Since yesterday, my real life friends on Gaia have started been being bitchy and mean to me. Should I drop them? I mean, they're definately not my best friends, one of them I had a huge fight with. And one use to be so mean to me. One is my crush, but he's being awfully mean to me.

They're making me feel guilty! Dx Help? ;.;
EDIT-Ok, the others apoligized and told me that the girl that I had a huge fight with (let's just call her by her Gaia user name: VeryCherryBerry xP) told them to ignore me. Ugh, I want to just kill VeryCherryBerry. I hate her, I despise her. And I will do everything just to get rid of her reputation. But if I curse at her till she's just small little pieces, I'm afraid that my other friends will hate me. I am so furious that I want to choke her and stuff..I want everyone in Gaia to hate her..Ugh...

Do they have any reason for treating you how they're treating you? How old are you guys?

If they have no reason, and you're tired of being their friends, just gradually distance yourself from them. Try not to let them get to you.

I hate my ex-best friend.
Mostly because she started to ignore me...
After I kinda started to think that way I never talked to her
And I'll keep it that way :x

Originally Posted by Muggles Running Amok

Do they have any reason for treating you how they're treating you? How old are you guys?

If they have no reason, and you're tired of being their friends, just gradually distance yourself from them. Try not to let them get to you.

Nope, not really. They've always been like this actually. The one that I had a huge fight always thought less of me because I had more talents then her.
And they're 13, I'm was a month shy from being 13.
Strawberry-Maybe I'll try that. n_n

hummm..........
ask them if you done something wrong.....
and then ask them if they can forgive you for what you have done........

Drop them. :roll: You don't need friends that are mean to you. True friends would confront you with whatever is on their mind before they go bitch style, so I suggest you diss 'em. :3

I would at least try and find out the reason for their behavior change before you just drop them. Especially if one is your crush. Maybe one started or heard a rumor about you, and the others are just feeding off of this.
Is they are any kinds of friends, I think they at least owe you an explanation.

like tigerangel said, find out the reason for their behavior. Did you do something to piss them off? There's gotta be a reason why they decided to gang up on you. Someone must've started the hate trend..=/

Something similar happened to me when I was your age (thats 4 years ago). I was being rejected,ignored, & constantly being bitched at and ditched so I started to hang out with different people for a while. I didn't talk to the meanies, even if one of them was my blood sister.
After a while I couldn't take it anymore, so I asked Kim (blood sister) what was going on, and she told me that Ramya told the group to ignore me. Kim was only doing it out of fear of being rejected too, and because she thought I was better off without her, which is of course, not true.

In the end, Ramya got ditched.

yeah so basically just ignore them for a while until your ready to ask what's goin on. If they won't say, then just go. Friends come and go. I'm kinda surprised your still stuck on your crush even if he's been treating u badly

Ok, thanks everyone! n-n

Now my crush isn't treating me so badly, but I think it's because the girl who I had a huge fight with told them all to ignore me like in Trinxie's case. :]

I don't know who to ask though, the girl who use to be mean to me is always on the girl who I had a huge fight's side. And my crush isn't good with these kind of problems. I'll just do what Marissa said, because when I said that I quitted Gaia they just shrugged it off. I guess they just want my items because they're so stink'n poor. xP

Yay! My reply has been read! :p

I hope it works for you. :3 When my friends dissed me (because I'm gay. ><;) they became huge bitches.

Originally Posted by Marissa D

Yay! My reply has been read! :p

I hope it works for you. :3 When my friends dissed me (because I'm gay. ><;) they became huge bitches.

That's horrible! D:
*Mule <3* You don't need them, gay people are awsome too! >w<

And thanks. n-n

I had a friend who use to go online a lot and me and her would join similar sites and forums together. I had online friends and she would lie about herself and about me to them and they would say stuff and show me what she said. At first it was hard to believe but then it made sense considering I went to high school with her and people would always randomly make fun of her. I found out latter that she was to blame for all the rumors on herself. She thought it was cool to tell people she was 100 year old witch and stuff like that. Bad idea and worst of all I felt sorry for her.

Anyway the worst part was her discussion with an internet guy who I liked. I was never expecting anything from the relationship besides being phone and internet buddies but he wanted to chat with my friend. I allowed that and she told him lies about me. She said I did certain things that never happened and he told me. I felt horrible because he had a hard time trusting anyone and for someone to say crap about me that was not true made it worse.

