ARGH! I CAN'T FRIGGIN STAND THEM!
 

MY PARENTS ARGUE EVERY SINGLE FRIGGIN DAY! I CAN'T STAND THEM! I CAN'T STAND THEIR VOICES WHEN THEY ARGUE! ARGHHH!!!!!!!!!!!


My parents argue about the littlest and the stupidest things. :x They don't even try therapy. :x D:< We're on a financial budget but STILL! I CAN'T STAND THEM! I'LL RUNAWAY IF I HAVE TO!

My dad is just stupid and violent. He's not fit for a dad. And my brother? He's so stupid. He's in 4th Grade and he already have a C+ on Reading..u___u

My mom and I are the ONLY normal people in this house. D< Except for the point that she really really cares about looks..

Help me, I'M BEGGING YOU! I CAN'T STAND THEM ANYMORE! And the TV's in the living room which is where they argue every single fucking time..:x

Get a TV for your room, and maybe some ear plugs... My parents fought ALL the time too, but they divorced about 3yrs back. Now my dad takes his anger out on me now.

They way I dealt was to fine something to do outside, in my room, reading a book on the porch... travel games... calling a friend and crashing there until they stop

I've grown up with a lot of yelling and abuse and everything, and out of all my experience, the best thing to do is just listen to music really loudly from a cd player or mp3 player. Blast it in your ears, and have something to occupy yourself with otherwise like a book or drawing something, that way your senses are being used up and you can't hear the screaming as much. Odds are if you'd try getting involved to quiet things down it would just backfire, so keeping quiet and being in your room doing something else is pretty much one of the best ways to go about it. If you get bored of that, go out for a walk or a bikeride, or go to a friends' house. Just do something so you're not as stressed out, because like I said, I know how it is and I know how frustrating it can be since you're the kid and can't do anything to control your parents' anger and rage towards each other or anything else.

Much luck~ just get out of there as soon as you can. <3

Erm, I would do that but my parents might not agree on it. o.o
Osero-Ok. <3 Hopefully I won't go deaf though. x___o

But I have a habit of singing with the music. ;-;

Loud arguments and tense environments make me shake and turn me pretty much useless. :[ It's definitely not a pleasant atmosphere to be around.

I hope things get better for you soon. ;_;

Thanks! ;-;

i know what you r going throuhg my parent went through that stage when my dad was cheating with another woman
ya i had to tell lot of people so i could get the weight of stress off my shoulder i cryed alot also so just stick it, you will make it through!

That stinks. Dx

Thanks a lot! <3

Book and cd player in your room or something. Or go for a walk when they start in on it if you can.

Kay. <3 Thanks!

My parents argue all the time too. Usually over stupid things like my dad complaining that my mom has to go to the bathroom too many times or if she's trying to take a nap when she's tired. My dad is violent too but I'm taller than him now and he hasn't put a finger on me for a couple years now.

I think you should try yelling at them and say "Gosh do you always have to scream at each other over such petty things!" That is if your parents won't beat you up after giving them taht reality check. It usually works for me now. I show them that I hate it when they do that and that I won't take sides. Or if you're close to your mom, you could tell her about your feelings.

I always feel stressed out when they yell. I feel like the world's ending in slow motion. I want to runaway sometimes too but I'm used to it now. Try to listen to music and put it on loud. Like listen to clam music when you're taking a bath or something. The problem won't be solved but you can try to forget it for a while. After all, you only have to sopprt them for a few more years and then you can walk out.

I used to be terrified of my dad because he would hit me while screaming at me math problems. I remember when I was in 3rd grade he kicked me in the back because I didn't understand fractions. So now since I'm older, I have more guts to defy him. Good luck! And don't do anything irrational because I'm sure they love you! Your dad might just be frustrated with the way he's living in his life that's why he has a violent character.

My parents do too.

It's so annoying...I mean, can't they cooperate just for a week or so?

When they start arguing, I just go off to my room, and turn up the radio. Or I'd pull out a book and read.

Basically, I think the best solution is to ignore it. I've learned that it doesn't pay off to try to go in and stop it.

I definitely know how you feel. Both of my parents have short tempers and are prideful, and they can go at eachother's necks for hours on end. Even if its both their fault they keep pushing and pushing until they get sick of yelling at eachother. Then, they turn to me. If they can't yell at eachother, they always turn to me and then bring up things that happened years ago. Or if they can't remember anything, they just tell me that I should get my lazy butt off the computer one of these days. No matter what the problem is, they can always blame it on the computer.

I've taught myself to drown our their voices and think of something else, some better in my head. Or if they scream at me for no reason whatsoever, I also tend to strike back. Don't do that, as it'll only cause them to unite and both take their temper out on you, if your parents happen to be like mine. I swear, sometimes, I feel like the object that they howl at just so that they have something to do.

well seeing as i'm a smart ass - as long as its verbal- get right in the middle if its a stupid argument

ok and this might sound kind of wierd but if they have been arguing for a long time- then pick the parent you are closer to and try (gently) asking why you parents aren't divorced-
with any luck you can get some deflective ammo you can yell out- for example i used this one " MOM for crying out loud! You said you loved his quirky habits! that was his charm! SO JUST DEAL WITH THE FACT THAT A QUIRKY HABIT OF HIS IS TO HANG HIS SOCKS IN YOUR BATHROOM!!!!!!!"
might not want to use mine though because that was a weird situation in itself. lol

my advice is odd i'm aware but if u need to talk u can write me

I would be the adult for once, and I would seriously tell them to shut up. They are acting like total babies if every arguement turns into a screaming match. They need to realize that they have two children in their house that both need their love, not hate.

What could also be the problem is that they are around eachother wayyyyyyy tooo much time together and get on eachothers nerves. I suggest spending time away from eachother so in the end of the day, they are happy to see eachother. This is a common problem for adult couples. They could work it out so that When one goes to work, the other one stays home with the kids, and then switch it off, and then there will be time at night for just them together.

-Ai 8)

Sounds like my parents.

Ended in divorce when I was 8.

Ugh. I used to wear earmuffs to sleep the nights both my parents were home.

Try to find ways to block it out. Whenever you think they are about to start up, go into your bedroom to listen to some music or read. Maybe go see your friends or play out side.

As for your brother, offer to help him with his homework. If he sees some ways to get better, he will get higher grades.