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kiarakiara 07-07-2007 03:43 PM

I would never get into a realationship with someone online like that. It wouild end up like shit. Beisdes did'nt you hear the story on the news. Thisn girl was online and was talking to this guy and he followed her home and he was a Police man. He told her parents and then she got grounded for 2 years from the computer! I mean 2 years I could'nt take it. I would literally kill my-sel;f before then. do not let it happen to you.

Alexandrus Gambino 07-07-2007 03:50 PM

Ack... I know how you feel. I used to have an online girlfriend. We were even in the same country. Though, it never worked out...

Chrysopoeia 07-08-2007 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Rvaya
Well first I'd ask how old are you? If your 18 or over then go meet him. You have to.
And of course meet in a public place the first time but of course your probably now all this n_n

I'm 17, going to be 18 at the end of the year. The guy is 18.


Er.... guess I'll add that we've just started making plans to meet up. Probably at the mall and his mother plans to come with him. Our mall is big, lot's of people always there, so nothing bad could really happen. Dun worry, I've got my cellphone and pepper-spray just in case. I'm also doing more background checks on him and his mother.

I'm not an idiot, I don't trust people easily and I'm extremely paranoid about my safety. I honestly just feel the need to meet this guy...

kin no megami 07-08-2007 05:10 PM

I have met people online and then met up with them in real life. Basically, you just have to trust your instincts. Meeting in a crowded public place in the daytime is smart. Just be careful and you might want to take a friend with you. Good luck! ^_^

M!ntyFreshness 07-08-2007 10:08 PM

-Your opinion on this situation of mine?
I've got mixed feelings on this type of thing.

-How would YOUR parents react if you were in this situation?

I would never even consider thinking about maybe telling them. They would never let me on the internet again.

-And your opinions on Internet relationships.

See question one. I don't think it's right. That's all.

P o c k y 07-09-2007 02:55 AM

Your opinion on this situation of mine?
I think it's fine ow his family and tell your parents.
I bet if you really told them how much you love him and everythig i don't think they will do anything.
How would YOUR parents react if you were in this situation?
I'm in this kind of situation i have been in a online/internet relationship for about a year and 4 months almost.
I told my parents about it a few week after. They think its better because we're teenagers and what not..-blehbleh-
But it also depens on how YOUR parents are.
And your opinions on Internet relationships.
My opinon on online relationships are that its fine.
I feel like its just having a real bf/gf because if you like the person you like him/her.
Also i think its a better chance to get to know someone.
Some people might be jerks and only wanna talk to the popular people.
An online relationships lets you express more about yourself.

DreamEmpress 07-09-2007 04:14 AM

I met my current boyfriend on myspace. The only reason I am with him is the fact he lives like five mins away from me. Go figure! We been together for a year. It is a great relationship.

I also dated online and it was the worst experience. I dated three guys and two of them I only said yes too because I was not thinking at all. I was stupid at the time but one guy I am still friends with. The other guy was through a personal friend of mine who said she knew him in real life. That was a mistake. He came up here to stay with me from Florida. At the time I was in an apartment with friends who did not mind him visiting. He stayed a week and it was the worse sistuation I ever been in. He brought no money and acted all upset when I had class. I mean he came out a time were I had classes for only two days and not that late. I ended up staying in class because I could not deal with him. He was out wondering Philly and called me countless times. I felt bad but then again I was trying so hard not to be around him. I found not attraction for him and his personality was not all that great.

Anyway meeting people online and then meeting in real life can be tricky. You really have no clue what the person is like until you met them in real life.

Arcaica 07-09-2007 03:18 PM

Internet relashionships:
Ive fallen in love twice over the internet, now, one with a guy same age as mine and twice with a younger one, but the bad thing is that we lived in diferente continents thats why we never met!

trinxie 07-11-2007 01:26 PM

Have you seen him on webcam? Talked to him over the phone?

-My opinion on your situation?
There's nothing wrong with it...You fell in love, and that's that. You've tolerated not being with him physically for 5 months. You say he's perfectly safe, so I'll just go with what you think. But like what DreamEmpress said, how people act online can be different to how they act in real life, so leave room for disappointment.


-How would YOUR parents react if you were in this situation?

They won't like it. They might change their mind though if they get to know the guy.

-And your opinions on Internet relationships.

I've gotten into a few of these... and after all of em failed, I just stopped. Most of them came about as boredom and loneliness though


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