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xRainbow Sporksx 06-06-2007 12:50 AM

I Like Him But He Likes My Sister More!
 
I like this guy, who goes to my brother's school, a lot but he seems to like my older sister more. I try to get him to like me by talking to him more and giving him gestures that I'm interested in him but all he does is tell me how beautiful my sister is or he goes on and on about her. I don’t know if he is either trying to make me jealous or trying to act uninterested or he actually really loves my sister. My sister on the other hand doesn’t pay him anytime and is really mean to him. She ignores him and plays mind games with his head like she says that if he buys her a Louis Vuitton purse they can maybe go out. I don’t what to do about the whole situation so I need advice please.

Poi 06-06-2007 12:59 AM

:\ Sounds like he ain't interested and therefore there isn't much you can do. Just keep talking to him and then, maybe after he gets the hint that your sis doesn't dig him, he might realize you like him.

Also, you could always just move on. He doesn't sound worth it if he doesn't even really acknowledge that you like him.

Tuba 06-06-2007 01:13 AM

i would just be his friend. dont worry about likeing him, too much.
or you could just tell him....
but thats harder than it sounds, i know.

Moonlight Silver 06-06-2007 02:15 AM

If you really like him, you'll stop bothering him to like you back and do what's best for him. Perhaps talk to her sister, ask her why she's treating him so badly. Then talk to him about how you don't think your sister will ever be interested. After that, leave the two alone- except if they want to talk to you. Just wait by the sides.

SleepingPumpkin 06-06-2007 08:24 PM

A love triangle with your sister? This is future Jerry Springer just waiting to happen. If he's into your sister, then just drop the subject with him and start looking for someone else. If your sister doesn't want him, that's between the two of them. Seriously, I would not want to share a guy with or get my sister's leftovers. It's gross. Besides, every girl only deserves the guy who only has eyes for them....and not their sister. <3

yanyan13 06-08-2007 06:28 AM

girl, I think the guy's not interested. forget about him. it's just as simple as that. Also, it might be a good idea to talk about this with your sister, you wouldnt want feel angry with her... thats a difficult situation you have...

Darkblack_cat 06-09-2007 04:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Moonlight Silver
If you really like him, you'll stop bothering him to like you back and do what's best for him. Perhaps talk to her sister, ask her why she's treating him so badly. Then talk to him about how you don't think your sister will ever be interested. After that, leave the two alone- except if they want to talk to you. Just wait by the sides.

So I'm lazy... Sue me... Normally I'd give advice on how to turn the odds in your favour but I think this works just as well...

Winter Wind 06-09-2007 06:50 PM

I think you shouldn't go out of your way to impress him.

Get him to like the normal you by...-dundundun- acting normal.

:]

Do what you usually do, and don't try to get him to like you. Just be your normal self, and perhaps he'll start to like the real you. :]

Kyon 06-10-2007 02:27 PM

To be honest, he probably thinks you're annoying. Try laying off him a bit.

As said, just act normal when you're around him.

trinxie 06-12-2007 07:16 AM

agreed with Kyon.

Bug him, and he'll find you annoying and desperate. Like someone else said, a girl only deserves a guy who has eyes for her. A guy who talks about how he's interested in another girl is not someone you should go for...

Tell him your sister isn't interested in him. Then ignore him. See what'll happen then =3

Taiikou 06-12-2007 11:25 AM

  • I wish I could help you through this.. I went through the same crap when it came to my olds best friend. We had the same personality, but she was skinnier so all the guys I went for went for her instead.. Now I refuse to let my crushes or boyfriends meet her.

    Hm, all I can say is get over him. It's a little hard to make him like you more I think. This is happening in a show right now named Instant Star...

tigerangel 06-12-2007 12:10 PM

It seems he likes your sister approach of playing hard to get/ not interested.
Even though in my opinion it seems that she may indeed like him, but wantes to lead him on just a bit first.
I don't know if competing against your own sister for a guys attention would be a good idea.
I am the only girl with five older brothers, so I really can't be objective.

~Blue Strawberry~ 06-16-2007 06:54 PM

Forget him..He sounds like an idiotXD

Besides if he is uninterested, there comes nothing good of you liking him even more, you know what I mean?


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