If you don't feel like reading all this,read the 1,2,3 part and go to the bottom

Yesh, after the summer vacation is over, most of my classmates and I are going to a new school.
I'm trying hard to get some new friends, because those girls in my old class are... not fit to be my friends...(There's a long story behind, and I don't feel like writing it down right now...Like how they've been kinda mean to me since I was a small kid and such)

Anyway, the first time I met the other people I'm gonna go to school with, I kinda made some friends, but now they have announced the new classes and I'm not going to go in the same class as them..!

Now before we continue I'll say this;
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1) I'm pretty happy with the class I came in; it's not the meanest girls from my old school there(the other classes have them). So if I ask to change class, I'll have to go in the same class as them..again...

2)I've no real relationships(except the' I go in the same class as her') with the new girls, the one I'm going to sit next to is a troublemaker(or so I've heard)

3) I have a 0.14% chance of going to another school, but I don't now anyone there except some boys from the old school.

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Now I'll continue;

Place & time;Yesterday on msn IM.
Two of my friends(the people I talked about up there from the new school)
said that the girls in my old school said I was stupid(not stupid as 'not smart', but I can't find a fitting word for the Norwegian word 'teit', so I'm using stupid)
they also asked why I like Chinese (which is not true) and Japanese music,anime,manga/cartoons.[Since I'm not Japanese]
also they asked why I liked the computer, of course I told them;

(this not what I exactly said)


When I was a [small] kid I didn't know what the internet was, but when I came to that school [without knowing anyone]
I was teased by most of the girls in my class.( for no reason)

So when I came home, I didn't almost have anything to do, and my dad bought some computer games for my sister and I .
After some time I became a bit attached to the computer.
OF COURSE AFTER THE FIRST YEAR, IT DIDN'T CHANGE, THEY WHERE STILL THE LITTLE BITCHES, and I became more and more attached to the computer...

The part when I said 'bitches' , one of them started to be a bit angry at me saying that she would rather believe what they said because there were 'more' of them stating that I was stupid and a [nerd]person who is one the computer all the time( I don't see what's wrong with that ;;>>)

After some more 'arguing' and stuff, they said that they now see I am stupid as they said and they didn't want to be my friend anymore....


A few hours later,one of them said maybe she overreacted a little bit,and she wanted to continue to be my friend, but she would still believe that part of me being stupid and stuff...
I wasn't on the computer at that time,but after 20 minutes I read it and said that maybe I overreacted too.

Anyway I probably won't see that much because, as I said, we won't go in the same class(I'm going in A and and they're going in C)



I also I have a feeling I won't fit into to the new class/school, though.
Because as I said..Someone is spreading bad rumors about me ;_;




So I was wondering if you had some advice ,something to make me feel better or or some story of what happened when you started to go to a new school with your old classmates

• Awe.
  I'm so sorry, Blue-chan! I'm sorry you have to deal with stupid people like that!
  If I were there when they were saying those things, I would punch that girl in the face! There is no need to say such horrible things about people! DD<
  
  But the only advice I can give is to ignore those girls. Don't let them get to you, and definitely don't fight them or tell them off. That'll only make them dislike you more and lead them to say meaner things about you. They just don't understand you, and that happens a lot. Those girls aren't worth your time, tears, or breath. Just ignore them. If they talk to you, talk back. If anything, be as sweet to them as possible and make them feel like terrible scum for treating you so badly.
  
  Try to talk to the other girls-- and maybe even boys!-- that you know or don't know in your class, if you can. It's never a bad idea to try and make friends. If they tell you that they don't want to be your friend because of that rumor, tell them that maybe they should try to know you before they assume a rumor, of all things, is the truth. I don't quite understand your school's class structure-- it sounds a lot different from my own-- but if you can talk to or spend time with people out of your class, too, I suggest doing so. Wouldn't it be great to have a bunch of your good friends in a class with those bitches to glare 'em down and scare them during class and everything? Hehehe.
  
  But from what I read of your post, you sound like an incredibly intelligent young woman. Those girls have no idea what they're talking about, since they're probably the stupid ones. Liking anime and foreign culture doesn't mean anything negative-- just that you have a variety of cultural interests. You're not stuck in one place for the rest of your life in all of your interests. Again, those girls are the stupid ones for being focused only on local things, instead of becoming more broad. In the future, they'll only make fake friends and nobody who's real will want any part in friendship with them. Those will be the people that you'll want to be friends with, since I'm sure you're a much more valuable friend than those idiot girls realize or deserve.
  
  Good luck, and I hope my advice is somewhat helpful, at least! ^ ^

Yes! Everything Rainbow said!
Also look for others who are misfits in your class. Some you may not want to be friends with, but some are just like you, excluded because of rumors, or different intrests.
I tended to concentrate on having friends outside of my classes. I could function in class, and leave, and have fun with friends, but group projects and partner work sucks in that situation, but if most of your work is individual, finding friends outside of class might be a good option, especially if you have breaks, or lunch with other classes.
Good luck! <3

I'm so sorry you have to go through something like this. Going into a new situation when you feel like you have nobody is a terrible thing. I've had to go a new school where I didn't know anyone at all, so I know what you are going through. There will be some tough days, but in the end you will make some fabulous friends.

And remember, the people who listen to the rumours without getting to know you aren't the ones you want as your friends anyway!

