, I guess. I've never gone out so I wouldn't know what your perspective of dating is.
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If you aren't out of high school (and don't take this offensively), you should know that you really aren't going to have anything but drama with dating. If you're looking for love, you aren't going to find it in K-12. I know there are rare occasions seeing as my grandma found her soul mate at 16, but really..K-12 is drama. People haven't grown up. I'd give up until you've reached college where people have grown up more. Concentrate on getting through school.
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