I stopped chatting with her and even yelled at her. She denied it of course but I knew that it was true. She was a person that would do that.

I suggest never talking to them again. It is better then dealing with that kind of drama.

Originally Posted by DreamEmpress

I had a friend who use to go online a lot and me and her would join similar sites and forums together. I had online friends and she would lie about herself and about me to them and they would say stuff and show me what she said. At first it was hard to believe but then it made sense considering I went to high school with her and people would always randomly make fun of her. I found out latter that she was to blame for all the rumors on herself. She thought it was cool to tell people she was 100 year old witch and stuff like that. Bad idea and worst of all I felt sorry for her.

Anyway the worst part was her discussion with an internet guy who I liked. I was never expecting anything from the relationship besides being phone and internet buddies but he wanted to chat with my friend. I allowed that and she told him lies about me. She said I did certain things that never happened and he told me. I felt horrible because he had a hard time trusting anyone and for someone to say crap about me that was not true made it worse.

I stopped chatting with her and even yelled at her. She denied it of course but I knew that it was true. She was a person that would do that.

I suggest never talking to them again. It is better then dealing with that kind of drama.

Ugh! That's horrible! D; My "friend" try to make herself the best. If you see her Tekteks on Gaia, she Tekteked herself the best. It didn't even match her, it was a trendy Tektek with high heels and a beret or something like that. She always wear baggy old jeans, tennis shoes, and some old shirt that doesn't fit her. And she made everyone else look horrible or not as good as her Tektek.

But thanks for the advice! n______n I wish that I learned that from the beginning. @[email protected]

Originally Posted by Flying Wings

Ugh! That's horrible! D; My "friend" try to make herself the best. If you see her Tekteks on Gaia, she Tekteked herself the best. It didn't even match her, it was a trendy Tektek with high heels and a beret or something like that. She always wear baggy old jeans, tennis shoes, and some old shirt that doesn't fit her. And she made everyone else look horrible or not as good as her Tektek.

But thanks for the advice! n______n I wish that I learned that from the beginning. @[email protected]

I hate fakes on gaia. I hate when they do that tektek stuff because most of the time they make people look horrible anyway. I had a friend who did that all the time.

Your welcome. I like to give advice with personal experience so the persons know I dealt with similar issues. ^^ It makes things personal and helpful.

Ugh! D; And the worst part is that whenever I give her critiques, she's all like whatever. :roll:

Originally Posted by Flying Wings

Ugh! D; And the worst part is that whenever I give her critiques, she's all like whatever. :roll:

That is horrible friend there. I am sure she is like that just to be cool on gaia. Most people on gaia are like that.

Heck yeah, around me she types like me but around the popular people in school (since she told all of the popular people to join Gaia when she told my best friend not to tell anyone about it..DD<) she types in text talk because that's how they type. xP She's like fake.

Originally Posted by Flying Wings

Heck yeah, around me she types like me but around the popular people in school (since she told all of the popular people to join Gaia when she told my best friend not to tell anyone about it..DD<) she types in text talk because that's how they type. xP She's like fake.

Fakes are the worst. On Gaia I am sure there is hundreds of fakes.

Though I do play a boy version of myself. The only lie is that people think I am a gay man. I let them believe that only because my other friend uses the account more so then I do (and he is a guy).

Tell me about it! DDD;
And I see. n_n Well, it's alright to pretend gay. ;w; I just kinda feel sorry for the person who will like you and it turns out that you're not gay..>>

Is he gay? O:

Originally Posted by Flying Wings

Tell me about it! DDD;
And I see. n_n Well, it's alright to pretend gay. ;w; I just kinda feel sorry for the person who will like you and it turns out that you're not gay..>>

Is he gay? O:

Well he created the account and he gave me the password. I don't go on it but he does. I don't tend to make friends on gaia but one guy on there made friends with him. Which is cool with me but I am never on the site much anyway.

Ahh!! n_n Coolio! :]

From what you typed out, it seems to me like your online friend is two-faced and I would cut it off if I was in that situation. It's your choice and hopefully your situation will get better. :]

Thanks! >w>

And it's more like a million faced. @[email protected] I don't even know the real her. xP


Sorry if I'm saying I I I too much. x______X I sound so...Self-centered..Dx

• Nah, you're just going through a problem. I completely understand. :)

Ok, thank you!! >w<