Thank you Rainbow,shycobunny and Sporky01!<333333
I`ll do what you said, I`ll try to get some friends outside school...Let`s just hope I get some..XD

I know how hard it can be. I am often teased because I 'have no fashion sense' In actuality I don't care what I dress like, I usually wear a big, over sized shirt with sweat pants. I never wear makeup, once these girls ambushed me in orchestra and made my face over with makeup and they prettied up my hair :evil: Once I got to lunch chanel, my friend, loosened then hair tie they put in and took it out. She said I shouldn't let them do that to me, but I really didn't care. I wasn't going to oppose them and draw attention to myself. I just try to ignore those mean and malicious people and focus only on my friends.

Why don't you try getting involved in an Anime/Computer club outside of school? That would help, my school offers an Anime Club, so I'm going to join it when school starts up again :D

Originally Posted by Spufflez

I know how hard it can be. I am often teased because I 'have no fashion sense' In actuality I don't care what I dress like, I usually wear a big, over sized shirt with sweat pants. I never wear makeup, once these girls ambushed me in orchestra and made my face over with makeup and they prettied up my hair :evil: Once I got to lunch chanel, my friend, loosened then hair tie they put in and took it out. She said I shouldn't let them do that to me, but I really didn't care. I wasn't going to oppose them and draw attention to myself. I just try to ignore those mean and malicious people and focus only on my friends.

Why don't you try getting involved in an Anime/Computer club outside of school? That would help, my school offers an Anime Club, so I'm going to join it when school starts up again :D

That`s mean of those girls -_-


I can`t join a school club(for anime/manga)because...*drum roll*
WE DON`T HAVE ANY SCHOOL CLUBS!!0_0
>:(
Besides the new school I`m going to has only two anime fans...
Me and some emo kid>_<
Well, I guess he`s nice because I`m talking to him right now on the computer(IM)

He and only a few others are the only ones who haven`t blocked me..yet ;;>_<

Originally Posted by ~Blue Strawberry~

That`s mean of those girls -_-


I can`t join a school club(for anime/manga)because...*drum roll*
WE DON`T HAVE ANY SCHOOL CLUBS!!0_0
>:(
Besides the new school I`m going to has only two anime fans...
Me and some emo kid>_<
Well, I guess he`s nice because I`m talking to him right now on the computer(IM)

He and only a few others are the only ones who haven`t blocked me..yet ;;>_<

Well, I guess that that someone is better than no one. :)

I know those girls were mean, ugg that's why I hate normal classes. There are too many people who don't give a shit about anyone else but themselves and their image. Even in my honors classes I have some inconsiderate girls who constantly gossip about people (One of the reasons I could never concentrate in my honors math class). I really wanted to tell them to shut their mouths, but then everyone else who were ignoring them would give me a weird 'wtf?' look.... That's why I tend to blend in, I hate being the centre of attention. I'd rather be in the background any day instead of in the limelight :wink:

Originally Posted by Spufflez

Well, I guess that that someone is better than no one. :)

I know those girls were mean, ugg that's why I hate normal classes. There are too many people who don't give a shit about anyone else but themselves and their image. Even in my honors classes I have some inconsiderate girls who constantly gossip about people (One of the reasons I could never concentrate in my honors math class). I really wanted to tell them to shut their mouths, but then everyone else who were ignoring them would give me a weird 'wtf?' look.... That's why I tend to blend in, I hate being the centre of attention. I'd rather be in the background any day instead of in the limelight :wink:

I guess I know what you mean by,being in the center of attention...Especially when it`s somethingthat would you give that weird look!>_<
My ex-best friend, was nice when she was my best friend, but then after she started to ignoring me(together with my other `friend`),she started to creep my out....She(and the other one)started to `act` [email protected][email protected]
And then on the last day of school the\our parents comes to listen to the our teacher talking, we (my class) were going to perform some stuff.And she was going to sing....

That was song was awful>_<
The lyrics reminded me from when I was a small kid and was singing in the [email protected][email protected]

sometimes i feel like i'm the popular girl from a private school that gets all the boys and blah blah blah and girls call me a rich bitch,

anyway

it seems to me that you want to meet new people but sometimes the best way to go is to make friends with the old peeps and then it opends new doors for new peeps it doesn't make sense but i will!

Originally Posted by phoebe101

sometimes i feel like i'm the popular girl from a private school that gets all the boys and blah blah blah and girls call me a rich bitch,

anyway

it seems to me that you want to meet new people but sometimes the best way to go is to make friends with the old peeps and then it opends new doors for new peeps it doesn't make sense but i will!

But the thing is...They don't like me,and they never did>_<

Wow..I am sorry to hear this

but there will be new people in a new school..
Rumors are rumors..not all believe...
i think you just have to be urself and show them the real u~~
PS: if u r going to a highschool or something.there probably be alot more ppl

and another thing i wanna say is...........[which is not suppose to sound mean or anything...just honest opinioon] [ and kinda conflicts with wt i said before ]

reflect about urself..why do most of the people there dislike you?Maybe there is something that you may try and fix?
but ya..i wouldnt disagree with peoples...these girls do seem mean, especially rejecting someone so directly...

Originally Posted by foggyday

reflect about urself..why do most of the people there dislike you?Maybe there is something that you may try and fix?
but ya..i wouldnt disagree with peoples...these girls do seem mean, especially rejecting someone so directly...

No, I don't really think that it has to do with the "me" or "myself"
It's been this way since...I was a small kid ..;;>_<