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Old 06-06-2007, 02:46 AM

get to know a guy *who you have never talked to and have only seen in the halls at school*?

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Old 06-06-2007, 02:55 AM

ummm, i wouldnt know. XD
start talking to him? start with a hi... maybe a how are you? o-o;;

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Old 06-06-2007, 03:54 AM

  • Well, I can tell you ways you SHOULDN'T approach him.

    -Don't 'accidentally' drop your books. He won't get them for you, he'll think you're a klutz.

    -Don't approach to touchy or strongly. If you approach too touchy, he'll know you're a flirt and a complete dufus.

    -Don't give him your e-mail or phone number on the first day unless HE asks YOU.

    Hmmm...I guess I can't think of any ways you can approach him, sorry.

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Old 06-06-2007, 05:22 AM

Is it alright for a guy to post here? <.<;;

Generally, the best way to approach a guy all depends on what kind of person he is.

As with any human encounter, you really do need to prepare yourself for an absolute-zero-encounter experience, as in one where he simply brushes you off like you don't exist and moves on in his life.

I really don't have any patented ways to approach my own gender, unfortunately. xD

Eh...I just suggest not approaching him when he's surrounded by friends. Sadly...people can act differently whenever their friends are around...and you might get a different answer then than you might when he's alone.

I can simply wish you luck.

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Old 06-06-2007, 07:28 AM

Er...this is hard.
Do you know his name? Do you or your friends have any classes with him?
If not, then this is going to be really hard >.<

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Old 06-06-2007, 08:42 AM

Well i think you should go up to him and maybe ask him a question.

Like "Do you know the time ?" or something like that

If he answers back in a well mean tone then i don't think hes worth talking to.

But if you'd like to get to know him just walk up to him one day and tell him what you thought of him.
You could alway go to his girlfriends and get to know them?

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Old 06-06-2007, 09:43 AM

Start small, if you just go up out of the blue and start yacking to him he might think you're slightly strange XD
If you are seeing him in passing try and make eye contact, smiles and even just a hiya. If he responds to that and keeps greeting you the same each day over a period of time, then you can progress to conversation
Most guys will respond to the small overtures if they are open enough to meeting new people.

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Old 06-06-2007, 12:12 PM

Ask him some questions about himself, such as what kinds of sports he likes, movies, etc.
People generally like to talk about themselves. If it turns out you have some common interests, that will make things all the better.

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Old 06-06-2007, 06:02 PM

Talk to his friends or people that know him and give him suttle hints that you're into him.

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Old 06-06-2007, 09:22 PM

I've had a similar problem.

First of all make sure you catch him alone, being with his friends WILL influence how he acts towards you. Second maybe just accidently brush up against his arm as you walk by and smile at him. Then after getting past that part next time you can get around to saying hey and how are ya. It may take several times just to get to a decent conversation. Or maybe just "appearing" near where he hangs out, without looking OBVIOUS!

I accidently fell for a guy who I've seen at work, yet we don't work together. We don't have the chance to talk and he didnt even know I existed. After a long while he finally started noticing me.

Good luck!

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Old 06-07-2007, 11:23 AM

hmm this is hard.
most of the time, i just wait till the guy notices me.
otherwise, mention him to your friends. maybe they know him and will introduce him to you

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Old 06-08-2007, 06:23 PM

  • You should fart.

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Old 06-08-2007, 09:40 PM

  • Do any of his friends have classes with you, or are they friends with your friends? I'd get to know his friends first, hang out with them, and when he's there be like, "Oh hey. I'm [yournamehere]. "

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Old 06-09-2007, 06:52 PM

Do any of your friends know him? If they do, ask them to introduce him to you. :]

Compliment him. What he wears, his hairstyle, whatever. ;]

Once you've gotten him to say hi back and greet you, maybe sit with him at lunch and start talking about something you both enjoy.
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Old 06-10-2007, 12:39 AM

My friend has a similar problem. And so do I, so maybe my advise would help. Maybe?
Note: -I'm not always good with advice-

If this is at school, it would probably be easier if you have classes with him. If you don't there are always other suggestions.

If you do have classes wih him: You can always strike up a conversation on how to do the assignment/homework. Have him help you even if you know what to do! It's much more fun like that.
If not that and you get the chance to choose a partner for a project, you could ask him. Though of course depending on which class and who's in it, the situation and everything, you might get the chance or his friends might beat you to it. Just try to get closer to him somehow. Maybe one day Lady Luck will be on your side.

If you have no classes: Say hi when you pass him in the hall. Maybe the conversation will lead on to more? Talk to his friends, they might bring you closer to him. That usually works. My friend has been used 2 or 3 times this year by other girls wanting to date our friend. But I don't suggest this if your making friends with someone your afraid to betray. Or someone your just plain afraid of.

Other than those, sometimes you'll just have to wait. Like what I did. I'm fine with our relationship. Hi's here and there. :]

At least there's a conversation. And I got to know him better.

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Old 06-10-2007, 05:36 AM

Side Note: *looks at post above* It's you Shea-Ray =O! Nice to see you here =3

Anyways,

I know the feeling >__>. If you have a class with him, that really helps the situation. Here's what I have for you:

Find out what he likes (interests) <3.
If he likes certain things, such as a band for music then try listening to them. For example, if he likes The Ramones then check out some of their songs and videos so you can discuss them with him in class during free time or something. Or during recess if you don't have a class with him :]

Hang out.
It can be at school during recess or class, or out at the mall or something. I'd say to start off at school eating lunch together or talking to each other during recess. It's really good to get to know him so you can get used to the way he is and see if you want to become his friend or possibly more than that. Friends first, then boyfriend. It usually works out better that way since you'll both know a little about each other firsthand ^__^

Small talk.
Say stuff like "Hi" or "How are you?" can help to start you off if you haven't already. We all have to start somewhere and sometimes it can help push your relationship along =]. If you can't figure anything to say after that, you can talk about school. Even if it's complaining about the math test you just took or how the school lunch looked like it was going to eat the students the other day xD. It works and he might have a good sense of humor you get to see then. [Psshh---This one worked real well for me =D. I highly suggest this x3]

That's all I have for you, I hope it helps you a little bit ;D

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#17
Old 06-20-2007, 12:59 PM

ummmm.... try to get to know him.... and when you think the time is right tell him you have a crush on him...

 


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